I started workin at this new nightclub about a few weeks ago the first week the doorman kept touching me and saying all this stuff such as 'are you easy in bed', i was really upset last week and a work mate had to tell my boss as he knew something was up. They said they had seen him do it to other girls to and they are going to get rid of him and hes never coming back, they said they wernt goin to tell anybody, especially him for my saftey, i turned up work on saturday night to see him at the doors, my boss just said whats up with your face, as if nothin had happend wen i told him he just said oh i thought i got rid of him hel b gone 2morow. Saturday night he spoke 2 me sayin the blokes really sorry n hes admitted it n he didnt mean it n that he wants 2 apololgise but hes 2 scared, i wa realy upset thy told him this, not just him but everybody else on the door and now hes allowed to stay on the doors, n iv been forced out, r they in the wrong? or should they b really gettin rid of him?
2007-12-17 02:06:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not over reacting. now days with this world you never know what could happen and you have every right to be worried and try to protect yourself. Do what you need to do I would check into harrasment charges on your own if your boss wont do anything.
Kw
2007-12-17 02:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK what exactly do you do in the nightclub?
Whatever it is, the doorman is your working colleague - he needs to keep it professional only - as in no touchy-feely and no "come-on lines" like the "easy in bed" trash.
Yes, the doorman is in the wrong. AND so is the night club for keeping him on as doorman.
However, it's a lot easier to find waitresses, bartenders and dancers - than it is to find an effective bouncer/doorman.
So that's probably why you were let go.
You could take the whole thing to court - but it will cost you $$ to try to prove it.
So how about going to school, get your certification in something where you earn better $$ and work with a better class of people?
You may have to give up the "party girl" life - but hey, you'll live longer and healthier for it.
2007-12-17 02:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that guy should have been history from the first time he even said something to you or anyone else!!! If it's at all possible, try to find another job, your boss seems like he's covering up and is just a lazy a$$!! Do they want you or someone else to be hurt or dead first??
Get out while you can, if you can.
Good Luck
2007-12-17 02:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by 3rd LIFE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they are in the wrong that is sexual harassment and you are not no piece of meat, or should be a victim to a man who feels that it is ok to say sexual comments to you anytime he wants. Your feelings should be taken into consideration and since you spoke to the boss and he assured you they knew he's done it to other girls and he was being asked to leave, yes they are just as guilty. I say find someone you can talk to about it and report it to and document your conversation with the boss as well as what your remark was to this dirty dog and take the next steps if you allow him to get away with it it will never stop, question being whose his next victim!
2007-12-17 02:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by jodi_t38 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you were told there were other girls he'd done that to, you should find out who the girls are and if they'd all be willing to sue the guy for harassment & the nightclub for not attending to the issue.
2007-12-17 02:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 13:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by hultman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that's considered sexual harrassment... if he actually does it agian... i would say sue the night club... they should have gotten rid of him, u reported sexual harrassment and they are supporting it.... if he stops whatever... that's fine i guess, every1 deserves a second chance.... but if he doesn't stop i would say go sue the danm night club!!!
2007-12-17 02:11:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think u'r over reacting.get rid of him before something drastic happens.
2007-12-17 02:17:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are wrong, but better find other job.
2007-12-17 02:24:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THEY SHOULD GET RID OF HIM!!!!...he didn't mean to say sorry..trust me!
2007-12-17 02:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by Jigga seeen! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋