When dealing with men, what types of behaviour makes your creep alert go off? Is it how they look, talk, act, or just negative energy that they give off?
2007-12-17 04:01:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. Some of these descriptions sound like me. I have to stop staring at girls in class so much. ha ha
2007-12-17 07:54:54 · update #1
In case you're wondering, the creepy guy breathes out of his nose hard because he wants to smell you.
2007-12-17 07:55:46 · update #2
I really try to just listen to my gut on this one, and not question my own intuition. It has so often been right on track even if I couldn't put "why" into words. But I can give you a few cues I'm sure of, at least for myself.
If he moves too fast into my physical space, crowds me or otherwise seems to want to take over...
If he starts talking of a serious relationship too early, seems anxious about it, or pushy...
If he wants sex too soon (self explainatory)...
If he wants to know too much about me too early, asks questions like a drill seargent...
He he wants to "take care of me", especially when we barely know one another...
If he buys me gifts (again, when we are early into the relationship) or in other ways seems to try to buy me...
If he appears highly jealous, doesn't want me to be with my friends, tries to isolate me from family or other men...
If he wants to take up all my time, to be with me every minute...
If he has to always know where I am, makes accusations or inuendos about my behavior or habits...
If he wants to control how I dress, where I go, makes fun of or discounts my opinions or tries to make his mine...
And again, as I said, if I just even get that little twinge of "icky", I'm trusting it - every single time. Once you have ignred that little voice in your ear, and then found yourself in trouble, you don't turn it off again.
gentle thougths...
2007-12-17 04:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone gives off an energy... or vibe... and the strongest of which, I think, is the "Creepy Guy Vibe." That's the feeling you get when you KNOW someone is watching you. Then you turn around and always see that ONE creepy guy starring at you from across the room. They're usually really stand offish (which I suppose gives them the creepy vibe, if he was just to come up and start talking to you... it would probably turn into the Jerk or Perv Vibe lol) But every once in awhile a "Creepy Guy" will wait until you walk past and make one little, under his breath, not so sly comment. Or there was this one guy in my office building... he seemed to wait for me out front and he never went in until I did. He would never talk to me (even when I said Hi) but everytime I walked past he just started breathing harder... ewww... He was a creepy guy.
2007-12-17 04:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a weird negative energy they give off. I have a lot of guys friends that are not good looking and may act a little goofy but they are still cool to hang out with.
Girls have a weird sense of "Creep" You just get a feeling that tells you to try and stay away.
2007-12-17 04:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
once you stare lots and don't probable comprehend the girl..however the stare has a creepiness to it. lol. Like "I wanna smother you", not "ohh, you're eye-catching and that i'm fascinated." whilst a guy knows you're actually not fascinated and that they grow to be very persistent, they are continually randomly the place you're at, he continually initiates various unwelcome touch/touching/hugs, he will overdose on the compliments, "you're so eye-catching" *whilst respiration heavily and looking out upon you intensely*, etc. adult men who're extremely perverted (this is a finished turnoff for me, I hate it). adult men who seem you up and down like they are undressing you with their eyes. whilst they call you continuously or remark on each photograph you have on facebook...CREEPY!!! it is terrible, yet many women folk anticipate a guy who isn't excellent looking as creepy if he's interested in a woman and that they are actually not. yet, if that comparable guy befell to be drop lifeless perfect and needed a hug or reported a compliment..the ladies could have an interest by it. it is not probable honest.
2016-10-02 00:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you got a 'stache, get rid of it. be well groomed. if you have bad teeth, that is a turn-off. getting too close or seeming to needy, especially in the beginning. Do not try to impress her too much, although that actually falls more into the douche category. If you collect, like, action figures or intestines or something, keep it WELL HIDDEN. clip your fingernails. when you follow a girl, that is creepy. if she starts to walk faster or slowly back up, let her go. So many guys follow me around and it is just creepy. if you are older and give her the look, that is creepy. calling a stranger beautiful can even be immensely creepy. haha, kind of just avoid those things and you should be okay.
2007-12-17 04:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If they act too needy. I once went out with a man on a blind date & they day after he called me 4 times.stating he was falling in love.. Not enough time to know someone.
The other thing on meeting someone for the first time is cleaniness. If he hasnt brushed his hair or teeth.Good chance he isnt when he is with you either. Yuk. Plus if a man looks at himself in the mirror more then I do. Not good.
2007-12-17 04:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually get a creepy feeling if the guy breathes heavily, even through his nose...it's like he's getting excited and it's VERY gross. Also, ANY guy who uses bad language during a conversation is immediately a "creep" in my book.
2007-12-17 04:07:28 · answer #7 · answered by Beach Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Creepy to me is the guy that can't look you in the eye but stares at your body. One that hovers around you without saying a word or if he does say something it's inappropriate. Look is if he is dirty or scuzzy because of his own bad hygiene. I don't know, I've had a lot of bad experiences with guys in the past and I don't like being alone with any guy, except my boyfriend.
2007-12-17 04:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by Chrystal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When they some how know your name and you have no idea HOW they know your name. When they come out of their office and stand there and stare at your cubicle at work after you have left for the day.
When he is married and in his 40's but tells a 25 yr old co worker she hasn't worn a certain dress in a while.
This dude is a creeper. And weird. He's nice. BUT strange.
2007-12-17 04:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by Brio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine is when u break off the relationship and he dont take it that well and he does nothing but call u more then 70 times in one day pritty much calling every couple of min and he dont take the word "NO" from you. so he calls u so much u have no choise but call the police andhave put a stop to all the phone calls bc he dont want to just be frineds!!
2007-12-17 04:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by one sey beoch 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋