Why are some guys so whipped??????????
Alright so I am a 19 y/o guy and I would never let a woman control anything about me I do what ever I want. But I have a few friends and see it all the time. I don't get it do they not have balls or something to me guys that are whipped like that arn't men but little boys. Some guys might as well be dogs, cuz it looks just like they r when there whipped like that anyways. I guess I just have lots of pride in myself and am independant, so don't get why any guy or girl would want to get contrtoled like that??? Alright so I have a friend who acts more or less like a ***** now cuz hes whipped. His girlfriend trys to instegate and get him to disrespect his friends. He recently called one of my friends who is also his friend and tried to ***** him out about teasing his girlfriend at work. his girlfriend is really a b**** and he needs to break up with her what can I do????
2007-12-17 15:18:37 · 25 answers · asked by One Day 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean if he wants to be a pussy ***** I cant do nothing about it, but I am his friend and I am trying to keep him from the dark side
2007-12-17 15:24:19 · update #1
It's really not your business what your friend does. If she truely is a *****, then by all means, he should leave, but judging by the way you sound, you are biased against women having a say in the relationship. EVOLVE
2007-12-17 15:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by BOOOOOO 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's called pussay power, when a girl has control over a guy cos he allows it the girls says you won't be getting any if you don't follow my rules, and some guys will do whatever to hold on to a girl. There is nothing you can do cos he's so far gone and blinded at this point, if you wish you can stay friends with him and ignore that the girl is around or you can say to him call me when she is off the sceen cos I don't like you r GF. I personally as a female don't like to be told what to do so I wouldn't tell my BF what to do, but there are boundaries in a relationship, if you want a Gf/BF then there is a level of give and take, not just tell the other person who they can and can't have as friends and when and where they can see their friends.
2007-12-17 15:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This story reminds me of a young man. There was once a young man who was very close to his mother. People even called him a "momma's boy". As this young man grew into man-hood -- some of the man friends kept on calling him this name. Not once, during all these years - did this guy let this bother him. This young man, who turned into a grown man ... was known as a "man's man". He was athletic, played all sports, power-lifted, rode bulls in rodeos, water sports, boxed , etc ... he was ALL man. This man was also charming, respectful, mannerly ... but would step-up if challenged in a fight .. and would stand-up to defend what was right. This man .. was a man. This man .. did not let the name calling of "mama's boy" interefere with his manhood .. in fact, he was more man - than most men. His manhood was not bothered with the "mama's boy" name .. because he really did love his mother. He married .. he loved his wife ... and he did everything to make her happy. He stood beside her .. upheld her in all things. And to this day - he is still the man. A man can respect his wife .. love his wife .. take-up for his wife .. share his life with his wife .. and not be whipped. A man can be strong within himself .. and still be the man ... he does not have to step up and say he'll go whatever he wants ... it shows on all men, and all people who they are.
2016-05-24 11:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by madeleine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't read that whole thing because it just looked like a bunch of cursing and negativity. From what I did read, its called love buddy. Some guys are "whipped" more than other guys, but simply put he cares about her more than anyone else and wants to make her happy. Get over it and be a friend. You will understand when you find true love.
2007-12-17 15:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by TG 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When I guy meets a nice girl, sometimes its hard not to get whipped. Same goes for a nice guy visa versa.
Give your friend some space and let him decide for himself if he wants to be with this girl.
As for you, letting your guard down does not mean you are not a real man, it means you are willing to share yourself with someone. I am not sure who has hurt you so bad that you feel this way about women, but you need to resolve this before you become a womanizing male, who harms women.
2007-12-17 15:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by blueeyes_unever_4get 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Okay so the dude stood up for his girlfriend. Whats wrong with that? You obviously have never either had a girlfriend before or been in love. Or you are just very controling yourself. Why do you care so much about your friends love lives? Is it because you feel left out when they are spending time with their gf's? It sounds like it. Grow up.
2007-12-17 15:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has made his choice. He'd rather get it on a regular basis than waste all of his time with you. Deal with it.
As soon as you grow up and find out what it is to know a woman, you might realize the dark side isn't so bad.
2007-12-17 15:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a 27 yr old male. We all have one or two guy friends that have a girl that we may not like...but if you are a good friend, you will respect his wishes...listen man, if he's happy thats all you should care about.
You will also see....girls come an go, he might not be with her for that long.
2007-12-17 15:25:43 · answer #8 · answered by jerry 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, let it be. It's his relationship. Maybe he's happy with how his relationship has turned out. Even if you don't like how they act it's not your place to involve yourself. You may think shes a ***** but he obviously likes her for another reason, take the time and maybe you'll see it too. If you're really concerned bring it up to him lightly and make sure he knows you're only looking out for him
2007-12-17 15:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by LouLou 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The absolute worst thing anybody can do is get between a couple. They'll both turn on him, every time. Don't do it. Did I mention it's a bad idea?
2007-12-17 15:23:55 · answer #10 · answered by Bob H 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋