Family & Relationships - 17 December 2007

She has been my close friend for 2 years now. We are both openly bisexual, and I tend to have a stronger preference towards women, as does she. Actually, she was the first girl I ever had dtrong feelings for. She is currently living in Mexico, but there is a chance that I'll go down there during Christmas. If I do go, should I tell her about my feelings for her?
And if I do go, what should I say?

2007-12-17 15:27:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

are they still one half of a human being?...how long do they live before they die???

2007-12-17 15:27:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I dated a guy for 2 years. for 1.5 years of that relationship we seriously talked about marriage. We went ring shopping, and house shopping, and even made guest lists for the wedding. The problem is he hates his job and he started getting really cranky. He even started ditching me and stopped making effort in our relationship. I'm not perfect, but I always gave it my all and tried so hard to keep us together. He broke up w/me 3 months ago, never giving me a solid reason, He will confirm he still loves me and that he thinks about being with me in the future, but also states that he needs time to figure out his life. For 2 months after the break up we would talk and hang out. but about two weeks ago he started ignoring my calls and texts all together. We didn't fight or anything. He just stopped. I've always been so nice and sweet to him. Why is he doing this?

2007-12-17 15:26:46 · 8 answers · asked by CSStrong 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 15:26:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everytime I hang out with some of my other friends, she gets soooooo mad at me, glances at me, and looks away really fast. She forgives me everytime, but I have to tell her that I like her more than the girl that I was hanging out with. ( Which is totally true ) Is she being a bad friend to me?

2007-12-17 15:26:08 · 3 answers · asked by Marissa G 2 in Friends

this is very important! my boyfriend is coming TOMMORROW!

2007-12-17 15:24:35 · 41 answers · asked by jelly.bean 1 in Singles & Dating

We are going to see the movie Alvin and the Chipmunks..... but she will be with us all day (the movie is at 12:40 pm so she will be with us all day) and she is going to come watch me at gymnastics at 6:30. That leaves a lot of time to kill and a lot of time afterwards. What are some good ideas of things we could do?!

2007-12-17 15:23:57 · 6 answers · asked by animal luver 5 in Friends

I think so. Nothing in life is free! lol.

2007-12-17 15:22:54 · 15 answers · asked by ????????? 3 in Singles & Dating

OK I am 99% sure she was just trying to make a sell, but I thought I had to ask.

A cute little salesgirl, probably only 18 I would say. Desperately tried to sell me a bunch of worthless garabage at a shopping mall. She was so sweet and wouldn't take no for an answer. I told her she is very sweet but I really am not interested and don't have any money.

She then told me she doesn't care she likes me and she wants to show me these products anyway. She asked me at first if I had a girlfriend and when I said maybe she acted dissapointed, so I lied and said I didn't have one. (really stupid thing to say, but she was so cute)

She then put some kind of heating pad around my neck. Smiled . Her lips within 2 inches of mine, nose to nose. And then she put her arm around me hugged me. And said this normally costs $59, but I will give you my personal discount at $39.I told her no sorry can't buy. So then she told me well just buy this for me and I will give you my number.

2007-12-17 15:21:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are thinking about gettin married though we're in our 2nd year of college. though we go to 2 different universties they are only 30minutes away and if we got in apartment in the middle it would only be a 15min drive to either of them. my parents want us to wait and his parents really don't care. we both want to, and even if our parents did not pay for it we could afford a humble wedding. is it okay to get married now? we've known eachother since our senior year in highschool and are very much in love. could it work?

2007-12-17 15:20:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think its ok for a black guy and white girl to be together? tell me if so or not and why :0)

2007-12-17 15:20:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why are some guys so whipped??????????
Alright so I am a 19 y/o guy and I would never let a woman control anything about me I do what ever I want. But I have a few friends and see it all the time. I don't get it do they not have balls or something to me guys that are whipped like that arn't men but little boys. Some guys might as well be dogs, cuz it looks just like they r when there whipped like that anyways. I guess I just have lots of pride in myself and am independant, so don't get why any guy or girl would want to get contrtoled like that??? Alright so I have a friend who acts more or less like a ***** now cuz hes whipped. His girlfriend trys to instegate and get him to disrespect his friends. He recently called one of my friends who is also his friend and tried to ***** him out about teasing his girlfriend at work. his girlfriend is really a b**** and he needs to break up with her what can I do????

2007-12-17 15:18:37 · 25 answers · asked by One Day 1 in Singles & Dating

I just got engaged and my GF wants to know if a valentines day wedding is OK or not. The day is good because it is on a Saturday in 2009. Thoughts??

Thanks!!

2007-12-17 15:16:04 · 19 answers · asked by BriGuy 3 in Weddings

It seems that the older you get the smaller the pool from which you are able to draw. Am I right or wrong on that...?

2007-12-17 15:15:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wrong? Do it end over the squabble? That would be sad in a way and both lose.

2007-12-17 15:13:05 · 3 answers · asked by R J 7 in Singles & Dating

i'm 19 years old and in my freshman year of college, he is 16 years old and in 10th grade in hs. is this appropriate?

2007-12-17 15:11:45 · 10 answers · asked by sophia Grace 4 in Family

She had been recieving and sending an abnormal ammount of text messages. She assured me and swore to me that it was just a friend from work. I checked her phone and she had him hidden under a girls name. I called the number and he told me that she had told him they met online and that she was single. He went away and a couple months later the same thing happened again. I keep catching her. What should i do?

2007-12-17 15:10:01 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know that my dad loves me and is trying to protect me as much as he can, but sometime i feel like he's holding onto me too tightly that I can't breath. I'm 19 already, a few more months and I'm turning 20. I'm not allow to hang out with a guy friend or even talk on the phone with a guy for longer then a few mins. I would be scold if I do. He thinks of all the negative side that can happen to me if I hang out with a guy friend even though we're just friends. Due to this fact I'm not very sociable and can't keep a strong converstation. What can I do??

2007-12-17 15:08:53 · 29 answers · asked by sweety 4 in Singles & Dating

What do women that age want?? something thats between $10 n $20

2007-12-17 15:07:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ive never asked a girl this before and i would like some pointers.
help please.

2007-12-17 15:06:55 · 39 answers · asked by curiousgeorge_23 1 in Singles & Dating

what would be the perfect way to have sex?
where?
what do you want in a guy?
girl?

2007-12-17 15:06:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so I am having issues figuring everything out..Is having your wedding and reception at a hotel tacky??? My best friend thinks it is...Also would having just salad bar, sandwiches and fruit or something like that come off as cheap??? We are on a VERY TIGHT budget and i have over a year to plan but the details are driving me crazy...HELP!!!! Feel free to IM me...
THANKS EVERYONE!!!

2007-12-17 15:04:51 · 9 answers · asked by luvinlife1020 1 in Weddings

What do you do when women aren't interested in you? Do you just suck it up and move on and give up all hope pretty much? Seems like the logical thing to do, at least for me.

2007-12-17 15:01:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

K I have seen questions on how to flirt with your crush ....but how do u flirt with your boyfriend???

2007-12-17 14:56:22 · 3 answers · asked by Olivia 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend was a virgin until he got drunk and had sex with a hooker in Korea. He says that even though he is not a virgin physically (he doesnt even remember how it felt) that he considers me his first time bc i am his first love and really his first girlfriend and that our first time means a lot to him. Would u consider it his first time in a way?

2007-12-17 14:56:22 · 4 answers · asked by Laura 4 in Singles & Dating

What about if child and mother live in another state?

2007-12-17 14:52:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-17 14:52:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It was just a lunch date and she said she had a great time.

2007-12-17 14:50:52 · 9 answers · asked by sgt.morgan 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't mean to offend, but how do I let her know she's smelly without being rude?

2007-12-17 14:50:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm worried about my friend. We are both 11 year old girls and she buys lunch everday. Everytime she sits at our lunch table she only has an oval shapped peanut butter and jelly sandwich the school offeres and chocolate milk. She has no side dished or snacks.

Should i be worried?

help?

2007-12-17 14:48:57 · 13 answers · asked by Lily Sawyer 1 in Friends