ive been dateing my girlfriend for a month now and i love her to death me and her have so much in common my friends say that i am the next to get married to. ive known her for like three months and i know more about her then her friends shes been with for ever and she knows everything about me to. I feel like we are perfect for eachother and everytime im with her i feel like my life is complet.
2007-12-17 04:17:20 · 20 answers · asked by LCPL of Marines 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you need more time to get to know each other. Marriage is a huge commitment. Take it slow.
2007-12-17 04:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by Purple 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can never know everything about a person, especially in that short of a time. My husband and I were friends in high school (4 years), dated for 2 years (1 year engaged) and have been married for 5 years and we still are finding out new things about each other. Such as, he didn't know I was terrified to speak in public until I took a required speech class. It just never came up. It's little stuff that might not make a big difference but still is something that he never knew.
Wait and see if this is more than "new love" and will stand the test of time. Enjoy being around her but put off popping the question for at least a year.
2007-12-17 12:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The difference between love and infatuation is tested over time, it is better to be in courtship for at least 6 month,Love is a very important ingredient of marriage however It take more than love to make a marriage u really need to know and understand yourselves
2007-12-17 12:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by BigJoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you only think you know everything about her. You've been dating for one month? Wait until this is a year and then maybe think about marriage. There are so many situations you can't possibly have experience yet. All kinds of things can change your views. TAKE YOUR TIME
2007-12-17 12:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would consider marriage, but maybe have a long engagement to give yourselves more time to get to know eachother. If you feel as strongly as you say you do then you can wait to make sure its right for you. Best of Luck
2007-12-17 12:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by kam727 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to wait a little bit longer to be sure. Marriage is a big step. You won't want to rush it b/c you could even scare her away. If my b/f asked me to marry him after 1 month I would most likely say no unless I was pregnant or something.
2007-12-17 12:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by ஐ♥Vanessa♥ஐ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well its awesome you found someone like that. but i woundnt rush into marriage. due to this is a new relationship for the both of you. if you both love eachouther that much. i'm sure you will both feel that way in a year. ..and you dont want to scare her by asking her that, this soon. give it time. take this slow rushing into things , may not end up being the best thing.
2007-12-17 12:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by nvywife72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it if you think its right, but remember that you cannot in any way shape or form know everything about a person or even know that person after just a few months. It does not work like that.
2007-12-17 12:21:10 · answer #8 · answered by fantasy gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was asking me to marry him the first month we started dating!!! I thought that he was absolutely insane. But after like three or four months i finally said yes. I love him so much!!!! If you feel that she is the one don't hold back follow your heart and ask her to marry you. Good luck and God bless you two!
2007-12-17 12:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by .:♥Stepherz♥:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it at least a year. The rest of your life is a long time to regret about a decision.
2007-12-17 12:26:36 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋