My co-worker has this siutation, not me, and they're too embarrrased to post it. Thanks in advance for all answers. Merry Christmas!
2007-12-17 01:14:33 · 24 answers · asked by Katy B 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell your co-worker that's she's a nasty skanky homewrecker, and I hope Santa leaves coal in the biatch's stocking.
2007-12-17 01:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the husband should have a nice gift, after all, he's being so understanding about sharing his wife, he kinda deserves like a little extra something and in this way, by gifting him something grand, she can placate her guilt. But the lover should have something fab as well. I say spend money on both.
2007-12-17 03:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never! If a person is still married and you are getting a little bit on the side I have no problem with that. However, if you are putting that person in a primary position over your husband or wife you need to be out of the marriage.
While it may play that way in movies, you never get you mistress (or mister) a better present than your spouse. EVER!
2007-12-17 01:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by callawak2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not about the price of the gift, it's the thought. If there is something you know either of them would like then get it. I feel bad for you that you got so many harsh comments. Marriage isn't easy and sometimes you have to stay for reasons that not everyone would understand. Just know that if it were possible for you to leave then do, if not know the consequences.
2007-12-17 01:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by calendargirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They should be embarrassed!!! The "lovers" should not even be exchanging gifts. The husband should be informed of the affair, so that he can decide whether he wants to waste any more of his time in a dead marriage.
The husband deserves the respect that he is not getting from his cheating wife.
Take care,
Troy
2007-12-17 01:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well for one thing if its you or her. If you aren't getting along with your husband then get a divorce. move in with your lover. you shouldn't stay with someone that you're not faithful with. if either of you knew of the other doing something like this what would be the reaction. either stay with your hubby and be faithful or get a divorce and get the other guy. I won't give an answer on the gift, not worth it.
2007-12-17 02:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by floor.refinisher 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think the answer should be.
The husband deserves a better person than her.
Give husband a real present move out and let a woman that truly loves him treat him like a man.
2007-12-17 01:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by teeman824 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to give either of them anything, because you've already given both a gift. Your husband, you've given the gift of not b!tching cause your lover pacifies you. And your lover, well you've given him your goods w/ no strings attached. SEE, not so hard.
2007-12-17 01:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump the lover and you will be giving your husband the best gift of all!
2007-12-17 01:26:35 · answer #9 · answered by fh 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No. But she should give her husband the gift of freedom so he can find someone who loves him enough to be faithful.
2007-12-17 02:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by pussycat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋