2007-12-17 09:42:06 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
wow no sense of humour
2007-12-17 10:05:29 · update #1
They're not going to the grocery store for fun, and the kids don't ask permission to scream...
2007-12-17 09:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by Snugs 3 · 6⤊ 2⤋
You think it is annoying? Try being the parent with the screaming child. Heaven forbid you try to discipline the little hellion because some asshole will have child protective services on you in a minute. The ones that do pitch a fit about the discipline don't even have kids. I take mine into the bathroom or duck into a dressing room and spank his little behind. One time usually does the trick. Every parent has had to deal with this and every kid does this at one point or another.
2007-12-17 09:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by M 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
We don't take them to LET them scream. They sometimes tend to do that, especially when they are little and we don't give them their way. As parents, we are damned if we do and damned if we don't. If we give them their way, then we are horrible parents for giving in, but if we don't give them their way and they start screaming, we're horrible because it hurts other people's ears. I think I will choose teaching my children that they are not always going to get what they want. Supermarket is a public place and if you don't like hearing children, then go somewhere else or order your groceries online.
2007-12-17 09:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by Scooter_The_Squirrels_Wifey 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
not all parents have a choice not to take them along. Children see this as an opportunity to be naughty to try to get there parents to give them what they want by embarrassing them with their screams. kids are not dumb it's manipulation the little farts! I do agree parents hold pick their kids up and leave when this happens. Take them to the car and let them see this method works! Then try to go to the store with them another day or later the same day. I know it's annoying but you can't do much about it!
2007-12-17 09:51:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
You have to go shopping. And sometimes you have to take the kids with you, and sometimes that is the moment they choose to throw a tantrum. The best way to make the tantrums stop is to take away the attention that the children get from them. ie, ignore it. I know it's not what people want to hear in a store, but it is important to be consistent with children. My kids both did that a few times as well. But they soon learned that it gets them nowhere, and now they don't bother anymore.
2007-12-17 09:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
children know when to be very naughty...and the supamarket is one of those places......... as there isnt much a parent can do to stop them ....if they were at home and screamed most likelly the child would be sent to there room or have time out in a corner for a short time...cant do that at the supamarket........... plus the children would see everything they want at the supamarket like lollies and icecream and they focus on those things hopeing they get them
2007-12-17 09:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by jess 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
because how can a parent stop a child from screaming? put duct tape over their mouth? the parents don't take the kids to the supermarket to let them scream. they just take the kids there because they have to do their shopping and there is no one else to watch the kids. situations happen at the store and kids scream. that's life. nobody is doing it on purpose. that's just normal life. your kids might scream in public, too. it's hard to take them outside because then you're abandoning your groceries. try to have a little empathy. i mean how do you NOT let a kid scream?
2007-12-17 09:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by Sufi 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Oh well I will be the first to not apoligize for my kid screaming in middle of the store... if you are a parent of any kind you already know the answer to this question. We dont say ok honey, we just walked in Walmart, scream at the top of your lungs now... get a life!
2007-12-17 09:46:12 · answer #8 · answered by Mommy to 1+triplets 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If you dont have kids you wont understand. Kids have a mind of their own. If they are tired from running errands all day with mom then yes they will scream. Raising children is a hard job. Give us parents a break.
2007-12-17 09:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by 2h@n@ 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Parents don't know how to raise children. They are struggling to make ends meet and have too much on their minds and feel that they don't have time to teach children right from wrong. So if they leave them alone to do what they want, they will not have so much on their minds. It is sad that many children wind up disrespecting parents when they are teenagers.
2007-12-17 10:40:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
because parents thease days dont know how to raise children
my nieces would get in trouble if they did that
not really spanked but a lightish pat and stern voice
yet theres was someones kid who alsmost ran into me and almost fell becasue i was walking and the parent gave me a dirty look
and now from reading others answears
yes its the way kids are if you raise them to be like that
the key point of a parent is to teach them that its wrong
and for babies yeh thats crying not much to teach them not to do that
but he means children who run through the isles screaming because they cant get thier bag of skittles
its the way you raise them to have self-control
cheack out a clasroom look at how many different kids theyre are look at the misbehavers look at the way theier parent deal with it
although babies are born with a set temperment
some scream some quiet
but the way you raise them can shape that and if you know how to deal with a child who acts like that
i said a bit too much didnt i?
2007-12-17 09:46:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋