If I treat a girl like she should be treated, give her everything she needs, and respect her all that happens is she thinks I'm a nice guy but more of a friend. Why do we put those who treat us well in more of a friend-zone than in the relationship-able zone?
2007-12-17 04:02:02 · 2 answers · asked by GluedHands 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is so because it is in women's nature to do so; they are "wired" that way, unfortunately. The female brain registers male friends the same way it registers female friends. Women don't see any romantic/sexual link to their friends whatsoever; regardless of their gender. Its a different story with us men; who wouldn't bang a hot female friend of theirs??? Women don't see it this way. They tend to seek relationship material outside of their social network; the friends zone is in the core of this network, so anyone who falls in there is automatically out of the picture. The friends zone is like a black hole, not even light can escape. So yes, you must avoid the nice guy approach if you want to avoid getting sucked into the friends zone. Cheers!
2007-12-17 04:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Either you're not making your true intentions clear, or she's not sexually attracted to you. It may sound shallow, but romantic love cannot exist if you aren't attracted to the other person. I always treat my friends (male and female alike) the way they should be treated, I give them what they need, and I respect them. You need to do more than that if you want to be considered more than a friend.
2007-12-17 12:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by xK 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋