I dont want to be a kid anymore. I hate it. I hate being bossed around, I hate not being understanded, and I want to amke my own descions.
I get really deperessed because of this. I feel I am ready to grow up, but its taking too slow.
2007-12-17 04:03:25 · 9 answers · asked by KELLi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You will grow up soon enough, trust me. Then you will sometimes wish you didn't have all those decisions to make.
2007-12-17 09:14:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in a hurry to grow up. Making your own decisions means living w/ the consequences too, also do you have a job? bills come w/ that. I felt that way when i was your age but now i have responsibility, bills, i can't even buy my boyfriend of 4 yrs a x-mass gifts because of all the bills, rent, food it's not as great as you think, go to college and have fun before it's too late. xo
2007-12-17 12:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are preaching to the choir I have felt like this all my life, it takes so long to be fully independent and it so depressing to be stuck in one moment where you feel you can move on or move forward. Life is bound to be slow all you can to is follow your goals set up goals for yourself, for what you want and make it happen Its not easy but you have to push yourself to be independent. Ive been pushing myself since i was 13 I'm 18 now and I'm almost there, I'm in college, i work, save money, I'm writing a novel and when I publish that sucker i plan on moving on to bigger and better things, you just have to strive for it and no matter how hard it is to wait, its worth it, its worth the tears and the depression. I promise in the end you'll be the winner and everyone else will lose.
2007-12-17 12:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by Ding Dang Ya'll! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is not a comfortable thing until you get to the age of 50.
When I was younger.. I wanted to be older and then when I was in my thirties.. I wanted to go back in time to be young again. unfortunate life education takes time. And all teach you in time to enjoy where you are in life.
If your young..be glad you don't have to worry about the cost of living ,bills, govt decisions, broken hearts.
You will be there soon enough. Play and enjoy it well you can.
2007-12-17 13:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal.. All kids want to grow up and be in charge of their own life. But you should appreciate your childhood as you can...
No work, no responsibilities, no bills.. taxes...
You are much more free... you should have fun while you can...
2007-12-17 12:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody goes through it when there a kid it will pass trust me i felt the same way when i was younger and it all got better BC my mom figured out that i wasn't a Lil kid anymore and now we have a great relationship
2007-12-17 12:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by jessi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there before, now I wish I was a kid again. Just think about bills, bills, and more bills. Then you will enjoy your life.
2007-12-17 12:13:32 · answer #7 · answered by Jamonican 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in due time you will not be bossed around, in due time
you will be understood,and in due time you will make
your own decissions.
as you get older and show your parents wise decission
making all of what you want will come true.
be patient, hang in there, and good luck.
2007-12-17 12:19:40 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its easy... stand up for yourself but more importantly enjoy your youth but it doesnt last long
2007-12-17 12:16:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋