Family & Relationships - 17 December 2007

i would grab the next guy so whoes next

2007-12-17 02:45:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 02:45:28 · 10 answers · asked by ashashbaby05 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 02:45:16 · 4 answers · asked by VV 1 in Singles & Dating

She is nice and good and we have been into a long time relationship. I still fail to keep up with her workohlic style of life.

She works hard and loves her work, to an extent that it gets rude.

Do not know how to keep up with it.


Any suggestions?

2007-12-17 02:43:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for 8 years. I am 28 and my husband is 29. We have a really fun relationship that includes tons of laughing, sarcasim and wit. I love him more than the world and I know he loves me as much if not more. My problem is when we argue I often get very mean and nasty. He saids i am obsinate, and impossible to talk to when I am upset. I have been considering takeing a more submissive role in our marraige, but I dont know if I should. I do trust him with everything, but I am scared to give up control to him on any level. Do you think He would appreciate my efforts and where do I start?

2007-12-17 02:42:50 · 19 answers · asked by Shell 4 in Marriage & Divorce

here is the situation, we stop dating 2 months ago, the reason we stop dating is that she's dealing with emotional problems due to her last relationship of 8 years in which her x confess that he cheated on her the whole entire time. in which she's not ready for anything serious. so we stop but 2 weeks ago, we bump into each other and sparks reignited, we hung out the entire week and weekend, then into last week she became cold, toward the end of the week she began to ask me to hang out, we hung out this weekend so i decided to get her something for x mas, i got her something not cheap but not expensive something that she will love. so last night i went to give it to her, she said NO NO NO i cant accept this, I said don t worry about it, its just a gift, i brought everyone gifts so its not a big deal she said Yeah but i didnt get u anything (i knew this) and i told her dont worry about it later on she left me a message saying i dont know how much to thank u

what do u think about this

2007-12-17 02:42:18 · 12 answers · asked by Steven 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If she dies or refuses to pay them back. I live in California

2007-12-17 02:39:05 · 14 answers · asked by JohnB 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister is sick in the hosbital.She has that super bug thing.I'm not allowed to go there right now.Shes dieng.I dont know what to do.I'm going to have to take care of her kids to!

2007-12-17 02:38:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-17 02:38:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At first, then try to tear you apart once you are between the sheets? It seems so dishonest. If
you want it from a guy all along you should not play
games. It has happened to me a number of times. Why do women do this?

2007-12-17 02:35:55 · 9 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating

I am married but not sure if I still love my wife. I had an 8 month affair with a woman and I still think about her. Now I have fallen for someone else and I think about her all the time too.

2007-12-17 02:27:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I (asian) and him (american) began chatting online as friends for 8 months. At that time, we both did not expect about loving someone on net and we thought it was a stupid idea to do so but as the time passed by, we found we fell in love each other because our point of view toward many things are almost similar. Then we decided to be bf and gf and since then we have talked at least 3 hrs per day. Most of the time that we talk, we are really sweet to each other and ofcourse, we fight sometimes either but it is solved subsequently. Up to know, its about 7 months already that we decided to be bf and gf. We have talked about many plans and to be honest, i also help him to release on cam. He was offered a job in my country and he will start his work in feb but he will come here one month earlier in order to see me.

2007-12-17 02:20:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or you prefer living with roomates or your parents.

2007-12-17 02:17:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

esp if its indian marriage couple!

2007-12-17 02:08:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I started workin at this new nightclub about a few weeks ago the first week the doorman kept touching me and saying all this stuff such as 'are you easy in bed', i was really upset last week and a work mate had to tell my boss as he knew something was up. They said they had seen him do it to other girls to and they are going to get rid of him and hes never coming back, they said they wernt goin to tell anybody, especially him for my saftey, i turned up work on saturday night to see him at the doors, my boss just said whats up with your face, as if nothin had happend wen i told him he just said oh i thought i got rid of him hel b gone 2morow. Saturday night he spoke 2 me sayin the blokes really sorry n hes admitted it n he didnt mean it n that he wants 2 apololgise but hes 2 scared, i wa realy upset thy told him this, not just him but everybody else on the door and now hes allowed to stay on the doors, n iv been forced out, r they in the wrong? or should they b really gettin rid of him?

2007-12-17 02:06:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just dont know what to do. After a great 3 yr relationship. to which my children 16 & 5 (from ex husband of 20 yrs) adore my boyfriend. I have cried my eyes out all weekend. Just being told he wont ever marry... He was going to propse after a year, but seeing as i had only been divorced a year, i thought it was too soon. and told him I wasnt going anywhere. To lets just wait alittle longer. and now he wont marry me. He says hes afraid now. Now I dont know what to do. He loves me and my daughters, but now he wants to end it. completly. I really need advise as im crushed. I know that my children will be very upset. and i love this man with all my heart. Does anyone have any advise. as i dont want to loose him. He doesnt think hed make a good father. wow... just telling me that now is devastating

2007-12-17 02:05:20 · 15 answers · asked by im no one 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do the custodial parent ALWAYS want more? I was a single mom of 4, I received (when he would pay) $205.00 per month. I never complained. I went out and got a job and took on MY RESPONSIBILITY. Yes, he helped in the making them, BUT they are MY children. Why don't women today want to get out and work and take care of their own? Why do they want the fathers to pay ungodly amounts, (they are barely left enough to live on themselves) and still cry it isn't enough? If you can't take care of your kids, then maybe you shouldn't have them. When your married having children, you should ask yourself, 'can I support this child without help?' BEFORE you decide to have children. What is up with people now? Are people really this money happy, that they stopped caring about what they are doing to the other parent? Men should pay child support, BUT IT SHOULD BE REASONABLE, not outragious.

2007-12-17 02:02:36 · 20 answers · asked by carmeliasue 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-17 02:01:33 · 20 answers · asked by ♡ 4 in Singles & Dating

did u ever see someone that is talented at his job ,yet every day he drinks at least a 12 or more and the weekend is the worse all night until day light. the stupid thing is that he got out of prison ,he served 2 yrs for drunk driveing. I love him but i really don't like him anymore.Is there any way to get him to stop or do I just give up?

2007-12-17 01:59:08 · 12 answers · asked by misfit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my wife. We have been together for 4 years she is the mother of my youngest child ( I have 4 children with 4 different mothers). This is my last child I cannot have anymore children. My wife and I fight all the time because of her temper. she keeps saying things will get better and they haven't...I finally took all my stuff and left Its been 3 weeks now. Should I try to work things out I cannot take it anymore she always verbally abuses me and screams at me.

2007-12-17 01:56:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-17 01:52:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so my friend, who I have had a crush on for a long time, is dating a complete and total jerk. She introduced him to me and he acted the way I did when I was in 6th grade (I am now 21). He insulted an activity I take part in, and then asked me to help him with it. When she walked away, he said, "Get some beers in you, and we'll have some drunken martial arts." From my point of view, this sounds like a fight. I left before anything got out of hand. I don't know what to do. If I tell her about this, she'll just think I'm jealous. If I don't tell her, I am afraid he is going to get violent with her eventually (she said he got into a fight with his roommate before). Please help me. I really have no idea what to do.

2007-12-17 01:49:53 · 5 answers · asked by The Man 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife left me for a while. She came back and we are working on things. We have been back together for only a month. The problem is that i cant seem to let go of what happened. Furthermore, i think she was interested in someone right before she left, and did stuff with this guy while we were going thru our divorce. This really affects me, but there is no concrete evidence. Anyway, i seem to dwell on how much she has hurt me just a couple of months ago. Everytime i bring it up to her she just yells at me, swears at me, and doesnt want to hear anything about it. Like my feelings dont matter, she just says im being annoying, and her heart was broken at the same time. I just feel like i want to express my feelings, so maybe she will help me thru them, but even before i can get a sentence out, she is already on defense yelling at me, tell me to block it out, move on, that i am a crazy person, and that im annoying her. Should i just move on, forget everything, or should she show compassion

2007-12-17 01:49:17 · 16 answers · asked by supremyecy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-17 01:46:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend (really, it is a friend)....she lives with 4 other people, which includes a best guy friend. she and the best guy friend are inseperable. they watch movies every night, go to dinner, etc. he hugs her, has lunch w/ her, it's almost "dating" without the sex and kissing.

Are there any sure-tell ways to find out if he is truly interested in her? She doesn't want to ruin the friendship or scare him (as they live together, etc). They are both single.

Thanks for your help! She'll be checking your answers!

2007-12-17 01:45:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How many of you still keep in touch with your former flame? The ex and I split amicably and decide to remain civil – I only keep in touch by email or phone just a few months to see how he’s been doing… But last week, I received an email that he’s been seeing another girl he met on a Christian dating site considering he’s an agnostic (that’s one of the reasons we broke up because of our spiritual differences.. This is how I met him as well in an online dating service…) I want him to be happy but at the same time, I couldn’t helped feeling a bit jealous and he was bragging about the new girl as well. I feel like he was throwing it on my face considering he’s doing pretty well in his personal life but I’m still doing fairly OK well – I still am looking after a family member who’s trying to recover from cancer.

I realized life is too short – I cant be bothered by playing mind games with people. I’ve blocked him from my life and I want to live an honorable life.

2007-12-17 01:43:54 · 6 answers · asked by mitchchan 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 01:43:23 · 2 answers · asked by wisestone 1 in Singles & Dating

It is very sad you have no compasion for joseph greatgrand mother who died recently.
you do nothing except to try and poison Joseph mind at such a time, it just show once again it's all about you. Very early i tried to tell you about her passing you hang up the phone on me it is not about you stop fooling yourself.you make no effort the work together to his passport and you did the same thing for his medical and dental you tell me where is the love you have for our child. you stop talking love and start showing it.I would love nothing more than to take Joseph with me every time i have to travel but he has to parent and have to do the right thing in order for Joseph to travel with us the next time.

Now this is what i was trying to say on the phone when you hang up on me-
I am leaving on monday dec. 17th and will be back on thursday dec. 27th during which time Joseph will be on the first week of winter break,i will taking him for the second week.

I love my son and so does every one o

2007-12-17 01:41:49 · 12 answers · asked by me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-17 01:41:15 · 11 answers · asked by Miss Tyranny[Killa Juggalette] 2 in Singles & Dating

Ha, yea, like I'm gonna ask THAT question...
Ok, serious question now...

At what point in the relationship do you realize you want to spend forever with a person? Even if it ended up not working out, when did you first have that epiphany of "I want to spend the rest of my life with you?"
Do you think women feel that way sooner in a relationship than guys?

2007-12-17 01:39:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating