Family & Relationships - 17 December 2007

I was w/ my now ex-bf for 2 months. I was falling in love w/ him and I know he felt strongly for me too. The relationship got too serious too fast wayyy too soon and he got scared and couldn't handle it and broke up w/ me. (after an amazing w/e together). He also thought I was too needy (which I was acting and I regret it). He said he was falling behind in school b/c he wanted to spend all of his time w/ me. He also kept saying he was feeling so overwhelmed. We broke up a week ago and I want so badly to talk to him and have tried to call and text him more times than I should have w/ no repsonse from him. He has a good heart and is not a player. He was single before me for 2 years and is very guarded towared women.
He has said a few times that I am really good for him and motivate him to be better. Whenever we were apart more than a day he would tell me how much he really misses me. Just a week before we broke up i was sleepign so didn't answer his call and he panicked.....

2007-12-17 04:59:16 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does anyone have any ideas for my christmas dinner.no turkey or ham.this is my first year cooking for my family at my home.i want entree ideas recipes appetizers anything...please...thanks,merry christmas!!!

2007-12-17 04:53:49 · 6 answers · asked by lisa l 2 in Family

i am conmfortable about my sexuality and i'm only sexually attracted to men, but i fell in love with a girl. i don't hav any sexual attraction to her or desires, i just fell in love. does this mean i'm not straight?

2007-12-17 04:52:11 · 15 answers · asked by baybi dohl 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

has one sister 34yr (but she act's like a kid) and I do not get along with her and I am not sure if I should invite her to my wedding and how I should deal with her during the holidays? she is all about drama she has 4 kids who she does not take care of or live with because it get' in the way of her bar time (my first problem) She has always been rude to me (ex.she will say hi to everyone but me) and last week we had a family dinner and after her last very rude comment to me I confronted her alone and said this is not the time or place for this and what ever she has against me drop it and I even said I was sorry for what ever made her mad. THEN she continued to run her mouth one rude comment after another. She finally said to stay away form her kids and for the 1st time,I said sometihng rude but true I said your not a mother and that since she does not take care of the kids she could make that call, then she hit me!The fight got broaken up but I have had it! what shuold I do?

2007-12-17 04:51:49 · 4 answers · asked by kirsten m 1 in Family

In trying to resurrect a friendship. My girlfriend slept with another man . She said it was a one off, and she was very drunk. I dumped her because I did not believe her. That was 3 months ago. Her friends say she is very depressed and wants to get back with me. She has sent dozens of texts, which I ignore. Dont really know what to do.

2007-12-17 04:51:17 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i broke up w/ my boyfriend becuz i moved far away..and i thought it wasn't fair for the both of us..
but when i came back to visit ( since i still have family in that same area ) he admited that he still REALLY liked me & no one else.. so we kinda went out for the time i was there.. but then we both decided to end it and just be friends
becuz i was going back home ( far away ) but see he never e-mails me or calls like he use too.. 1 e-mail on my bday
but it was short .. & i thought my feelings 4 him were gone..
yes i care about him ( but i thought as only a friend )
but i just keep thinking about him.. and i have dreams about
him.. what do you think is going on?? am i acting this way
becuz i miss having a boyfriend.. becuz no one at my new school interests me.. or do i rele like him you know in that special way??
the last time we broke up..
he said he still loves me..
but he isn't talking to me now:(
and i miss him sooooo much..
and i think about him alot........
but i'm afraid to contact him..
i feel its too late.. if he really loves
me as he says he does.. why wont HE
try to contact me??????

2007-12-17 04:50:59 · 7 answers · asked by ♡ 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 4 yrs now, he is 45 i'm 32. I'm not American and different race. He treats me like an anaimal. I do everything for him, laundry,clean after him, wash dishes, pick up his clothes on the floor. If he takes something out of the fridge i have to put it back....he leaves dishes and snaks where he had been sitting. He has anger issues he knows that..but blames me for everything..he claims i ignore him. I dont ignore him at all, he claims that i dont communicate i do..but he hates everything i say..but he never says anything only when he is mad...i used to cook...must admit that i'm not a great cook but i do try....when he does not like my food...he gets so upset and either throw food in the sink or leaves it on the table and goes to sleep. when i dont cook he complains. I like to go to the movies and he hates my movie choices and gets so mad while watching movies and end up not tlkn to me. I decided to stop picking movies and let him pick...and again he is not happy.

2007-12-17 04:49:08 · 67 answers · asked by Boom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are having a an open bar at a banquet facility. Are we responsible if anything happens in terms of drinking or driving, or is the facility?

2007-12-17 04:44:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

SOME LOOK I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY BOYFRIEND GOT ME SOMETHING FOR CHRISTMAS BUT I CAN'T GET HIM ANYTHING AND IF I DON'T THEN I'LL FEEL REALLY BAD. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? DO YOU THINK THAT HE WILL GET MAD ?

2007-12-17 04:44:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you were away on a trip, would you sleep with him?

Be honest

2007-12-17 04:43:17 · 32 answers · asked by MOs fishin 6 in Singles & Dating

She says she knows she made a terrible mistake and the fear of loosing me has made her realize what she really wants. I still love her deeply and we have a two year old as well. She's been lying to me about it for several months. I had a suspicion before and confronted her, of course she lied. This last time though I got solid evidence.

I guess my question is, should I forgive her because she is being sincere or not believe her because she's just afraid and saying what I want to hear.

2007-12-17 04:43:05 · 29 answers · asked by Here&Now 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-17 04:35:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son who is 11 yrs old he likes to get together with his friends and watch WWe games, he also likes to play such games on on his PSP. I have watched a few times with him but as parents I am concerened that it is not good for 10 year olds to watch he keeps telling me it is all fake, and continues to watch it. Can some one please tell me if it has any bad effects, or if I should be warned of any effect it might have on his brain? I am very concerned and do not agree but he cribs and cries for it and to keep peace in the house I let him watch it. Please any more information on these games would be helpful.

2007-12-17 04:35:00 · 1 answers · asked by Ruchita B 1 in Friends

My wife and I have been married for 11 years. We have (3) children. She is 31 and I am 38 years old. She is a wonderful wife in every aspect, but one. Also, she is a wonderful loving mother to our children. She does desire and enjoy intimacy, kissing, hugging, romance etc.

She tells me that she is fully contented with our marriage and relationship. I told her that I still need to release my desire through masturbation, which she understands.

I am ok with masturbating to satisfy my desire, even for the long-term. She is too good of a wife to let one issue, even a big one hurt our relationship.

2007-12-17 04:34:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-17 04:31:24 · 12 answers · asked by Golf Chick 3 in Marriage & Divorce

me in-front the whole entire church!
so my grandmother is very religeous, so she doesn't like the fact that i wear sleevless shirts. whenever i do, wear them she gets in a fit and says i'm naked and whatever. she doesn't like it when i relax my hear because she feels as though god made me with kinky hair. and when i grew my natural hair back, and wore it in a puff, she yells and says i look like a crazy person and how my hair looks like a birds nest. she doesn't like when i go to visit my cousin because she feels that a woman should keep her feet in her house and learn how to cook. any thing i do upset her! so i got fed up and told my aunt to tell her that i wasn't coming back to her house. now my grandmother was mad so she decides to blow me up infront of the whole church talking about how i'm not coming to her house anymore how i left her all alone and disowned her and other people have to stay with her and the list gos on. i've been following this religeon since i was 9. now i'm 18.

2007-12-17 04:31:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-17 04:31:07 · 34 answers · asked by orange c 4 in Marriage & Divorce

could a second try with ur ex be better than the 1st? i am 22 and my ex is 29. he sometimes thinks of getting back together but right now he's stressed with school and all. i met a very handsome latin man in the summer he is 32 he is kind gentle he's not married however he said i was too young for him he wanted to start as friends. i guess there's no point in waiting for him since him and i may not happen. my ex would cancel dates at the last second but he doesn't do it as much anymore.could a second try with an ex boyfriend be better?

2007-12-17 04:31:06 · 23 answers · asked by Melanie P 1 in Singles & Dating

This woman sold me a Standard Taser Device that I want my wife to use for her protection, but won't that scare my wife into thinking she's not safe all the time? I don't want her to be scared, but I'd like her to be safe.

2007-12-17 04:29:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We had a pretty significant snow here and I live 26 mi away from work. I packed my cellular phone, clothes, cosmetics and all the things I thought I might need if I became stranded at work and took off. It was slow travel, but I managed to get to the interstate where I drove 35 mi per hour for 30 miles to my destination.
I called my significant other of 6 yrs to let him know I made it and he did not answer. He didnt answer for over 14 hours. He said he was sleeping.
I cannot believe he shut his ringer off. Why would you shut the ringer off on your phone when your girlfriend is traveling thru a snowstorm to work? Is he just an idiot or just could care less?
I would like to know what you think the issue is here. Me or him being a dump asb again?

2007-12-17 04:28:53 · 12 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

This will be our 8 year anniversary. I just don't know what to get him. Any ideas?

2007-12-17 04:26:04 · 6 answers · asked by monnmak 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know what to do, I do love my fiance, but things have been defineitly on the rocks. We have 2 children which make it even more complicated. I'm most of the times not happy with him anymore, but with children I just can't walk away, plus er are best friends. Ever sence I met his friend I can't stop thinking about him, I feel like when he is around me he is constantly flirting with me and I know my fiance see's it. I try to ignore it, but then again I like it. I feel really bad and don't know what to do. I don't want to cross that line, but I can't help but wounder, what if? not to mention my kids adore my fiances friend to death. HELP!!!

2007-12-17 04:26:01 · 4 answers · asked by Maddy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 04:25:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My parents invited their friends and their son (37) for Christmas Eve Dinner and now I do not want to go. It will just be the six of us, my husband is not going. Their friends are boring and can be mean and their son gives me the creeps. Also they are serving the same dinner that I am serving the next day for my husband’s family. They did not want to come to our house for that dinner because they do care for his family. Am I being selfish? Should I go?

2007-12-17 04:25:22 · 16 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My last question referred to the porn which made alot of men mad but I don't care I'm still firm it's cheating. But ontop of this why do some men feel it is appropriate to cuss out their wife and other things that shouldn't be done when feeling pervoked. Then on the other hand u dare to call them a name right back or defend ur own honor they backhand u like a little BEATCH

2007-12-17 04:25:19 · 24 answers · asked by Lilith 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my ex boyfriend are obviously broken up but the thing is that we're still friends and still talk and everything just not as often as we used to or as much as we want to.
But the thing is its been 2 months and we both are still sooo much in love with each other but he doesnt want to be with me again or yet because we're in a long distance of each other, Ohio and Texas.
He is frustrating me and confusing me as to what he really wants: friendship or a couple.
He claims that he wants to move on; but he cant. and thats just how i feel.
The question is should i keep talking to him or stop?
i really dont want to because i think itll just make us both even more upset but i still would like some advice on what i should do.
Thanks so much!!

2007-12-17 04:25:11 · 27 answers · asked by beautiful_disatrious_lover 1 in Singles & Dating

Well for Xmas our family drew names and I drew my step mom. My sister said she would like something from Bath and Body Works. So I went there and got her a basket full of stuff. The question is, since we drew for gifts at $50 price range and the nicest basket they had only cost me 37$, should I get her another gift as well or is the basket good?

2007-12-17 04:24:44 · 5 answers · asked by Yeppers! 2 in Family

I booked a ticket for my daughter to visit MI over spring break yesterday. I am paying for it and she is going to visit her grandmother. I thought it would be a good change for her and she is off for one week anyway.

My ex-husband has left me about 4 voicemails and said that he does not want her traveling to MI over spring break. He feels that she should be focusing on school, piano and her ACT. She is retaking the ACT in Feb before spring break.

He thinks that we are trying to kick her out of the house. Its not that at all. I am literally shaking after listening to his angry, mean voice on the voicemail. He is very, very angry.

I don't know how to handle it. I am thinking of canceling the ticket because her father does not want her to go. I try to do good things for my daugher who is 15 and I get flack from her dad???

He is also upset because I have not purchased a piano for my daughter to play on. He has asked me to..

2007-12-17 04:24:05 · 5 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys - married, single, dating, etc etc would they really ALWAYS say yes to sex with anyone? Please be open and honest. I don't believe they would. But am I nieve?

2007-12-17 04:22:50 · 20 answers · asked by jval 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my friends (well i dont know if they are my friends) call me a slut and hoe and they tell boys that i will do things with them when i wont. wat do i do??

HELP!!

2007-12-17 04:19:44 · 30 answers · asked by Red-Head Hottiee<33 1 in Friends