Family & Relationships - 17 December 2007

Occasionally it happens with most friends and family.

2007-12-17 04:17:47 · 3 answers · asked by James E Lewis AKA choteau 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

ive been dateing my girlfriend for a month now and i love her to death me and her have so much in common my friends say that i am the next to get married to. ive known her for like three months and i know more about her then her friends shes been with for ever and she knows everything about me to. I feel like we are perfect for eachother and everytime im with her i feel like my life is complet.

2007-12-17 04:17:20 · 20 answers · asked by LCPL of Marines 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am feeling so low this year. My boyfriend and I broke up, and I am not really seeing anyone now. My mother is addicted to pain pills, and is totally losing her mind. She called me up and accused me of breaking into her house to steal five pills and fifteen dollars! I live an hour and a half away! What in the hell is she talking about? Well, she doesn't believe me, and now she refuses to speak to me. She has done weird stuff before, but this takes it. I am so hurt by her accusations, and she is really the only family I have, because my dad remarried this chick almost my age, and they are always on vacation. Everytime I hear a holiday commercial I get pissed and sad. What should I do about this?

2007-12-17 04:10:59 · 7 answers · asked by Gigi 2 in Family

My hubby and I have been married 3yrs. We have a daughter who just turned 1 this fall. We have busy schedules, I work parttime as a nurse, and stay with our daughter (per his request) and he works a day job that keeps him gone 10hrs a day mon-fri and then works in the evenings/weekends as a firefighter/paramedic. Things have been rocky, not much going on with action in the bedroom, he always says he's tired. I understand and respect that, but so am I. He told me he's "too preoccupied in his head with work & things" to be intimate. Then he tells me that he wouldnt blame me if I found someone else it would only be his fault for not being around.
WHY WOULD A MAN SAY THAT TO HIS WIFE????
I'm confused, does he want me to? Does he want me to and then have a biblical way out of our marriage? Does he just NOT want me that bad? Does he have something else going on? ANY help/advice is appreciated. Husbands/Wives, bring it on..I'm clueless. Other's say he's not himself, but he wont talk to me

2007-12-17 04:10:39 · 32 answers · asked by marcie1997 3 in Marriage & Divorce

she lives in a group home and she is 24 years old.and her father keeps telling me she isn't supposed to be dating anyone.what should i do ?

2007-12-17 04:07:54 · 12 answers · asked by dodge_ram_pickup_guy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we were together for almost 4 years, he has never been violent with me or my kids. last night, we got into an argument & he went into a rage. he drove my 6 year old son & me around in his truck for over an hour, screaming & tryin to run off the road & into ditches & trees. he wouldnt let us get out & threatened killing all 3 of us over & over. i finally was able to get out the truck when he ran over me, knocking me to the ground. he then threatened if i didnt get back in the truck he would kill my son in front of me. i reluctantly got back in & then he started grabbing at my arm & head yelling & screaming. i was finally able to get free but couldnt get my son out the truck. i called the cops & they made a report so i could file for a protective order. he had taken my son to my parents without harming him. i have packed up all his things & we have not spoken since. i dont want to talk to him or see him ever again. however we live in the same neighborhood. ive never been alone & afraid

2007-12-17 04:05:24 · 30 answers · asked by meallmeallthetime 3 in Family

For instance, I have noticed that a lot of women would say "Oh, I don't like shy guys because XYZ". But, when an attractive shy guy shows up in their life, then they're all totally into him. Another example, women will also say "I don't like guys who are shorter than me because XYZ". However, when a rich good-looking guy who is shorter than them shows up in their life, then all of a sudden, they change their minds and they all want him.

The above only presents two of the many examples on how women contradict themselves. So, why do most women contradict themselves?

2007-12-17 04:04:36 · 11 answers · asked by Mr. Main Event 5 in Singles & Dating

I dont want to be a kid anymore. I hate it. I hate being bossed around, I hate not being understanded, and I want to amke my own descions.

I get really deperessed because of this. I feel I am ready to grow up, but its taking too slow.

2007-12-17 04:03:25 · 9 answers · asked by KELLi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife and i agreed upon of terminating our marriage, as it is not working out at all. but we have a son, and we don't want any expensive lawyer's fees and a long hearing. we also agreed upon and will be talking about "who gets what? and how?", so i think we're gonna filing for an uncontested divorce.
I have supported her since 2003, she was taking home schooling and i was wokring 2 jobs so i could support her. this is very complex, so cut things short, last she was working but got layed off and she wanted to go back to school, and until now i am still working two jobs to suspport everything, and she's complaining, about me not doing anything at home, not helping out with laundyr and stuff, not cleaning the house and everything...but i cooked for them for a week after i get home around midnight. and sometimes when i'm at home i do some laundry too, i don't even have time for myself anymore, i don't go out with my friends, infact i don't have a social life, and when it come to her....

2007-12-17 04:02:52 · 23 answers · asked by flingpad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

emotionally or physically

2007-12-17 04:02:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If I treat a girl like she should be treated, give her everything she needs, and respect her all that happens is she thinks I'm a nice guy but more of a friend. Why do we put those who treat us well in more of a friend-zone than in the relationship-able zone?

2007-12-17 04:02:02 · 2 answers · asked by GluedHands 5 in Singles & Dating

When dealing with men, what types of behaviour makes your creep alert go off? Is it how they look, talk, act, or just negative energy that they give off?

2007-12-17 04:01:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why would they ask me that?

2007-12-17 04:01:38 · 6 answers · asked by 797979 3 in Singles & Dating

Since divorces are sooooo expensive, we were wondering if anyone knew of a site that offers guidelines to type and file your own, Our court house offers a pamplet but it is hard to follow and proved to be useless.I know there are lots of web sites and some may be bogus. i just thought someone might have had this experience.

2007-12-17 04:00:35 · 5 answers · asked by sjfowler01 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why would my best friend act the way hes acting he was talking to me and i went to my locker and he followed me and i didnt realize it for a minute but then he walked me to the bus doors and he doesnt ever ride the bus( my lockeris on the other side of the school from the bus doors) . the next day he was already at my locker when i got there and again walked with me to the doors. then the next day he was with one of his friend infront of me on the stairs so i didnt say anything to him, themn when i thought he was around the corner (he wasnt) i looked over and he saw me look over at him he came running over to my locker and walked me to the doors. i think he knows i really like him and idk if he likes me back, but why would he ditch one of his best friends to come with me???

2007-12-17 03:57:58 · 5 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

But they never say anything to me..Guys are always starring at me where ever I go. But not one guy ever makes the attempt to talk to me. I just want to know why do guys do that to me.

2007-12-17 03:56:44 · 14 answers · asked by goodies100 5 in Singles & Dating

here is the situation, we stop dating 2 months ago, the reason we stop dating is that she's dealing with emotional problems due to her last relationship of 8 years in which her x confess that he cheated on her the whole entire time. in which she's not ready for anything serious. so we stop but 2 weeks ago, we bump into each other and sparks reignited, we hung out the entire week and weekend, then into last week she became cold, toward the end of the week she began to ask me to hang out, we hung out this weekend so i decided to get her something for x mas, i got her something not cheap but not expensive something that she will love. so last night i went to give it to her, she said NO NO NO i cant accept this, I said don t worry about it, its just a gift, i brought everyone gifts so its not a big deal she said Yeah but i didnt get u anything (i knew this) and i told her dont worry about it later on she left me a message saying i dont know how much to thank u

what do u think about this

2007-12-17 03:53:12 · 12 answers · asked by simple J 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-17 03:47:55 · 10 answers · asked by Sergiu 2 in Friends

I just wanted to know because it is getting me dead!! LOL

2007-12-17 03:45:24 · 17 answers · asked by Marissa LaGana 1 in Friends

We are both born and live in the Uk. We have been together for just over two years. Latley he has been telling me we have to break up because he says we cant get married in the future. We have talked about this before, not properly but I said that I love him and want to be with him. Recently he has told me to find someone else and to go and be with him. Then the next minute he acts normal and tells me he always wants to be with me and talks about living together?? I am confused and so hurt by all this. He then said if i converted eveything would be okay. But would it though? would his family accept me? I am not interested in another man I love him and so I dont know what to do. He told me he doesnt want me to hate him later in life when he has to get married and he cant be with me anymore and then I will be left with no one. Please could you help me and give me some good advice on what I can do.

2007-12-17 03:45:02 · 36 answers · asked by Miss T 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you date a young man/woman who could still hear all right but he/she struggled a bit. I am just asking if people would tollerate a little extra effort to help their partner out.

2007-12-17 03:43:30 · 12 answers · asked by Why does everyone hate me? 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and this girl (29 and 25) were togther for 3 months. She recently broke up with e because she lost feelings. She claims it was as if i was always on her tail. But i was just being there for her because she was stressed out with work, school and life. She stated numerous times that her space was important to her. I have been asking her back but she claims she needed time to think and for me to just be cool. I dont know what got into her she todl me she wanted to marry me etc.. Her and my family are shocked they thought we were it. Now she wants to remain friends and still hang out. She told me that she lost emotional and physical attraction to me in a way. But maybe in the future she will get back with me. She knows i love her. Could it have been she is just fed up with all teh attention i gave her or can she be totally done. We never had any issues in our relationship she and i agree we had a good relationship. Any help advice please?

2007-12-17 03:42:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so forgiveness is not an option! I was such a nerd when i was going out with him.. i had no friends.. he is one of those people who wears express fashion clothes, parties alot, and is really smart.. I really want revenge.. what should i do?

2007-12-17 03:39:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend broke up, she gave me my key back and put all of my stuff from out of her apartment on the front door of my apartment. I broke off the relationship the best and most polite way I could, because I'm young and I don't want to be tied down in a relationship. She also gave me my key back during that time, so now that we are friends, she 's becoming clingy. I'm going to visit my family for 2 weeks and now she expects me to give her a key to my apt after I changed the locks. It's hard because I feel uncomfortable giving anyone the key to my luxurious bach. pad ;-) I know this will crush her if I tell her that I don't want to give her my key. Should I trust her to give it to her and owe it to her? Am I being an a**hole, or should I just bite the bullet and grow some balls?

2007-12-17 03:37:50 · 26 answers · asked by 2Cool4U 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think that there is something wrong for a guy who is not into touchy feeling holiday crap? I am sort of the same way at times to. It really doensnt bother me whether if he is a gift card giver or not.

2007-12-17 03:29:27 · 2 answers · asked by Contessa 2 in Singles & Dating

I've known my ex for three years and we have had our ups and downs, on again off again relationship. Every year during Xmas I buy her something and send it to her. We haven't talked in over a month and the last time I bought her an expensive gift and I didn't get a thank you, Merry Xmas nothing but of course she kept it. We started talking again and got back together and we recently broke up again. I feel that if I don't do something I'm a failure and if I do, I'm an idiot. What should I do?

2007-12-17 03:27:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How would if someone was just dating you because you had a good situation and not because they loved you? How would you know if they were just with you because you had a good job and money. I was dating someone who earned less than half of what I did but I wasn't sure if he was just dating me because I had more than he did. He was lazy and not motivated to try to improve his situation. He was used to living off the State and getting handouts from his rich parents.

2007-12-17 03:24:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I invited my sister to move with me on August, because I was living with my 12 yrs old daughter and I had one extra bedroom. We decided that we were going to share the bills. In October her husband moved too, which makes a family of five, plus me and my daughter seven. The problem is that her three kids, (18, 12, 5) do not want to share the tvs, (which are mine), so all day we have 3 tvs on. This has caused that my electric bill went up twice and my sister do not accept that she has responsibility with it. She also bought an extra tv for her room. My electricity will be disconnected tommorrow, so I'm thinking of selling the TVs to pay the bill because she used her money to buy expensive xmas presents for her children and her husband for his other son. I can not afford to get my daughter what she wants for xmas and I am really upset. The lights are always on and I told them to turn them off when they're not using them, the same with the tvs, but looks like they don't care.

2007-12-17 03:23:38 · 17 answers · asked by /\/\ /\ /\/ U? 2 in Family

My wife and I are going through a divorce and in the temp decree she was awarded the house and the property... I moved out but was still required to pay all the bills and mortgage, she doesn't pay a dime. Now I find out she doesn't even live there and has a new apartment. I'm concerned about the house and the property... especially because it's winter and we get tons of snow (the house remains unplowed after 2 - 10" storms within a week). I have a lawyer. I've told him. He's passe and trying not to make waves with the judge... but my house is unlived in.... freezing pipes, theft, etc... you can see my worry.

2007-12-17 03:22:54 · 6 answers · asked by cps68500 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a single mother and i don't feel that i can get into a relatonship with n e one because i have a kid and i don't think that that person would accept me and my son i am wrong for feeling this way?

2007-12-17 03:21:54 · 40 answers · asked by britt 2 in Other - Family & Relationships