here is the situation, we stop dating 2 months ago, the reason we stop dating is that she's dealing with emotional problems due to her last relationship of 8 years in which her x confess that he cheated on her the whole entire time. in which she's not ready for anything serious. so we stop but 2 weeks ago, we bump into each other and sparks reignited, we hung out the entire week and weekend, then into last week she became cold, toward the end of the week she began to ask me to hang out, we hung out this weekend so i decided to get her something for x mas, i got her something not cheap but not expensive something that she will love. so last night i went to give it to her, she said NO NO NO i cant accept this, I said don t worry about it, its just a gift, i brought everyone gifts so its not a big deal she said Yeah but i didnt get u anything (i knew this) and i told her dont worry about it later on she left me a message saying i dont know how much to thank u
what do u think about this
2007-12-17 08:42:23 · 11 answers · asked by Steven 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think your kinda retarded. most of your stuff is dribble and incomprehensible. how do you live your life with others telling you how you should feel or what to do?
2007-12-17 08:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Hang in there... it sounds like she just needs a little time. And she sounds like shes a great girl for being honest with you, and concerned with your feelings as well. I'm glad to hear you gave her the gift and it sounds like she liked it. And the message she left for you sounds like it was genuine. It sounds like she honestly cares about you... or she'd be ignoring you. Give her some time.. keep in touch with her but continue to give her that space. I bet you anything, she'll come around! I can't wait to hear about it when she does!!!
I went through the same thing when I was dating my husband and it lasted 6 long (terribly long!) weeks... but oh my... the reward was sooooo sweet! Thats why I hope you hang in there. She wouldn't be considering your feelings so much if she didn't care about you so much!
2007-12-17 08:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your question? cause it seems pretty straight forward to me. She again just wants to be sure that you know she is appreciative for the gift. And maybe even feeling out if it came with any strings attached, since you are asking this question, I'm getting the idea that it does.
2007-12-17 08:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl is trying to tell you that she needs things to go slow. She has issues with trust and it is with good reason. At this time just be her friend...nothing more. If she wants more then let her pursue it. It takes time for old wounds to heal, and I am sure it will take time for her heart to heal. She needs space and time to heal. Soooo........continue to be there but as a friend. I think she is scared right now. And it is always better to be friends first, that way she can gradually learn that she can trust you, then maybe her heart will open up to you more. Patience my friend........Patience!
2007-12-17 08:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by *♥* Igotorbs*♥* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is very lucky to have you as a friend, you said all the right things, and you did all the right things, she is very lucky to have you as a friend.
Just continue to take it slow and just continue being who you are!!!!!
Which is a wonderful man!!!!!
I said it before and I will say it again, she is lucky to have you as a friend, and maby more if you keep playing your cards right!!!!!!!
2007-12-17 08:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is n a relationship wit some1 else, dont let ur feelings get 2 caught up or ur gonna get disappointed. just know that u did somethin nice by getn her a gift
2007-12-17 08:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by tykisha r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means she was over whelmed with surprise and awe with the gift you gave her.
It was meant as a compliment.
2007-12-17 08:48:11 · answer #7 · answered by Ella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes moved on but doesnt know what she wants...
shes seing someone else but is using you because she feels shes been screwed over so many times before..stop with gifts and stuff....shes just confused
2007-12-17 12:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cute kinda
2007-12-17 08:47:14 · answer #9 · answered by Kimi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She felt bad about not getting you a gift that is all...she was not rejecting you. She really appreciated your generosity.
2007-12-17 08:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋