Family & Relationships - 17 December 2007

2007-12-17 07:40:18 · 39 answers · asked by layla a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've a huge foot fetish, and I've gotten to know this girl well over a number of months and I was wondering how should I go about subtly letting her know without scaring her too much?

I've heard that u should compliment her on her shoes or the tights she wears but I want to find out what girls here, if any, think of that?

2007-12-17 07:39:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

OK so I have been married a little over a month now...great marriage but its the holidays and Im really missing home..
I live in Utah moved from Ohio...so family is like forever away. So lately Im a mess....crying over nothing! Literally, Husband can say something joking and I take it serious and cry...all i do is cry and sleep. I dont want to eat I don't want to be touched I don't want anything. Well all this crazy crap thats going on is hurting us...last night he couldn't handle my crying and wanted to sleep on the couch!
I don't know whats wrong with me. Im not on any medications so it can't be side effects...Im kinda homesick but not a ton. I just saw everyone at the wedding! But I want to know whats wrong and do whatever I can to fix it....we would never get a divorce but after him wanting to sleep on the couch i realized something is really wrong with me and I need to find out soon!

Serious answers please....
Thanks

2007-12-17 07:39:18 · 23 answers · asked by Mandy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister got married in August in Virginia, where she and her husband met and live. The groom's family is from New York and many people did not come to the wedding in Virginia. So, my sister's new mother-in-law is throwing them a big reception in New York on New Year's Eve (the timing was his mom's idea!), AND she seems to expect my sister to wear the wedding dress for this shindig....sweet or tacky?

2007-12-17 07:38:52 · 20 answers · asked by Tiffany E 1 in Weddings

When we married, we didn't know what the heck we were doing, we were so immature and selfish. We've been together for 10 yrs, 6 married and want to replace our rings with something that means more to us. When you talk to people tho, they say that those rings reflect that time and you shouldn't replace them, that it's wrong. But to us our marriage means more now than it did back then, we've gone thru so much and love each other more now than we did when we got married. We want to get a proper set that reflects who we are today.

Our first set was a cheapie set that was under $200 and we had them stolen(hard to believe) when we moved into our home, 18 mos ago. We've replaced them with a ring but it's just a ring and this time we want something that is more classical and a little more expensive than what we did originally.

Do you personally agree with it. I'm not going to be swayed by someone here, just wondering on your viewpoints.

2007-12-17 07:38:45 · 46 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i don't know why i feel this way, but is it natural to feel hurt to find out that my girl is not a virgin anymore? this is a serious question so i would really appreciate serious answers, thank you

2007-12-17 07:38:33 · 12 answers · asked by Reese B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 07:37:27 · 6 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

although he has told her tis she still disowns him and wont let him see his little sisters and i want him to be able to see them and spend time with his mother . i have done nothing to her as i said before she has only met me once three years ago. what do i do

2007-12-17 07:37:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I continue to see and hear about more wounds that three of my friends inflict upon themselves. One of them is my absolute best friend and has never before lied to me... until now. Now every single day I come into school, I see yet more scratches on her wrists. Usually she blames it on her cat, but when I call her on it, she admits that she herself had done it. She also has ice burns on her hand, and ripped skin all over her shoulders. I want to talk to a councellor about it, but she told me that she'd handle it.

This is becoming a habit, not only with her but with the others too. None of my friends are labled emo and yet I'm the only one in my entire lunch table that doesnt have scars on her wrists and an iceburn on her right hand. I've talked and scolded them all more times than I could count and I've forced them into the counsellor's office three times EACH. Nothing is working and I'm really worried, especially about my best friend... What else can I do?

2007-12-17 07:35:05 · 52 answers · asked by Mattie 1 in Friends

**PLEASE READ THE QUESTION FIRST**

No offense to all to the many successful independent women out there - no offense at all. And no offense to women who work - I TOTALLY SUPPORT BOTH GROUPS! :-)

That said, *why,* even in today's modern society, does it still end up being the man who is both expected to and does end up providing for their girlfriend/wife?

I know many girls who expect their 'man' to do all the work.

If I had a girlfriend, da*n...I'd love for the roles to be reversed!
Why should I be the one who has to work most of my life to provide for all the needs of a family?
I don't mind having a job, but why should I have to be the primary breadwinner?

2007-12-17 07:34:36 · 26 answers · asked by tryandfindus 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-17 07:33:23 · 20 answers · asked by :) 1 in Weddings

People with experience, please give me some insight. My wife and i were seriously a pen signature away from a divorce. Now we are back together and trying to work on things. Keep in mind, she might of had a fling with a guy and had feelings for him, and also being intimate with her is almost impossible. Anyway, i am looking for any type of advice to make it thru these rough times, what signs to look for to see if she really wants to be back with me or not. if she really loves me or not. Bascially, anyone that has maybe been in the same situation, what signs do i look for that it will last, how to tell if things are getting better, and how to make it work. i dont want to lose her, but it seems like why did she come back if she doesnt want me, if being intimate with me is not what she wants. she always has excuses when it comes to that time. let me know...

2007-12-17 07:32:36 · 12 answers · asked by supremyecy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a client, who i've fallen in love with, he feels the same, wants me in his life permanently, i'm married, i do love mu husband, he's done a lot for me and my children, and has no idea about my feelings for this chap. my client has just given me a xmas pressie, my husband is upset and says him getting me something tells him the chap sees us as havibg a relationship, and me accepting it, is like me saying it's ok, i can't give it back, and i understand how it's made my husband feel, i don't like anyone getting hurt. has anyone been in this situation? judgemental folk please don't bother answering.

2007-12-17 07:32:25 · 14 answers · asked by chakra girl 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My Gf and i have been togather 7 months and we have to be secert about are relationship because my gf mom doesnt like me. her mom doesnt know anything about me she only knows my dad. my gf tolf me her mom doesnt like me because her uncle went to jail and he hung out with my dad. so my gf mom is holding this against me when i had nothin to do with it. my gf is having a hard time because she doesnt want to hid anymore. but i dont know how we are going to tell her. her mom wont let me have any contact with her. i need to find a way out. i need help

2007-12-17 07:32:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if i marry someone in america does it still count in england?

2007-12-17 07:31:00 · 6 answers · asked by Michele L 2 in Marriage & Divorce

once a man cheats on his wife will that make easier to cheat again

2007-12-17 07:30:52 · 21 answers · asked by Lynn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Summary: In a (supposedly) committed relationship, living together for 4 years. Bought a house together. Planned to get married eventually. Everything is supposed to be going well...

2 years ago boyfriend started getting VERY lazy in bed. Hardly ever wants to have sex, and when he does decide he wants it, he just lays there...waits for girlfriend to do all the work. Boyfriend is "finished" really fast, girlfriend gets absolutely nothing out of it. This pattern has continued for the past 2 years with no signs of changing.

Boyfriend also, for the past 2 years, has been having phone sex every chance he gets with strange women he meets online on his cell phone, chat sites, etc. Exchanges naked pics, videos, blah, blah. Boyfriend doesn't see how this is a problem as long as he's not having sex with them.

Boyfriend would rather have phone sex with strangers than have real sex with girlfriend. Girlfriend is SUPER frustrated at this point and doesn't know what to do anymore.

2007-12-17 07:25:22 · 31 answers · asked by heather_chavous 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He is just a friend who very much wants to be more, but I have explained to him repeatedly that its not going to happen.
Someone told me that he may be giving me diamond earrings! I can't accept them, can I? That's too much! And wouldn't it come with expectations? He already makes me feel awkward around him even though I enjoy his company as a friend. This has me very concerned.

2007-12-17 07:24:38 · 9 answers · asked by JenJen 3 in Singles & Dating

I got a garter,thong and theigh heighs for a "gift" for my boyfriend.I looked everywhere for a skirt.Will it have the same effect with pants?and I guess heels is a must?

2007-12-17 07:24:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I regret it until this day but at the time I loved her very much. However, we have been split up for four years now. She was married two years, she told me all I had to do was tell her that I still loved her and she wouldn’t have married the guy. I wished her well, and told her good luck. Now Im happily married and she has two kids going through a divorce. My wife is from the philippines, and my x is constantly harassing us and telling my wife she needs to go back where she came from. During the last four days I changed my cell phone number, but then the x got my landline number from the phone book (I also had it changed today). What I am wondering is, is 16 the age of consent in Mississippi and if not could she press charges on me for statutory rape from four years ago. I never raped her, and actually I was living with her and her mom helping to pay the bills. I just don’t want any trouble and this girl has gone totally psycho. I told my wife if she comes to the apartment do not go outside and immediately call 911.

2007-12-17 07:24:07 · 27 answers · asked by roger_varnadore 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I tend to rate men more in bed than their personality. if a guy is not good in bed i lose interest in him. i have a high sex drive where i can go for hours. i don't know if that is because i was sexually molested when i was 6 yo then drew up ashamed of myself. until i started dating at 23 yo. i had an old bf who i used to fool around a bit after we broke up 3 years ago. we call each other now and then for sex. i realize that he was not as good as he used to be in bed. i started to lose interest in him again. i did not want to date him because we had a rocky relationship. i used to remembe sex used to be great until we went at it again. it was more than one time and it was terrible i was disappointed and ask him why. he told me it was because he used to have sex with his ex gf without a condom because she was on a birth control ( one of the many he dated after we broke up). i stopped talking to him since then because there is no way i am going to sleep with him without condom. NO WAY!!

2007-12-17 07:23:30 · 10 answers · asked by singlegirl 4 in Singles & Dating

he is a friend but i may like him as more than a friend

2007-12-17 07:22:39 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why?

2007-12-17 07:20:59 · 10 answers · asked by ... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a cousin who will be between 11 and 12 when I get married. She is a little immature and i am not sure if she is right for a jr bridesmaid but I think it might look a little odd if i have her as a flower girl. Also I have another cousin that will be 15 by the time I get married and I am very close to her is that to young to be a bridesmaid? Should she be a jr bridesmaid? I would love to have her as my maid of honner but again im not sure...any thoughts anyone has I would love to hear! thanks!

2007-12-17 07:20:35 · 18 answers · asked by LimeGreen84 3 in Weddings

okay so i like this guy but there is about an 4 year age difference and i really like him and he really likes me but see he is older and expects to get alot from a girl but i am not ready to give him most of those things.......and i have told him that am not comfortable going all the way with him bc of the age difference.......and he said that he understands but yet i am not sure that he does.....i mean we know alot about each other and everything but the whole age difference thing is holding me back.......i am so confused on what to do.....i know that i have really stronge feelings about him and i know that he really likes me to but....i don't know!!!! see if i don't go for it then i will regret it and if i do go for it then there is a 50% chamce that i will regret it too. like if i do decide to go all the way with him after we have been together for a while then i get preg. then i will regret that too! i am so confused....HELP!

2007-12-17 07:20:17 · 22 answers · asked by Hottie 101 1 in Singles & Dating

My niece just got married a couple of weeks ago and then her husband found out she had some CD's he didn't like due to the lyrics and threw them out and removed the fuse on her car stereo so she can't play CD's for a month. I don't think this is fair because she just got married and didn't know that he wouldn't approve of those CD's. My niece is a really sweet girl and I just think he could have gone easier on her since she just got married, you know? My husband agrees with me too but I want to see what others think.

2007-12-17 07:18:17 · 30 answers · asked by Little Angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you were in a 3 year relationship, and the other person forgot your birthday all 3 years and Christmas all 3 years and even Valentines day all 3 years. Would you be mad. Do you think I should be because its happening to me.

2007-12-17 07:16:28 · 12 answers · asked by Crimson 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 07:16:26 · 17 answers · asked by k 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to get some feedback, closure and truth from an ex. I want to move forward, date new people, and find love again.

Relationship is frustrating as she shuts down....all I want is feedback, and closure. If she wants, what I want, closure and distance, is this too much to ask? How to approach it?

Possible problems is that she cheated, and treated me poorly, and doesn't want to come clean. But 19 months have passed...8 with no contact....should this be an issue?

2007-12-17 07:15:10 · 5 answers · asked by someguy_in_halifax 3 in Singles & Dating

Well I am getting engaged and my boyfriend said I can do whatever I want as far as the wedding/reception. He says he doesn't care as long he gets to marry me. (too cute IMO) So I am completely boggled as far as what to do....I have a small family and a few close friends (25 people max) but he has like 200 family members in this state alone. From what research I have done so far, I want a small ceremony and a big reception, but I do not know where to begin. Pretty much to sum it up, I am panicking, any ideas?

2007-12-17 07:14:51 · 17 answers · asked by Kristen 6 in Weddings