Family & Relationships - 17 December 2007

I am married and have a kid, but for some reason I love having sex with other women. I usually tell my wife I am going out to a friend's house when I am actually going out with some girls I met at night school (college) and we usually sleep together. I like being married and having that family, but at the same time I like having that party life and having many partners. I guess I want to know from people who have lived this way before, would it be better for me to just dump the wife and live my night life or quit the other one. I want both but....I guess I like the fact that when I don't go out on a weekend and have sex with someone else that my wife is at home to be there for me instead so it's like I'm never alone. I like that, but I also like the sexy, irresponsibleness attitude of these other young women. Thanks for your posts in advance!!

2007-12-17 09:53:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i met a great guy today, he is italian strong accent great job 26 quite wealthy, and acts wealthy!
im black 20 in uni, (not as wealthy) or as wealthy in behaviour...
he seemed very sweet, we had lunch, he even got me a gift £50 dior perfume set for my mum as an xmas gift...
he had great hair... (i loved his hair...so sexyy!)
with such different backgrounds do you think it could work...

2007-12-17 09:50:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do u go about telling a loved one about addiction?
If you had this problem for a while and he is suspicious
about things. He has an idea but denial gets in the way.
Ready to admit to a problem, that one has been lying about.
How do u tell him about the problem? How would u bring that up? What would possibly be the response to expect?

2007-12-17 09:50:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want a classical song for walking down the isle for when I get married this summer. For the bridal party I am using Cannon in D. What can I use?

2007-12-17 09:49:02 · 14 answers · asked by Bride2Be 4 in Weddings

ok so you meet someone either in a bar, mall, starbucks etc ( setting doesnt really matter) and your texting and speaking on the phone and then you dont hear off the guy for like 3 weeks and then suddenly he is back in contact with you asking you out on a date and seeing if we could meet up somewhere....what is the deal with that?

2007-12-17 09:47:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I respect my mother and do everything she asks. I am a straight A student but out of the blue today she said i was NEVER to listen to My Chemica Romance EVER again! I wanteed to cry!Why did she do this? How can i regain my privilages to listen to this gifted band?!?!?!?!?


I LOVE YOU MCR!

2007-12-17 09:46:49 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What do you do when you have all these goals in mind and are studying hard to reach them (trying to get into med school), but you feel extreamly lonley that you have no "relationship" type things going on and you have no time? I never had, as in with a guy, and all the guys are know are put off by the fact that I have to study so hard.

So am I really just stuck to keep waiting for *any* guy to show up?

2007-12-17 09:44:28 · 6 answers · asked by mellei 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 09:42:06 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Just wondering because a lot of guys like me and stare and my boobs.....

2007-12-17 09:42:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here goes. I am 25 and dated a girl for over 4 years then got married. We were married for under 3 months and out of the blue she left me because she didnt want to be married anymore. Now I am engaged to a differant girl and she is the most wonderful woman in the world. I just cant shake the feeling that she might just give up on me or find someone else and take off aswell. I am totally over my ex wife and now love my new fiance with all my heart. But my insecurity is getting the best of me. I dont want to hurt the relationship I'm in now. My ex hurt me and I told myself from the start that I wasnt going to hold anything against my new lady. So if you have any advise for me please give it. Thank you for your time.

2007-12-17 09:41:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok heres the situation. I've been best friends with this guy all year and the other day when we were talking online, he said he was in love with me. i really like him too but havent actually seen him for ages. im meeting him in 2 days only im worried because last time he saw me i had long hair and clear skin. now well i hacked all my hair off and my skin...well its christmas so been eating heaps of crap. what the hell do i do? Now i know he's in love with me I'm really happy but nervous because what if he sees me and decides he only liked the old me?

2007-12-17 09:41:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i like this guys n hes an amazing friend at times...but idk hes just being acting different lately..we were really close friends but now i sometimes even doubt that we are friends...he loves flirting wit me but i don't get y he does it...its annoying cause he knows i like him..so y is he like saying i love you to me n making silly comments..acting as if he actually liked me...im very confused and i don't know what to do..should i talk to him about how hes acting? but i don't want it to be awkward between us...but hes just getting on my nerves =P what should i do



P.S- im sure he knows i like him n we are both 14

2007-12-17 09:41:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 09:40:58 · 24 answers · asked by . 5 in Marriage & Divorce

cuz i relly like a girl and idk if im being used or what

2007-12-17 09:40:02 · 5 answers · asked by josh z 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this junior that i like at my school but i don't know him that well. he is really hott and people tell me he is nice. I would love to get to know him!i am a freshmen though. but EVERYDAY when i pass him in the hallways he always glances at me, he glances at me at lunch, he looks at me when he thinks i am not looking but my friends are for me, he sometimes stares at me in the morning times, and he will kinda show off by bending over to tie his shoes in front of me, sticking his butt out in front of me, and standing right in front of me stretching and taking off his sweatshirt. My friends think he is interested in me but he has a gf from a diff town and they have been goin out for like 3 weeks.

All this stuff that I listed above was going on for like 2 1/2 weeks and today at school he didn't look at me.not even once. What is going on? Do you think he is just trying to play with my head? He did look back a few times in my direction at lunch but idk if it was directly @ me.

2007-12-17 09:39:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's almost christmas so i want to make a poem for my girlfriend but i can't think of any so can you tell me a poem about christmas love? Like how seeing her reminds me of something nice

2007-12-17 09:38:28 · 2 answers · asked by Richard 1 in Singles & Dating

i have heard a lot of bad things about drugs like weed and really dont want to take it. my friends are all going to have it at this party coming up which i have to go to because my parents are on holiday and i am staying with the friend!
i dont want to be watching my friends high and probably having to pick up the peices.
what shall i do?!!!!!

2007-12-17 09:38:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

In my class ther is this girl that i like, and whenever i see her i'll say hi

the problem is that i dont know if she likes me back

How do you know if a girl likes you?

also, How can you tell if someone is flirting with you?

2007-12-17 09:38:11 · 2 answers · asked by banmeyouloser 2 in Singles & Dating

This week Im going on my first get away weekend with my boyfriend and this is actually my first one ever. We are going to the Plaza and stayin the night!! All I know bc he is want it all to be a surprise! So those of you have had a get away weekend with your significant other, anything important I need to bring that I would never think of? Minds out of the gutter Im not thinkin anything sexual. THanks

2007-12-17 09:38:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 09:37:31 · 6 answers · asked by Perfectionist 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Most of what my boyfriend and I do is argue, and I can tell that he doesn't love me as much as he used to, and he says that's my fault.. that I don't appreciate him being nice. He says that he dreadsd my phone calls because all I do is ***** which isn't true, I can be whiny sometimes I'll admit, but I don't ***** him out ever. And I do truly love him, but it doesn't feel like he loves me, and he goes on about how he needs some space, and he feels like I'm psycho and obsessed with him. Honestly I just care for him, I'm not like calling non-stop or showing up randomly at his house or anything like that at all. But like when we talk about breaking up, he goes on about how he doesn't want to do that, and he does truly love me so much. If he wants space and I just annoy him why wouldn't he just break up with me? And he's not cheating on me I'm 100% sure of that because he wouldn't do that.

2007-12-17 09:36:39 · 30 answers · asked by Consultant 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy and I talk on the phone every chance we get, we have never met before..however i am really begining to like him..and i cant quite tell if he feels the same about me..are there any clues to look for throughout a phone conversation that might mean he likes me too???

2007-12-17 09:36:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can you give me some scent ideas?

Sandlewood?
Green Apple?
Clean Linen?

If you have some sources, like Maxium, GQ or something like that, that would be awesome.

2007-12-17 09:35:32 · 34 answers · asked by dougfr007 3 in Singles & Dating

He has a night job, been working there for about 6 months know, and in the last six weeks or so he is being really distant and doesn't really want to hang out. Our work schedules don't really match up so I understand that we can't talk much through the week but during the weekends, all he wants to do is sleep!!! We dont live together so the weekends is the only time we can be together. How can I get him to want to be with me more?

(Our wedding is not untill 2009, we are waiting for me to finish grad school)

2007-12-17 09:35:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and, well, we don't know. this is kind of a hypothetical. but answer anyway -

suppose my freind had a gf who just came home from iraq, and was thinking of asking her if she was faithfull the entire time she was away (a bit more than a year, never technically in "combat", and for a period certainly under fire), but was admonished by military wives he was freinds with. presuming that pregnancy and vd are not in issue - which of the following reasons are good, which are just bogus, and why?

1. asking her disrespects her and her service.

2. she was facing life and death situations, and sometimes people under that stress need to get laid. just a fact of life.

3. whatever guy she may or may not have been with was facing the same situation. think about moral. support the troops and get over your possessiveness under this extraordinary circumstance.

4. she's home. she's in one piece. what are you worried about?

5. it was a year and a half for crying out loud!

6. Its inpolite. Women have been accepting their husbands home for time immemorial without asking, even with knowledge that many service men get with prostitutes in those hard times. When she was serving, she may have needed to releive some stress the old fashioned way, and now its your turn to buck up. and at least it wasn’t probably with a call girl, but another gi.

2007-12-17 09:32:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for some reason i get information about my baby daddy but i hear alot of stuff about him and it bugs me alot cause he has moved on and i don't want any part of if being with this girl.. but this girl whats my attention what should i do i really don't like this girl that he is seeing and i don't want her around my son cause she is making him do things that i don't like am i being mean or what... i want her to stay aout of my son life and i don't care what she does with my baby daddy what should i do about her having my son do the things i don't like

2007-12-17 09:31:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When you met your fiance/husband/wife... you knew that they were the one!! I have been told when you meet that one.. that one you are gonna marry, you just know it earlry!

2007-12-17 09:30:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

...a chance meeting, double date, instant "crush"...how did you
both...meet...

2007-12-17 09:30:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Wat to get him for x-mas?

what do u get a guy who loves you more than you love him (which is a hell of a lot) for christmas? love him SOOOO much i know his gift is gonna be great like last year mine that i got him was stupid so i need to make up for it and so far i have a sharktooth necklace and a love poem i wrote for him

can NOT be expensive he loves sports hes been in basketball football and that stuff and we havent graduated from hight school yet

i cant do sumthin huge like take him out somewhere or like buy him an expensive gift most would be like 40 dollars prolly

he told me he would love something that shows how much i love him hes not the type of guy who would be like uh thanks he would be really happy to get a poem

2007-12-17 09:29:16 · 16 answers · asked by emu2013 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 09:26:29 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships