so i found out today that i am prego by my Roommate (a girl) Boyfriend if that makes sence well we all live together and me and him have been having a small but big affair and i dont know how to tell him and i dont know what to tell the chick roommate andi know that he wont freak out or anything because we have known the possibilty for a week or two now im just worried about her and well i talked to the guy about the baby thing and well he says that he doesnt really think it is an affair BECAUSE he doesnt really truly love her and that he is with her for all the hell she put him threw and that e is simply around for me and to kinda make it difficualt for her and well childness yea i know but what do i do about everything
2007-12-17 08:50:02 · 18 answers · asked by MoMmY-2-B h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell the boyfriend....let the chick find out on her own....in the meantime....try to find somewhere else to stay...maybe you and the boyfriend can get a place together.
2007-12-17 08:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by My Sharona 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All that old mess just went right out the window in terms of importance...now you're pregnant. so you need to decide how you will best handle this eventuality. Now would be an excellent time to avail yourself of some advice from people you trust like your parents, mature friends, pastors, people of this nature. There are some stressful days ahead as you come to grips with your situation, so you need benefit of the best information available to you. Telling him right away is a given...whether or not you ever tell her is a judgment call you can delay making a decision on for awhile. Get your head on straight and focus on what's really important now. What you come up with might really surprise you....I'm betting on it. Good luck to you.
2007-12-17 09:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats a tricky one. Firstly its best to tell her coz the truth comes out in the end. I know thats hard but if you were in her position wouldnt you think it better to know then to not know. You just gotta talk to your roommates bf and maybe tell her together. Just sort out what to say without hurting her so bad. The later you leave it the harder the situation will get and you know that
good luck
2007-12-17 08:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. For once tell the truth. Say " yea we slept togeather and now i;m pregnant. I'm NOT havving an abortion so you will have to live with the fact _______ is the father!" bottom line. Nothing can be changed now.
2007-12-17 08:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come clean with them both. Find a new place...without either of them. Have your baby. File for child support from the guy. Raise your child. You do not want this guy to be a part of your love life, although he does need to be a part of your child's life. If he is cheating on her with you, what do you think he is going to do to you?
2007-12-17 08:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by Scooter_The_Squirrels_Wifey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to make plans for your baby. Get child support from him...he is legally obligated to provide that to your baby. And get ready for the drama that comes with your rommate finding out. She will be hurt beyond description. YOu owe her an apology. Then find somewhere else for you and your baby to live.
2007-12-17 08:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him ASAP. But don't expect him to leave his girlfriend now. If hasn't left her in the past, he probably won't in the future. You should also make other living arrangements before you inform your roommate.
2007-12-17 08:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but he seems like a jerk likes hes for revenge against what i dont know so i cant say anything but you need a christmas help. Much love but this is up to yourself!
2007-12-17 08:58:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell everybody the truth and start making adult decisions, if you can; a child's life depends on it.
2007-12-17 08:59:14 · answer #9 · answered by Felix The Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell them both, about this you knew you were not on the pill, and still had sex with him? how low can you go... you're going to get yours, that's what he's telling you about her, but on the other hand he's still with her as girlfriend, and boyfriend, you need your butt kicked for this.....
2007-12-17 09:05:43 · answer #10 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋