i like this girl from work ..i am 30 shes 24. shes cute i flirt . i bring her donuts or food or help her at everything . I talk to her . i try to smile at her at all the time . i give her high fives .. i really like her but there is a problem i have 3 kids and a girlfriend ..yeah .. suc*ks n ways. she didnt knwo this till a nother girl killed it for me and said aloud oh hows your kids and the girl i liked said .. WOW.she was surprised .. i think she liked me .. but not no more .. i am sad .. she even said how come i didnt go to the x mas party ? what was i doing ?
do you think i should go for it ?
2007-12-17 13:05:51 · 13 answers · asked by oc714dude77 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree your family comes first, plus u have a girlfriend. So going with her is basically cheating on your girlfriend.
THINK ABOUT IT BEFORE YOU MAKE YOUR DECISION
2007-12-17 13:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think your family should come first. If you want someone else you should have the guts to break it off with your girlfriend. Cheating is wrong. Look at the message would you be telling your kids if you cheat on their mother. Be a man or better more a father and do the right thing.
2007-12-17 21:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ilovemy3kids 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so damn selfish!
You have a woman, three kids and a life, and you want to ruin hers?
I think you could probably have this girl, but there's no way you can keep from hurting her, so what are you thinking with? Sure isn't your brain.
Go home, be with your family, and let this girl have a future, because she sure won't have one with you!
2007-12-17 21:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by stargazer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as for the kids, she should accept them, you shouldn't be ashamed of your kids and as for going for it, you have a girlfriend that you may need to break up with before you go for another girl...you work with her, so maybe if things went bad between the both of you, it might make your job harder, you have a lot of things to think about before going onto another relationship, I know your 30, but its still possible to crush on someone. Good luck
2007-12-17 21:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by Tabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...u have 3 kids and a girlfreind...plus shes ur co worker..u dont shiit were u sleep..isnt that the old saying...anyways u cant jump from 1 girl to another everytime u see a attractive girl..if thats the case then dont have no girlfreind..just jump from 1 girl to another...plus im sure ur kids wouldnt like that..ur a family man..stick with it...
2007-12-18 13:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by April 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have kids and a gf. You're 30 years old. Start acting like it. You are in a committed relationship.... just remind yourself. Sorry... but I'm not going to tell you to cheat.
2007-12-17 21:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by Susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have been flirting with you if you already have a girlfriend! she probably liked you and thought you were really into her, but then she heard that you already had a girl friend. you crushed her! she probably just is trying to get over it. sorry for the negativity!!!!
2007-12-17 21:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by gingie&tangolover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude u have a gf and kids, now tell me how does your co worker fit into that...its obv how she feels about you having all of that in your life, that would be an automatic turn down from her.
2007-12-17 21:15:34 · answer #8 · answered by BLACKEST- i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch out... Give her to many donuts and she liable to get chunky... then you'll be stuck with a less attractive version of her... lol joking maybe you do, maybe you don't! Ask her out!
2007-12-17 21:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have a girl! Leave her for someone that can actually give her what she wants / needs / etc.
2007-12-17 21:12:09 · answer #10 · answered by ShoreD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋