He has a night job, been working there for about 6 months know, and in the last six weeks or so he is being really distant and doesn't really want to hang out. Our work schedules don't really match up so I understand that we can't talk much through the week but during the weekends, all he wants to do is sleep!!! We dont live together so the weekends is the only time we can be together. How can I get him to want to be with me more?
(Our wedding is not untill 2009, we are waiting for me to finish grad school)
2007-12-17 09:35:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In a relationship there is alot of give and take. You may have to step up your efforts. Start planning thing for the both of you to do during the weekends. Start on the small things and work in the bigger ones.
2007-12-17 09:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make an effort to plan some time together, I understand life gets busy but if you don't have time for love what are ya working so hard for? Don't be afraid not to rush into marriage either. marriage should be forever. push your date ahead if necessary make sure you 2 will be happy together. Every relationship involves work! You both have to work at it! make sure your both willing to do so I wish you a happy marriage when you do get married just try to get it right so you don't have to do it again later. Save yourself allot of heartache! It can be done! Happy lasting marriages are out there I hear!
2007-12-17 18:46:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess he doesn't want to spend time with you> Ask him why>
2007-12-17 18:04:50 · answer #3 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋