My last question referred to the porn which made alot of men mad but I don't care I'm still firm it's cheating. But ontop of this why do some men feel it is appropriate to cuss out their wife and other things that shouldn't be done when feeling pervoked. Then on the other hand u dare to call them a name right back or defend ur own honor they backhand u like a little BEATCH
2007-12-17 04:25:19 · 24 answers · asked by Lilith 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
with all the great guys out there, why are you chosing to be with a turd? ever question the choices you make? yet another hairheaded chick ignorring great guys to be with an as*hole.....grow up and make better choices
2007-12-17 04:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by lmspencr 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Marriage is a sacred element. once you assert "I Do" you're committing your self to love that *and easily that* guy or woman for the the remainder of your life. adult adult males do no longer inevitably cheat with the aid of fact there is something lacking of their intercourse life. They do it for different motives too - to get interest, to sense like they are 'the guy', as a manner of dealing with hidden themes... I understand your question, i think of if a guy cheats on a woman and he or she takes him lower back, then she could be prepared to artwork with him and make the relationship artwork. Going at the back of him and doing the comparable element as payback will no longer do the relationship any good. She may be the single to stroll away if he's not offering her what she desires = emotionally, bodily, sexually. regardless of. the element is, in case you will cheat (person) then why concern being in a relationship in any respect?
2016-11-03 14:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hit you? First off, unless you attacked him, no man has a reason to back hand or otherwise hit you. If he is starting to get that mad he needs to leave and cool off. But, since you are in the mode of always wanting to be right I think you are provoking him. Now you want to make it sound like you are all innocent of anything wrong and he just hit you. I bet you are up in his face daring him to be a man and do something. In 99.9% of the cases when a man hits a woman it is because he is weak. In 0.1% it is because she did something to esculate the situation. That is my opinion on that. If he is abusive I say call the cops, throw his butt in jail and get out of the relationship.
Still firm on the cheating, huh. You asked our opinion on the porn and we gave it to you. Now you are mad because it didn't support your position. If you knew how you felt why ask our opinion? This could be the reason why your relationship is in trouble and will probably fail.
2007-12-17 04:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by callawak2 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Often times men behave this way because they're immature. Frankly some men never grow up (deal with it BOYS). Others just never learned how to treat people right...men OR women.
And a REAL MAN would NEVER hit a woman, I don't care HOW mad he is or how "justified" he thinks he is. THAT my dear, is ABUSE in its most classic form. If THAT is happening, then you need to pack your crap and get away from that guy A.S.A.P. no questions asked, and no 2nd chances.
If you're in a situation where your man is treating you badly, then maybe you two need some counseling. Many people (men and women) benefit from anger management and communications therapy....maybe both of you would too.
2007-12-17 04:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Oh hon, this is a toxic relationship. If you're verbally demeaning each other and he feels free to hit you when you are, something is definitely out of whack.
I suggest the two of you seek counseling. If that doesn't work or he won't go, it's time for you to consider how much better life would be with someone who treats you like a wife should be treated and leave.
2007-12-17 04:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
A man told me 25yrs ago a person that uses cuss words use them because they are not smart enough to think of the right words to express them self.
It put a 99% stop on that.
2007-12-17 04:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by teeman824 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You have been around the wrong kind of men. Well I wouldn't call them men. Real men don't do that. My husband has never even raised his voice at me when we have had fight. We have been together 17yrs. You need to find yourself a real man and stop messing with these boys. Good Luck♥♥
2007-12-17 04:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by ♥LS♥ 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I don't know what kind of men you are finding, but SUCKS for YOU! I know all my girlfriends have jerk boyfrined that yell at them for nonsense and swear uncontrollably. I must be lucky me and my man only swear at eachother in a jokeingly fashion, always followed with a laugh smile and I love you and he never yells at me watsoever. Stop fallin for the jerks and wait for the right one. You might not even think he is right, I didnt think my man was right for me, I didnt even like him in the begining, now I am head over heels for him. And porn isnt cheating. thats dumb
2007-12-17 05:08:25 · answer #8 · answered by Monica 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well since you seem to know everything about males and life in general why ask this at all?
I believe you have issues yourself that need attention and you take your anger out on your man.
2007-12-17 04:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by The Voice of Reason 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
For the same reason some women are mean and selfish....
They haven't evolved emotionally or maturity-wise to the point they recognize there are other people in the world besides themselves who are worth valueing and respecting.
Sad, unfortunate, but that's the way the world is....hopefully, it will make us appreciate those who are NOT mean and UNselfish a lot more!
2007-12-17 04:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by whabtbob 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋