have a crush on my teacher and we r going out i am 16 yo we have a dance/prom comming up and 1 of my friend saw me and him in the car together wat do i do she is out to tell the whole school so my life is fu*ked please help me stop her
-and i love him don't want to get into troble
or lose his job
-don't blame him it is both our fault
-he does not deserves it plus it is out of school -when in school he don't talk 2 me
every 1 knows there is something happning and it is a bit more than a crush
2007-12-17 13:39:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um, no, it isn't both your faults. What he is doing is illegal and is called statutory rape, and I don't doubt he knows that. If you don't want him to get in trouble, you should stop dating, although it's probably too late. If you really love each other, you can wait until you graduate, when you can date without hiding anything.
EDIT: Oh wow, this is the fourth time you've posted this question. You're just going to get the same answers, you know, because you're getting the right ones every time. :/
2007-12-17 13:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by ann t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I hate to resort to violence but it seems that she is not your friend, and you may have to (QUICKLY!) lay down the law by threatening her. Sometimes, fear is the only suppressant of knowledge. Make sure to be nice, but also sadistic. Oh, and don't be up front with it. Either leave her with a vague threat or a physical threat (dead squirrel in a locker would do it, look around the freeway for one.) This is a last resort, and is only to be used to save your boyfriends career and life. He will get in trouble, not you. Involve yourself. Goodluck! (if its easier, dig up some dirt on her, and threaten her with that. It's less risky, and also less effective, because she won't understand the seriousness.)
Oh and do NOT do anything to hurt your friend, that would be horrible. empty threats only, and nothing violent. oh and this is a temporary fix, as in you should use in and in the mean time re-evaluate your relationship.
2007-12-17 21:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by ghettoballzofiron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm this is illegal and okward on so many levels...and you and I both know that even though its both of you guys fault. If someone finds out that your talkin to your teacher he will take all of the blame for it. SO i say cut off this relationship immediatly!!! Trust me there is nothing you can do, this is definitly doomed for failure, if you don't let go of this relationship with you teacher you guys are gonna end up on the news with a headline that says "Teacher having relationship with underage student" and he's gonna be in prison with his life messed up FOREVER!! and you'll will regret this situation for the rest of your LIFe!! Trust me Get out of this relationship NOW!! Its not worth IT!
2007-12-17 21:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by iluvmeushld2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he's not your English teacher. The problem is, he is a teacher, and it is entirely his fault...right now the law doesn't recognize you as chronologically viable to be at fault yet. This is not ethical, this is not healthy, and this is not legal. Please stop it now.
2007-12-17 21:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat the hell how old is the guy hells nah thats wrong i dont know how to say this but really come on an older guy really isnt looking for anythin else but to get some especially from a younger chick and u probably wont wanna believe it but yea.... first im guessing hes older than 18 and ur still young....he knows wat he was doing and wat would happen if he got caught and it doesnt matter if it was out of school u should really look for someone younger closer to ur age
2007-12-17 21:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by retrogrease 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS A VERY SERIOUS, YOUR 16, AND I KNOW THIS SEEMS IMPORTANT TO YOU. BUT IT IS VERY WRONG. I AM MORE UPSET WITH YOUR TEACHER BECAUSE HE IS SUPPOSED TO BE THE ADULT!! PUT SOME SPACE THERE QUICK!! WHAT HE IS DOING IS ILLEGAL AND HE WILL PROBABLY LOSE HIS JOB, AND IN MY OPPINION HE SHOULD. TIME WILL HEAL YOUR WOUNDS, BUT PLEASE STOP BEFORE THIS GETS WORSE. IT IS IN YOUR BEST INTEREST. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.
2007-12-17 21:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by mother of 4! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 16 and hes why to old
OK break up its not good unless you wont to make the
5 o clock news (i can see it now another teacher goes out with student)
2007-12-17 21:47:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is it's illegal. if you really love him, both of you will be able to wait until you're 18. that's probably the best course of action.
2007-12-17 21:42:39 · answer #8 · answered by shrutifruity88 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your teacher is gross. i hope for your sake and everyone elses, your friend comes to her senses and reports him. yuck!
2007-12-17 21:43:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go to prom with him.
go somewhere else to be together.
also, do NOT tell anyone.
because that is illegal.
2007-12-17 21:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋