Ha, yea, like I'm gonna ask THAT question...
Ok, serious question now...
At what point in the relationship do you realize you want to spend forever with a person? Even if it ended up not working out, when did you first have that epiphany of "I want to spend the rest of my life with you?"
Do you think women feel that way sooner in a relationship than guys?
2007-12-17 01:39:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes a womens expectations of a relationship are totally different than a mans..It's hard to say when a guy decides when he wants to spend forever with a person...Yes women feel that way sooner than me do and a lot of times that pushes us away , thats why you read on here about guys not wanting to make a commitment , I think a lot of them just get asked or told to commit way to soon........
2007-12-17 05:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by Confused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that women feel that way sooner than guys. My girl and I are both crazy about each other and we are 3 months into the relationship. We already know we hate spending time away from each other and want to move in together ... we're pretty much at that point where we want to spend forever with each other.
I think that in most relationships, the two partners get to that point at different times. I think this causes some degree of stress in the relationship.
Perhaps more girls get there faster than boys because the girls tend to think differently about relationships than boys. Certainly a lot of guys will NOT have thought about their relationship much more than "Oh - she's really cool and I love to hang out with her ... but let's watch sports!"
2007-12-17 01:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think that women feel that way sooner than guys, women age faster and they are smarter, so they want to settle down and begin a family which is the smart thing to do but then guys just wanna have fun and not do the same thing , the feeling comes with maturity in a relationship.
2007-12-17 02:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by newingtonnewington 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get to the point that you want to spend more time than you do now with that person and you feel you want to share everything with them - and they want to share everything with you. If you get to the point that you cannot dream of life without the person - then you are close.
I have always felt that unconditional love is when it is true. You would love the person if they were hit by a car or lost all their hair. Kinda like that...
2007-12-17 11:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no... I think women may say it sooner? But I guess it depends.
I hear it sends a lot of men running so I always wait for the guy to say stuff like 'i love you' first. same applies to the latter.
2007-12-17 01:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by mommy2Zachary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the type of person your dating, if they are looking for long term relationships or just a short term one..
2007-12-17 01:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the relationship, I've sometimes been the one that has felt that way first, and other times I've been proposed to and thought "whoops"...
2007-12-17 12:43:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would prefer the do you think I'm pretty question its easier to answer then the one you asked.
2007-12-17 01:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,u're beautiful.
2007-12-19 10:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I think your pretty. Haven't I been tell you that for weeks??? Ha-Ha!!!
2007-12-17 14:15:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋