my friends (well i dont know if they are my friends) call me a slut and hoe and they tell boys that i will do things with them when i wont. wat do i do??
HELP!!
2007-12-17 04:19:44 · 30 answers · asked by Red-Head Hottiee<33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
they're just hatin. let the haters HATE =)
2007-12-17 04:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your in High school or middle school, and they are probably jealous. There is also a difference between your true friends that you can talk to about anything and trust and there are the people you talk to in the halls or in class. Sounds like they are not the people you can stand by in a time of need. A true friend would tell you if you were being kinda skanky to your face but not to other people or guys. People start rumors for no reason at all and it stinks. Thing is to not live up to it. If you are doing things that give them a reason to call you names are you doing it cause you enjoy or just like the attention and thrill of it. Be safe either way.
2007-12-17 12:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by waterbaby2g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not doing anything with them then don't worry about it - because the person who tries will realize that you're not the type. However, if you're are sleeping around with anyone and everyone and just because...then yes, you're in that category and yes, you do need to change because of unwanted, unplanned pregnancy, AIDS, HIV, herpes, syphilis, gonnorhea, Trick....and all the other stds that you can get from sharing yourself with so many people and then the worst part is that no one will honor or respect you because you're so easy and free with your body. Then when do want a real boyfriend how will you get one if you're so buys doing it to any and everyone - so change is necessitated and if it is the the first answer, your so called friends are jealous of you and they are not really your friends.
2007-12-17 12:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by justaboutpeace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you shouldn't care what others say and also real friends wouldn't call you bad names anyway.if you feel like you need to change, then you should start by getting new clothes (that aren't revealing) to make sure you aren't giving people the wrong impression of you.Also don't have multiple boyfriends or anything;)Really just try to laugh off these comments because you know what you are and aren't sweetie:)
Merry Christmas:)
(don't hang out with these mean people anymore)
2007-12-17 12:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by superstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this but their not your friends then if they have to say such awful things about you especially to guys. If I were you I'd move on and try to find a new group of friends. Even if you were really a **** and they were true friends they wouldn't bring it up to you like that or have that much of a problem with it. We've all met people that are like that even though were not friends with them though you still don't make those comments to them because it's just not necessary. Your friends need to grow up and stop being jerks because even though they find this funny it's really not.
2007-12-17 12:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means, leave that circle of so called friends alone. Friends don't say such cruel things about each other. They are evidently trying to send you a message that they don't really care about you. Distance yourself from them and surround yourself with positive people.
2007-12-17 12:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by flirty30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are they saying this? And why do you call them friends? If they were they wouldnt be saying horrible things like that. You need a new set of friends and a new hobby if you know what i mean. Find other things to do with your time hon
2007-12-17 12:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by Akasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not your friends. You need to find some true friends. These people you hang out with are going to get you in to a lot of trouble that you don't need. Good Luckâ¥â¥
2007-12-17 12:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by ♥LS♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are true friends and just trying to get you to stop some bad habits that you don't want to notice you are doing? Your nickname speaks for itself. You know when you point a finger at your friends, there are 3 fingers pointing back at yourself.
2007-12-17 12:34:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are gonna talk regardless of who you are. if you are happy with who you are and you are not sleeping around for them to call you those things then don't change. don't worry about what people have to say about you. apparently their life isn't all that interesting if they have to talk about yours. keep your head up, move on and find new friends. people are going to talk about you all through your life. you just have to learn to ignore it and do your best in what ever you plan to do in the future.
Good Luck!!!
2007-12-17 12:25:59 · answer #10 · answered by Ladyebony07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, they are not your friends, seek out people , who have the same interest you do..
second, if you have misgivens about some part of your behavior, check it out throw mental health consuling. it can not hurt, except to get a better handle on one's self.
third, that little voice inside is a good guide that let's one know when we are doing thing that are wrong or harmful to are self.
2007-12-17 12:41:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋