Ok... so... My ex and I haven't been together since February but we were still friends off and on up until last week when I confronted her about her talking crap about me to everyone... When she said "so" I told her I wanted nothing to do with her and I told her to stay out of my life... She then wrote a blog saying she was gonna call the cops on me and have a restraining order put on me and blah blah blah... let me remind you... I'm the one who told her to stay out of MY life...
Today she writes me an email with something I said a few months ago... it said something along the lines of I'll always love her and I never want her out of my life... and that is true I do love her... but I'm tired of getting hurt by her and then she goes around telling everyone I'm such a bad person...
So I guess the question is: Should I let her back in my life??
2007-12-17 01:33:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not looking to get back together with her... I'm very happy with someone else...
2007-12-17 01:49:05 · update #1
No, you shouldnt let her back into your life. She seems bitter about something or is jealous of you. Either way that is not going to make for a good friendship.
She is talking trash behind your back and when you confronted her she didnt care about how it hurt you.
Her bringing the words you said to her before up is her trying to make you feel guilty for doing what was right for you and not continually letting her treat you bad.
Let her back in your life - she will probably only cause you even more stress and trouble.
If anything maybe down the line you two could be friends but as of now she is not showing friend colors or behaviors that would warrant you letting her back in your life. She wants to be friends let her do a 360 and start acting like one before you even consider letting her back in your life.
2007-12-17 01:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by Faithful_tab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to?
She talks bad about you to her friends and other people in her life. She has now got them thinking bad things about you and feeling sorry for her or disgusted by her that she would date someone who "mistreats" her so badly.
She's threatened you with the police and a restraining order. If you've done nothing to warrant this kind of reaction, then she sounds like she's psychotic and could be dangerous to you.
She might be using the old email as a way to show you are stalking her.
Ignore her email. If it makes you feel better, then block her email address, don't take her calls anymore and get on with your life.
2007-12-17 01:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because u are crap...i don't think a girl would say bad things if u didn't trigger her to do so... u must have hurt her that much...maybe that's the reason why u've broke-up...i think...and do u think after all u've said she would be running back in your arms if u tell her u want her back in ur life again...? maybe u do look like tom cruise or brad pitt which i doubt if u r she would...but i don't think so...move on and go somewhere else wherein she won't ever see u...joke...
obviously, i think u too are still inlove wz each other...yeah why not give it a shot...why not get back to her because it's so obvious that u still love her and she's still has not move on from ur break up...a;; u have to do is to forget the past and patch up things...and please make a pact that not to say bad things to each other ever again...i know it's just a matter of misunderstanding...beacause of ur damn pride...why not swallow it sometimes...so u would live in a harmonious and loving environment...if i know u're saying bad things just to get attention from each other...
2007-12-17 01:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by my 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you answered your own question when you said that you were tired of getting hurt by her. For your own good, you need to cut her out of your life and move on. You can still love a person while knowing that she isn't good for you. Find someone that will make you happy.
2007-12-17 01:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by Ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope! It's obvious that she's not that in love with you if she's talking crap to everyone! Not only that, but if you get back together the next ending may be that much worse.
Just go mingle and find some new ladies... ;-) G'luck
2007-12-17 01:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some females do in basic terms not % their ex's yet they don't % everyone else to have them the two. I easily have been interior the comparable undertaking as you some circumstances, do in basic terms not enable them to think of their attending to you. they supply up ultimately. good luck x
2016-12-11 07:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't let her back into your life. If she could say and do that to you she does not have love for you. let her go and go on with your life.
2007-12-17 01:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by KYMBRLEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are get e therapist or better yet get checked. I mean I wouldn't let anyone like dat in my life PERIOD. I just feel so sad for you cuz you gotta deal with it.
2007-12-17 01:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know that u cant handle her acting imiture. and your ready to move on. tell her you always love her but u need distance, and need time to think.
2007-12-17 01:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by baybi dohl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely not.
2007-12-17 01:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋