So I've moved back to the town where I grew up (why is irrellevant). I'm in my mid-20's. It's a very small town, and there aren't a lot of single people here in my age range (23-35). The few who stayed around here are the ones who think it's cool to go out, get drunk, and either shoot things or set them on fire. So lately I've been lacking when it comes to social interaction with my peers in a non-work environment. My best friend is married with 2 kids.
Since I've come back, I've run into an old classmate of mine. We chat for a few minutes, but I'm usually working so we can't talk long. Very recently, he asked me if I'd like to go out with him and I agreed. I don't really have any romantic inclinations toward him, but I really want the social interaction with a peer. Is this a bad reason to go out with him?
2007-12-17 15:46:16 · 11 answers · asked by J-Dawn 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it sounds like a perfectly acceptable reason. You need some companionship, and you are clearly tired of isolation! Actually, you are probably better off on a first outing, when not having any romantic inclinations, as you can really get to know him without any preconceptions clouding your judgment. If you were to lead him on into thinking you were romantically inclined when you are not, that would be wrong, but just going out is not a problem, and you sound very intelligent and able to take care of yourself. Just see where it goes. Good luck!
2007-12-17 15:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by eldots53 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, but I would make sure he knew you just wanted to be friends, just so you don't lose all interactions with people your own age after he finds out you are not interested in anything romantic.
Good luck with finding people to hang out with, I know how hard that can be.
2007-12-17 15:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by Nana 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-11 08:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is ok to go out as friends, but misleading can hurt the both of you at the end.
2007-12-17 15:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by Hello K 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go and have fun...but stay out of bed if you don't like him that way because then you would be misleading him. Unless of course, you have an agreement.
2007-12-17 15:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by The Evolution of T. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It wont be a bad reason if you make it clear before things get out of hand
2007-12-17 16:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by shorty_the_wise 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course it is bad to mislead him.
The only way you can make up for it now is to put out.
2007-12-17 15:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jack O 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
no beacuse your just looking for some attention for the male sex just dont get to cared away with it because it will hurt more to tell him bye then it will to tell him that you love him
2007-12-18 04:05:56 · answer #8 · answered by shortybabybrat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is misleading bad? Mis-"bad or wrong"+leading.
If you are honest with him then it's OK, otherwise BAD!
2007-12-17 15:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No... think of it as a 'homecoming' , then let nature take its course
2007-12-17 15:50:59 · answer #10 · answered by john w 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋