Ok, so here's the deal. I like this person, and I thought that he liked me too. He was always flirting w/ me and i thought I thought that I was reading the signs correctly. But I found that he doesn't like me, but he likes my best friend! She has a boyfriend, so she doesn't like him. I never told anyone that I liked this guy and know I think its a good thing i didn't. I am really upset and confused. i don't know what to do. How can i make him like me? My Best friend rejected him, but I still like him and can't stop! =[
2007-12-17 13:10:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your parter is mad think about me.
2007-12-17 22:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by kranti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Chocolate...
i should say yours a Tragic Love Triangle...
what i would suggest you is take a time out, Think what you need in life think emotionally as well as practically further Decide
What i know is this kind of attraction crush love happens to all, and you should know what is that person will you be able to live with a body which has no feelings for you, incase if you get feelings but you will be aware of that the guy had feelings for your best friend so you will get disturbed and you will may generate problems with the guy u like and ur Best friend too, what i suggest you is be a good friend to the guy u like then know him and then if everythings goes well you can infact go ahead with the love.. else limit yourself for friendship...
what i know is the real love cannot be expressed but the two hearts understand each others feelings and go ahead in life...
Even u need to think of ur career and life so remember
Love is Part of a life which will make your life a bit more happy but if u make your love as life then buddy its difficult...
Seriously Speaking Be practical then emotional..
Hope i have given u a solution,
Regards
Vikas
2007-12-17 23:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by vikas j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't MAKE someone like you. If you stop and think of your feelings toward him, that's how he's feeling about your friend. Then you say you like him and can't stop? Why should his heart be any different than yours?
At least you know how dissapointing it feels to 'not be the one' and since he's going through the same heartache as you are you have something you can relate to him with. You don't have to tell him your object of pain is him, you could just talk about knowing how it feel's cause you're going through the same thing. Once he's sees what a supportive friend you can be, maybe, only maybe you could become his object of affection. All you can do is try. But the truth is, we don't always get what we want in life. If it's not meant to be, then that means that something more wonderful is waiting for you just around the corner. Good luck.
2007-12-17 21:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by Horserider75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things like this happen all the time. You can't make someone like you if they don't. Wouldn't you rather want to be with somone that liked you because they truly do, rather than someone that was manipulated into it? All you can do is let him know how you feel and leave it as is. Maybe someday he will change his mind about you,maybe not. You can't wait around hoping,you need to move on because you never know who you might pass up if you are waiting in vain. Best of luck!
2007-12-17 21:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by rockman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since u hav realized that ur friend had love for ur best friend,even if u both end up in a reltion,the past will keep haunting u and u'll be pestered about it whole life..every time u have a fight with him,u'll tend to think or say "oh,u dn't talk much,u were dejected by her..so dn't play great"...this willl create more rift between u too..
so i recommend not to have a love life with him...
U'll find better love..
good luck
2007-12-18 00:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by Nimmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eek.. well theres a problem.. there are two major ways you can look at this... first way...if you really like him... nd you feel like... all guys arent the same... you should... get to know him more... and then see what kind of guy he is then go for it... cuz you may really never know... untill.. he breaks ur heart but FOR REAL... or vice versa... its okay.. you have all the time in the world.. dont panic... its all good. ^^ and second well guys are so much trouble... so y even bother? sometimes people bother cuz they feel lonely nd stuff... but you should be an independent woman and not be heart broken ..becuz you rlly dont know what kind of guy he REALLY is...
2007-12-17 21:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by ughconfusedo_0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..its good that you haven't told anybody that you like this guy. Do not tell this directly that ypou8 like him. Just make good freinds with him first. Create a very good understanding and a strong bond between both of you. Then, just show him some signs that you have always liked him, then he would not freak and possibly he would tell you that he likes you!!
2007-12-17 21:21:16 · answer #7 · answered by nisha p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl.. calm down... you dont have to panic or get so confused. Remember one thing in life.. DONT do anything for someone else to like you. If people like you.. they'll really like you.. if they dont.. u cant force them to.. you'll make a fool of yourself. Now do one thing...go up to him.. and talk to him politely and sweetly and tell him that you like him. But remember one thing.. dont hurry up with this or you may end up in a mess. Just dont think about whether he likes you back or no. Just ask him once and see. If things work out.. well and good.. if not... dont think much about it... keep yourself busy so you can forget him without causing much distraction in your life.
2007-12-18 02:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by inocent_devil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard but it's probably best to move on. Nothing good well come of mooning over someone that doesnt feel the way you do. You will find someone who likes you the way you like him.
2007-12-17 21:20:13 · answer #9 · answered by gryffindoregirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love partner etc. is got once in life time. So please choose a guy who is reliable. Your destiny can bring you good things only if you desire for good. Feeling is creation. Wait for the good. Sky is not the limit. Every thing happens for good only. Be determined. never be shaky and distressed.
2007-12-18 04:50:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
daily take 24 hours,- one second at a time.
it will mend your heart in about a year's time or so.
you can also nurture/cultivate other interests - which hastens the process.
by the way familiarity breeds contempt.
2007-12-17 22:49:30 · answer #11 · answered by charlatan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋