How would I know if he was just with me for money?

Question

How would if someone was just dating you because you had a good situation and not because they loved you? How would you know if they were just with you because you had a good job and money. I was dating someone who earned less than half of what I did but I wasn't sure if he was just dating me because I had more than he did. He was lazy and not motivated to try to improve his situation. He was used to living off the State and getting handouts from his rich parents.

Answer 1

Chances are that fella was just after the easiest route of exsistence, typically of the breed. You were convinate, but I'm more then sure it was a little bit deeper then just money. But two very important things to understand about people inorder to know for sure there not after your money... hunnie, heheh sry, with out futher....

1. Deepth of relationship: not an easy thing, but the best way to know for sure is the intensity of the feels and emotions shared, no tears, chances are, no luck.....

2. Purpose in life: this is the moral compass a person holds within themselves, finding it isn't always easy because people lie about it. They'll say church, money, sex, its deeper, trust that, but most people are lost to it.

So I hope you can see, if a relationship isn't in deep waters, chances are it exsist for shallow reasons, such is the human heart..... but people always have MULTI-ple reasons behind what they do, so NEVER always that simple.....