i'm 19 years old and in my freshman year of college, he is 16 years old and in 10th grade in hs. is this appropriate?
2007-12-17 15:11:45 · 10 answers · asked by sophia Grace 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
oh and he came onto me, i didnt come onto him.
2007-12-17 15:17:20 · update #1
oh and its not stauatory rape once a person hits 16. thats the cutoff. o.o
2007-12-17 15:21:55 · update #2
Your lives are at quite different places, what with you in college and him still in high school. That IS a bit of a difference but not horrific. If the two of you are comfortable with each other, and he has the maturity, it should be OK.
2007-12-17 15:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it must be criminal, looking on the place you're placed. in my view, i don't have a concern with a three 12 months age difference at those a protracted time (assuming it is the girl this is sixteen and the guy this is nineteen--the opposite isn't as ideal) and that i'm an grownup, not a infant who would not comprehend. whilst i grew to become into 13 I dated a sixteen 12 months outdated... looking returned it grew to become into in all probability not the outstanding age difference interior the international, yet i grew to become into an extremely mature 13 12 months outdated and he grew to become right into a not-as-mature sixteen 12 months outdated, even inspite of the undeniable fact that he grew to become right into a alluring gentleman and the nicest guy--after my husband (of course!)--that I even have ever accepted. It extremely relies upon on the persons interior the situation. If the couple extremely loves one yet another and is not approximately to bypass off and get married (sixteen/19 isn't so undesirable for dating, yet ridiculous for procuring married!), then it would not extremely harm to allow the dating proceed. In 5 years the adaptation between a 21 and 24 12 months outdated and in 30 years it extremely is between a 40 six and 40 9 12 months outdated, which no person can blink an eye fixed at.
2016-10-02 01:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um i was expecting it to be the other way around but I'm gonna have to say no anyway. I mean if he ever pitched a fit or something he or one of his parents could yell rape and you could go to prison. Besides women are already more mature than men the age gap just makes it worse wait until he is 18.
2007-12-17 15:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by nobody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a good idea. College kids and high school kids are in a totally different world and the two different age group will usually not get along.
2007-12-17 15:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you think it's alright now however it won't be long when do to your interests, generated a lot by your environments, you'll find yourselves growing apart. well this be someones fault? no-
should you blame someone for this no- as much as you want to nature your relationship the end result will be natural- good luck anyway--
2007-12-17 15:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by yankidee_1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Creepy.
2007-12-17 15:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was over 18 i would say yes go for it. but alot can happen in mean time. high school come on.
2007-12-17 15:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by bluesky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be interested in a kid? And yes he is, and you know it.
2007-12-17 15:27:28 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is fine.
2007-12-17 16:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not good
2007-12-17 16:26:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋