has one sister 34yr (but she act's like a kid) and I do not get along with her and I am not sure if I should invite her to my wedding and how I should deal with her during the holidays? she is all about drama she has 4 kids who she does not take care of or live with because it get' in the way of her bar time (my first problem) She has always been rude to me (ex.she will say hi to everyone but me) and last week we had a family dinner and after her last very rude comment to me I confronted her alone and said this is not the time or place for this and what ever she has against me drop it and I even said I was sorry for what ever made her mad. THEN she continued to run her mouth one rude comment after another. She finally said to stay away form her kids and for the 1st time,I said sometihng rude but true I said your not a mother and that since she does not take care of the kids she could make that call, then she hit me!The fight got broaken up but I have had it! what shuold I do?
2007-12-17 04:51:49 · 4 answers · asked by kirsten m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My fiancee is fed up with her too and totally on my side! It's not just me she is rude to she is the type of person who looks for trouble.
2007-12-17 05:49:25 · update #1
You just stay as far from her as you can. You and your fiance should decide together whether to invite her to your wedding or not.
2007-12-17 06:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to discuss this with your Fiance'. Even though you have issues with this woman, you really should invite her to your wedding because she is your fiance's Sister! It would cause more problems if she wasn't invited.
You need to accept that she is most likely going to be at all the family functions. You can only can control your behavior and you are not responsible for someone else's bad behavior. There is nothing wrong with leaving the room if someone else irritates you. You may need to consider new coping skills if you want to marry into this family.
Also, telling someone they are not a good mother, isn't mature behavior. It sounds like you both have a lot of growing up to do! Just worry about yourself and forget about her, but be nice even if it hurts. It doesn't mean you have to bend over backwards for her.
2007-12-17 05:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from her when at all possible and when around her ignore her ... its still your fiances sister ...what does he say about it ? ..maybe you could ask your fiance for a family meeting and just talk all this out ... after all she will be at all the family holidays along with you and your fiance
2007-12-17 05:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by autumn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't invite her to the wedding and keep your contacts with her to a minimum if at all. Good luck.
2007-12-23 03:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋