She has been my close friend for 2 years now. We are both openly bisexual, and I tend to have a stronger preference towards women, as does she. Actually, she was the first girl I ever had dtrong feelings for. She is currently living in Mexico, but there is a chance that I'll go down there during Christmas. If I do go, should I tell her about my feelings for her?
And if I do go, what should I say?
2007-12-17 15:27:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should tell her how you feel, especially since both of you have stronger preference towards women. I don't know what you should say to her, but you should do it in a romantic setting. Who know maybe you two will hit it off and become life partners.
2007-12-18 01:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by JONES 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Waste time wondering or waste time loving.
Which is better?
Even if she rejects you, at least you'll know. And I'm sure you'd still remain friends.
Shoot, She's wouldn't be a very good friend if she scorns you just because you expressed your feelings.
2007-12-17 23:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by timniet 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her. Life is to short to keep thinking,"what if." You can still be friend if she doesn't feel the same way. It's up to you to take the risk :) Good luck.
2007-12-17 23:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by WTF?? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think people should be honest about what their feelings are...it's not like your bisexual and telling your straight friend you have feeling for her! At least you know it's an option..
2007-12-17 23:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by ladybug 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Go for it. No sense filling your life with regrets.
Just tell her exactly how you feel. Wing it hehe.
2007-12-18 06:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her the truth. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Best wishes!
2007-12-17 23:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you can drop the hint when you get there and or tell her how your feeling and you want to know how she feels about it.. good luck
2007-12-17 23:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by Kat 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋