Family & Relationships - 17 December 2007

So two girls I am dating live in the same area but don't know each other... I'm single, but dating both.. well I don't know but they seem to be out to get me. They both constantly ask me the same questions (Do you love me? Miss me? Sometimes at the same time!) and both conveniently are having the same surgery getting done.. both are always sick at the same time or can't do anything.. Does this sound weird? How do I handle it?

2007-12-17 08:50:50 · 15 answers · asked by aa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So two girls I am dating live in the same area but don't know each other... I'm single, but dating both.. well I don't know but they seem to be out to get me. They both constantly ask me the same questions (Do you love me? Miss me?) and both conveniently are having the same surgery getting done.. both are always sick at the same time or can't do anything.. Does this sound weird? How do I handle it?

2007-12-17 08:50:12 · 13 answers · asked by aa 1 in Singles & Dating

so i found out today that i am prego by my Roommate (a girl) Boyfriend if that makes sence well we all live together and me and him have been having a small but big affair and i dont know how to tell him and i dont know what to tell the chick roommate andi know that he wont freak out or anything because we have known the possibilty for a week or two now im just worried about her and well i talked to the guy about the baby thing and well he says that he doesnt really think it is an affair BECAUSE he doesnt really truly love her and that he is with her for all the hell she put him threw and that e is simply around for me and to kinda make it difficualt for her and well childness yea i know but what do i do about everything

2007-12-17 08:50:02 · 18 answers · asked by MoMmY-2-B h 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend (whos a guy) and i had a little argument 2 weeks ago. we havent really gotten over it yet coz everytime we chat on msn, its awkward. (btw, he moved far away, so i havent seen him in person for months now). when we had the little argument, i sent him an email explaining my side of the story, and telling him that i was sick of the way he was acting, and that i didnt know why i cared about him so much. (yes i do have feelings for him). Anyway, so about 2 days ago, i talk to him, and he starts telling me about this friend (whos a girl)who came over to his house twice last week, and they supposedly "went downstairs where it was dark, and she slept beside him on his bed, and she didnt want to leave." i dont know if its true or not, but i just dont get why he told me that? we barely talk anymore. someone please, help me out.
thanks for all your answers =)

2007-12-17 08:48:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my record is 23 times in 1 night. my average is like..6. is this too much? it's not like im bragging. i mean, this is ANONYMOUS. no one knows who i am. too bad..anyway. is that too much? guess im insatiable. i dont even take a break. but when it's all done, i do like to cuddle.

2007-12-17 08:46:06 · 16 answers · asked by Grimace 2 in Singles & Dating

I was in a relationship many years ago where this girl I dated was always angry. Although it never really hurt that bad to get me upset she would hit me a lot. It really wasn't the physical stuff that got to me so much of the mental things she did. She stole my drivers license and got a cop friend of hers to put a bunch of speeding tickets on. I was arrested for driving under a suspended license 3 years ago and still to this day haven't gotten it fixed. She would tell me all the time that no other girl would have me and that I was a 2 out of 10. What sucks is she was right. I never found anyone after her. I never told anyone but one close friend of mine. She not thinking I haven't told anyone else told her friend and now all the girls I know make fun of me. I don't really find it that funny. I feel sorry for my ex more than anyone. I did some research and found out that half of spousal murders are committed by wives? How can girls find this funny?

2007-12-17 08:45:49 · 14 answers · asked by Hilow H 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 08:45:49 · 11 answers · asked by snozzberries 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother-in-law to be insists you are meant to give them lunch and dinner, I don't see how we can do this as the service is in the afternoon, what is the tradition, I don't want my guests going hungry as they expected lunch too!

2007-12-17 08:45:19 · 40 answers · asked by Soso 1 in Weddings

what should i do to get him back i know im still in love with him and i just need him back.. i love him and im going crazy with out his love his touch his kiss his every thing help me i love him and we have only been broken up for 2 1/2 weeks help me out people

2007-12-17 08:45:16 · 11 answers · asked by steph B 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy that I don't know very well. I talk to him but I don't really know much about him. My friend Christine likes him too. She asked him out about 4 times, and he said no everytime. I brought it up this morning. His exact words were: "I don't like her, I never have, never will. EVER. I'd never say yes to her." I was sort of relieved. I asked him why, and he said "I like someone else, a lot." I forgot what I said, but he said "That's stupid." I said, "You're stupid!" And I walked away. I was just joking! Later, he said yes to Christine! I was crushed. Of course, she's my friend, and I really do feel happy for her. I was driving her to her car after school, and that was all she could talk about. I talked to her of course, but I felt sad. I can't tell her that I've liked him! I really don't know what to do, because I REALLY like this guy. He's funny, hot, charming, athletic, dang I don't know what to do! I think I ruined my chance? Did he like me before? What should I do?!

2007-12-17 08:43:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

here is the situation, we stop dating 2 months ago, the reason we stop dating is that she's dealing with emotional problems due to her last relationship of 8 years in which her x confess that he cheated on her the whole entire time. in which she's not ready for anything serious. so we stop but 2 weeks ago, we bump into each other and sparks reignited, we hung out the entire week and weekend, then into last week she became cold, toward the end of the week she began to ask me to hang out, we hung out this weekend so i decided to get her something for x mas, i got her something not cheap but not expensive something that she will love. so last night i went to give it to her, she said NO NO NO i cant accept this, I said don t worry about it, its just a gift, i brought everyone gifts so its not a big deal she said Yeah but i didnt get u anything (i knew this) and i told her dont worry about it later on she left me a message saying i dont know how much to thank u

what do u think about this

2007-12-17 08:42:23 · 11 answers · asked by Steven 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in the state of Illinois. I am 13. My parents are in the process of getting a divorce. As it stands there is 3 days at my mom's and 4 days at my dad's. I got in a fight with my dad on his day. Since they are not legally divorced would I be allowed to go to my mom's if I wanted to?

2007-12-17 08:41:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Even thought I hurt my gf. She did worse, she dated the guy and had sex with him. she told me an I forgave her. I even bought a diamond pendent for xmas. So everything was cool yesterday. She told me to call, Im calling and she not even picking up. Hey if you like this on-line day better than me,. say so. right

2007-12-17 08:41:14 · 4 answers · asked by napolee_nj 2 in Singles & Dating

First, I should make it clear that I am a GUY. There are these two boys (one a little younger, one a little older) who bump into me, joke around me and overall act crazy around me, and I can't tell if they like me or not. Ussually they just tell stupid or random jokes, and for most of the time the just look at me and tell me things, and go on and on and on. But, sometimes, they'd talk about sex and talk to me and ask me questions about sex and masturbation. Also, they'd do more than just talk to me, they'd brush up against me along my back and rear. Whenever this happens, I always tell them 'no!' and 'stop!', and explain how gross and disgusting it is, so they both know I don't like it. However, they always back off saying 'it was just a joke'. But, after it's happened several times from both of them, I wonder if they were accidents... or jokes. Are these guys gay? Do they like me romantically, or just as friends? Is it a really weird joke? What's going on? What am I supposed to do?

2007-12-17 08:40:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hi all. okay so ive been on dates b4 w this guy, and sometimes he pays and sometimes i pay for myself, but its always awkward. so how do i make this un awkward?? lol

2007-12-17 08:39:31 · 11 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been separated from my husband of 7 almost 8 years and now am trying to divorce him but his girlfriend wont let it happen every time i try and contact them she comes up with something so they cant and she tells me that she will call me and never dose what can i do??????

2007-12-17 08:38:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-17 08:38:43 · 10 answers · asked by Preeti S 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you like resturants were you get to pick your own live lobster or crab before he gets cook for you????

2007-12-17 08:38:34 · 6 answers · asked by pass170 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for a little over a year. We met when he was on his leave from Iraq. It was a very fast paced relationship from the beginning. When he finally got back from his tour 8 months later, we basically started right where we left off... and 5 months later we were pregnant and got married a few months after that. We have a beautiful baby girl. And he is so in love with her. But I fear that is all the love he has left after work. I know he has stress. Me too! I work and am a full time mother and do most of the housework and shopping. Don't get me wrong he has a lot of strong points but I feel like he has no more love for me. Many times when I want to cuddle he pulls away or grimces at my touch. I want to have sex more than he does. And anything sets his anger off. He has a double standard with me that he can't see or admit to. I am so lonely and lost. Is a child worth staying in this marriage? Is there hope that this will get better? All I want is his love!

2007-12-17 08:38:28 · 10 answers · asked by Humbled 1 in Marriage & Divorce

guys-
they're either trying to play you or you're a name on a long a s s list they have and their girlfriend is probably at the top.
says he's scared to be with her because he doesn't want to be played while at the same time he's showing signs of interest in other girls.
a ss.
guys, why.do.you.do.that.da.mn it???
I guess I'll just have to stay away from YOU ALL cause I can't ever tell which ones are sincere.

2007-12-17 08:35:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

People will always like other people but they will always choose the person they are with more. Thats what makes them stay with them.

I am in a happy relationship but i often go out have a few drinks and like the idea of getting off with sumone else but it never happens ...

2007-12-17 08:34:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the other weekend at a club and we exchanges numbers and he was texting me and then he just suddenly stopped, left it a few days then text him asking what he was up to etc and he never text back! im not the kind of girl to pursue a man like that so i left it and didnt think much of it.anyway nearly 2 weeks later he texts me out out of the blue with no explaination to why he hasn't got in contact with me....saying what have i been up to and when am i going to let him take me out... i like him and i dont know what to say should i ask why he hasnt been in contact with me? should i go on a date with him or should I just leave it?

2007-12-17 08:28:32 · 2 answers · asked by Amy G 1 in Singles & Dating

I bought my boyfriend (now fiance) a really nice, expensive white gold ring for our 2 year anniversary. He loves it and wears it on a chain round his neck.
We are planning our wedding for July and on a budget. he has told me not to spend money on a wedding band. He wants to use the ring I gave him as a wedding band. He has never really worn it on his finger because it only fitted his wedding finger, and in his job it is too dangerous for him to wear a ring anyway.
He said he loves this ring and it will do him for a wedding band. I guess we can get it polished up so it looks new. I was wondering what others think about using this ring? would you do it? He is insisting that he wants to wear this ring as his wedding band. I thought maybe if he doesnt want a new ring I could buy him a new chain to wear it on when he is working.
Is this what you would do? Or would you just go and get a new ring? He says he wouldnt find one he likes as much as the one he has and that it means a lot 2 him

2007-12-17 08:27:42 · 13 answers · asked by bluegirl6 6 in Weddings

The thing is I really don't know how to dump her. She is so obsessed with me. She sent me a birthday card and in it, she wrote "TILL DEATH DO US PART HUBBY" Is this normal? Do all girls do this? I'm her first boyfriend by the way.I don't know the exact words do use that will be kind enough. I can't say I'll just say it straight to her face cause she's my best friend's sister.

2007-12-17 08:26:36 · 8 answers · asked by Shim 2 in Singles & Dating

About 2 years ago I slept with this boy, i really liked him after this happened but nothing ever came about it... He said he liked me to but he was to shy to do anything!
We stayed good friends and then I found out that he started to fancy my best friend. although she has a boyfriend!
On Saturday we hooked up again and all my feelings have come back, do men just think with there penis or does he like me to?
Were meeting up again on Wednesday and I think it might be just to have sex?
should i tell him i like him? but I don't wanna scared him off!
Im crazy about him and if he just wants sex should I just give it him or does he like me?

2007-12-17 08:26:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband will let me have a bite of his hamburgers sometimes or every once in a while he'll let me have my own but generally he tells me to watch what I eat. I want to know how common this is. Thanks :)

2007-12-17 08:23:18 · 34 answers · asked by Little Angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like blond, brunette, or redhead? What color eyes? Body type?

2007-12-17 08:21:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you stay?

2007-12-17 08:20:48 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-12-17 08:20:07 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Yesterday, I ran into an old friend who recently turned 40 and he had a 23-year-old girlfriend with him. Of course, this sounds like a classic case of "midlife crisis", but I've seen plenty of guys like him. I've seen some men in their 40s cheat on very attractive wives with less attractive girls who are young enough to be their daughters. What could these girls possibly have to offer these men besides sex and an ego boost?

2007-12-17 08:19:05 · 28 answers · asked by tangerine 7 in Singles & Dating