It is very sad you have no compasion for joseph greatgrand mother who died recently.
you do nothing except to try and poison Joseph mind at such a time, it just show once again it's all about you. Very early i tried to tell you about her passing you hang up the phone on me it is not about you stop fooling yourself.you make no effort the work together to his passport and you did the same thing for his medical and dental you tell me where is the love you have for our child. you stop talking love and start showing it.I would love nothing more than to take Joseph with me every time i have to travel but he has to parent and have to do the right thing in order for Joseph to travel with us the next time.
Now this is what i was trying to say on the phone when you hang up on me-
I am leaving on monday dec. 17th and will be back on thursday dec. 27th during which time Joseph will be on the first week of winter break,i will taking him for the second week.
I love my son and so does every one o
2007-12-17 01:41:49 · 12 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I love my son and so does every one of his family members on my side of his family and also my wife family . it seems to me that you are the only one who is confuse i would love for you to take joseph and show him his family members on your side or tell him the truth and till you do that you should embrace the fact that he has a huge family who love him.
will call when i get back
2007-12-17 01:42:35 · update #1
I think that he is a father who is trying to be truthful with you, without being disrespectful. He wants you to take a greater interest in the well being of your son. His efforts are for his son's sake and I think it would be beneficial to everyone if you considered his letter and tried to understand where he was coming from and work with him to improve things between you two for yours son's sake.
Im not sure what you are asking in regard to this letter and posting but it seems that there are some things that need to be worked out and you hanging up the phone instead of enduring some moments of being uncomfortable is not going to help the situation.
Its time to be the mother you need to be and let him be the father he is trying to be.
2007-12-17 01:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by Faithful_tab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you might be the one with the problem. Your jealous. He has a life that is not with you and you are having a hard time accepting it. Deep down you still care for him and you know that the only way you can get to him is through your son. In the long run your son is going to pay. Maybe you should seek counseling. Maybe your depressed.
Why do you hang up on him? Is it because his plans interfere with your plans. Have you tried compromising? I don't know what he did to you when you guys were together, but it must have hurt you very bad. I think you need to maintain a civil relationship with him for the sake of your son... Like he said It is NOT all about you, and it should be all about your SON. What does your son want? Have you asked him.
2007-12-17 02:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by lilLuv_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, you're proper, he's erroneous. What do you assume at 17? sounds like your son is doing extraordinarily plenty. i do no longer think of adolescents could be overly troubled approximately stupid issues that don't rely like messy rooms (as long as there are not vermin or something.) As for the roles, it quite is slightly a difficulty (yet no longer so unusual or considerable). i don't be attentive to precisely what the answer for that must be...possibly tell your son if he won't do his chores he has to contribute to hire quite...or which you at the instant are not doing his laundry, cooking is dinner if he's no longer pitching in too... Your considerable different's mindset in the direction of your son is a difficulty...do you think of it would help in case you got here to an contract approximately how long your son would be living with you? Do you think of his resentment stems from it looking like your son won't pass out at 18 like maximum young little ones do? possibly you may return up with an answer to all that and that could calm him down and make him much less green with envy, i don't be attentive to. possibly your son can proceed to exist campus and you will contribute to his room and board. Or he can take out loans for college so he can pass complete time and additionally pay his room and board.
2016-11-28 00:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is able to get your son a passport. Let him do it. You are afraid of him because......
Get your head together, stop fighting over the small stuff. You will have a relationship of some kind with this man forever. Find a middle ground. Your son loves both of you. Are you asking him to choose between the two of you?
2007-12-17 02:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by tysdad62271 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever put your child against the father. your problems with him are yours, you own them. Your child didn't ask for this parental arrangement....you chose the father for your child....if you want a happy and well adjusted child let the father spend time with him and allow him to love him freely. I see so many kids heads get screwed up because of something called Parent Alienation syndrome. Read about it, know what you are doing. Be a responsible parent.
2007-12-17 02:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by Ali C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is making an effort, but do you hang up on him, the fact that you are no longer together should not cause enemity between you atleast for the sake of the child.
may be you should work on getting the passport for your son and see if his daddy will take him on his next trip.
2007-12-17 01:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by black&proud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it more than icky that you refer to him as 'my son's dad' as if you have no relationship with him.
I think that says a lot.
Perhaps the guy is a bit pushy by laying out the ways that love is supposed to be shown (i.e. the ways he wants it), but just the way you name him makes me wonder if he hasn't got a point.
2007-12-17 01:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by mgerben 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is trying to take your son out of the country I wouldn't go for that either. I'm sorry about his great-grand mother, but if you let him go out of the country you will never see your son again.
2007-12-17 01:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by callawak2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does one know if you are talking love for your son and not showing it. some people misunderstand how others work, a mothers love is genuine and like no other.
2007-12-17 01:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by 1 UnIqUe InDiViDuAl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think someone should use spell check and get a better grasp of the English language.
2007-12-17 01:47:59 · answer #10 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋