Family & Relationships - 17 December 2007

She used to live here and we didnt meet until she moved. She sent them to my close friend that she liked for 2 years before she left but he never returned the feelings. He let me borrow his phone when mine broke and i found the pics. I already confronted her and she said she swears she loves me and only wants me, but on the other hand said shes known him too long to stop talking to him as a friend and promises it wont happen again What do i do?

2007-12-17 21:51:04 · 10 answers · asked by chris p 1 in Singles & Dating

She has made me get up and wait for a parcel while she pops out. I got up .....and waited...fully dressed so I don't shock the postie....and then she (my mum ) comes home and claims she has been ringing the doorbell for the ages!!!! I did not hear anything. I heard the key turn in the lock ...so saw her come back in and start to shout it me. I said either she was not pressing the doorbell hard enough or there is something wrong with doorbell....and asked her to check it. She goes outside presses the button ....and lo and behold it works! She walks in all prim.....saying 'at least say you didn't hear it....not that i didn't press the button'

2007-12-17 21:47:54 · 9 answers · asked by Blue_Bell 1 in Family

I met this guy about 6 months ago. He was great, but I noticed a change after a month or so. Come to find out that he was getting over a previous gf of 3 yrs. but he has known her for 25 years. They had only been apart 8 months.

All of a sudden, she seems to be back in the picture. She doesn't want him, but she wants him to still want her.

I really care about this guy, but I am beginning to feel taken for granted, and somewhat used.

What can I do to make him realize what he has in me? He says that he loves me, but I know that he still has love for her too.

He gets angry every time I try to talk to him about the situation. He says that I should not even bring it up. That just frustrates me more.

I need a strategy to turn him around, or I am out of there.

2007-12-17 21:47:33 · 12 answers · asked by PEGGY S 7 in Singles & Dating

today my boyfriend asked me if i was on his computor had this bad feeling almost felt like he was hideing something cause I did'nt mess with his stuff . my older son shares his e-mail address asked my son to check out my bfriends mail later heard the phone ring my son was telling him that I had asked him to and he better get that off there or she might catch it

2007-12-17 21:45:38 · 7 answers · asked by song Bird 3 in Family

They start making "plans"...don't they know it's just a bit of fun?

2007-12-17 21:44:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 21:40:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking about moving abroad as my partner of 2 years has been here for 8 years and says it is now time to move home.

My mother says its wrong as I have a child of nearly 7 and its a big upheaval for him. She says its also wrong to deprive a grandmother of her grandson.

2007-12-17 21:39:00 · 7 answers · asked by Victoria P 2 in Family

Just for the record, I do

2007-12-17 21:32:45 · 22 answers · asked by kagen_4 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this girl that was initially my friend, which evolved into a very good friend for me, as i was for her. We went out together alot(i mean just me and her), and always shared problems with each other. Gradually i fell for her, and I sent her flowers one day. She told me not to chase her, and that's the only sentence that ended any discussion about our relationship. Somehow she became further and further out of my reach, and i can't stop thinking about her. What should i do? Working class answers only please.. thanks!

2007-12-17 21:31:35 · 10 answers · asked by RuBbish 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriends ex girlfriend broke up with him broke in May, and we all worked at the same job. As soon as they broke up she went to rehab for 4 months for pills and a few months later me and tom started going out. She never contacted him after they broke up. As soon as she got out in October, she returned to work and completely ignored him, she looked right passed him, but he was trying 2 give her trouble at work, and was so angry that she was back! He even got in trouble with the managers at work. She wasn't doing anything to him when she came back and lately i've been noticing him staring at her. Every time she passes he looks at her. I am not bugging, other people notice it too! She is very pretty, every1 thinks she is beautiful, and very nice & funny. Apparently she told a coworker they broke up bc he called her friend that was a sl*t when he was wasted to "hang out 4 60 seconds" and didnt remember it, and she cursed him out. He thinks she is a B*tch

2007-12-17 21:29:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I met this guy at work. I really like him! He's good to me, he make me laugh! All the good stuff! But........ I'm still in love with my x.... I really dont think about my X when i'm with the new guy, But when i'm by myself, i think about him! What should i do?? The other guy said that he will wait till i'm over my x... Will that ever happend? can i ever get over my frist love? or I'm using this guy to get over my X? My X cheated on me, Thats y we're not together! And this guy make me feel happy and calm! I havent felt that in a long time! I just dont know what to do? Need Help!! ANYONE CAN HELP ME????

2007-12-17 21:25:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where did u meet ur current bf and who did the chasing...?

2007-12-17 21:23:28 · 18 answers · asked by rock_chick28 4 in Singles & Dating

Hi

I have just started to get it together with a male friend of mine. We have been close friend for a couple of years, and he has always been there for me.

However, yet again, I am starting to panic about being in a relationship. I've been hurt many many times very badly by men, starting with my father and including my ex-husband, and have been physically and emotionally abused by everyone I've ever been with. Which has left me pretty messed up.

I know that *he* is not like this, but I'm still starting to feel like I want to run and hide rather than let him close to me.

Part of me feels if he were the right one then I wouldn't be feeling like this, but part of me feels that I just need to work through the hurt I've been through.

Logically, this man is everything I could wish for. But there's something that is still making me want to push him away.

Is it my instinct telling me he's not right... Or is it my fragile heart trying to protect myself unecessarily?

2007-12-17 21:21:00 · 16 answers · asked by rollacoasta 3 in Singles & Dating

It's very hard to decide right now what I want. I know that me and my husband are not compatible. We have totally different personalities. We have accepted our differences, and are just living with eachother ignoring how far apart we are. I am outgoing, adventurous, want to have fun, have a positive life perspective, for me life is just too short not to enjoy it. My husband is totally different, he is too emotional, loves sad movies, gets easily stressed with his own or other's problems. He keeps everything to himself, and wants to stay inside all the time. After living together for 2.5 years and having a kid, and struggling to compromise, we have reached to the point that he watches his own sad movies in his room, I have a seperate room and I watch my own comedies. I go out with my friends, and have my own life, and he stays in because that's what he wants. We barely talk, maybe one or 2 words a day. We had sex 3-4 times during the past 2 years, and basiccally we are in repression!

2007-12-17 21:19:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My significant other moved in with me 29 months ago. He does not help with any of the household bills. The 1st 17 months he was employed but only paid his personal obligations ie. 8 old cars in storage, 40’ storage container. He did save back money to build a shed as an effort to contribute to the household. It was his intent to get laid off his job & collect unemployment while he built the shed. He also started buying about 200.00 in groceries to shut me up. He has been out of work 12 months. The shed is 90% completed. The cost of materials, about 1000.00. His defense for not having any money. “He built me a shed.” Not having a job. “ He was building the shed”.
I feel he is taking advantage of me. He also drives my car, because none of his are drivable. I pay for the tires, insurance, registration & repairs, because it’s my car.
What is your opinion America?
I work outside the home. For the past 8 months I had to work extra long hours. I asked him to call the cable co. for they had been overcharging me for the past 5 months. I did not have time to make the call during business hours so I wrote out a detailed list of the special they had quoted, what I was being billed & they needed to fix it or for him to cancel the service. He was furious that I did not take care of it myself. I should have taken time off work & not bothered him with it. The cable is for our son to watch cartoons. I don’t have time for TV & he seldom watches it. He claims “my behavior was irrational”! Comments Please!!!!

2007-12-17 21:19:22 · 3 answers · asked by joeys_mom8 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

who on the PBS cartoon Maya and Miguel do you think is sexy? Maya has the youth, as do her friends (i forget the names) but Maya's mum has the experince, and appartly my mate fancies the grandma.

what do you guys reckon?

2007-12-17 21:14:31 · 1 answers · asked by redastra2000 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like to know what will happen if you don't masturbate anymore
because i like to stop masturbating

2007-12-17 21:01:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well, he really liked me. we hooked up. he still liked me. and i didnt like him and let him know it.
time passed...about a month..
then i started liking him, he still liked me. we hooked up again. things were going well. then all of a sudden he stopped liking me.

i talked to one of his friends who said '' you cant chase him, the best way to get him is to ignore him, but you may have already ****** it up for good by texing/going to see him a lot'


whaaaaaaaat

2007-12-17 21:00:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for a 2 years to my hubby. for the last two years i have put up with him being very verbally abusive, not holding down employment, being irresponsable, and just downright mean. dont get me wrong, we have had some great times as well. but when we have arguments he says things that i wont ever forget or heal from.
I have told him in the past that if the abuse didnt stop one day i would grow to despise him and that it would make me snap.
Every time he has been this way to me i feel like i love him less. now it is to the point i just want to leave him. but suddenly he is guilting me and telling me he wants to "work on being a better husband". but.... i have heard this before.. many many times. I Just feel like i am at my end and I want to leave him. It just seems hard as we have a 7 month old son. But i know my hubby and i know if i stay, i will be unhappy over the way he treats me for years to come. i need advice. seperate? and if so, what is the best way to.. :(

2007-12-17 20:56:19 · 10 answers · asked by jordy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

gimme ratings (on the scale 1-10) for the below questions:::::

how much crazy are u to answer my previous questions:::

how much crazy are u kno my name :::::

how much crazy are u to see my pic:::::

how much crazy are u to chat wid me:::::

lol.bye for now....uhm thnx =)

2007-12-17 20:51:10 · 11 answers · asked by nothing special 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 20:49:50 · 3 answers · asked by Naveen S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this guy about 6 months ago. He was great, but I noticed a change after a month or so. Come to find out that he was getting over a previous gf of 3 yrs. but he has known her for 25 years. They had only been apart 8 months.

All of a sudden, she seems to be back in the picture. She doesn't want him, but she wants him to still want her.

I really care about this guy, but I am beginning to feel taken for granted, and somewhat used.

What can I do to make him realize what he has in me? He says that he loves me, but I know that he still has love for her too.

2007-12-17 20:47:27 · 16 answers · asked by PEGGY S 7 in Singles & Dating

ok i know this may sound strange...i am a college student and im studying engineering...im a straight A student in eveything and i feel like im missing something...in my whole life , i've been living with calculus , physics, programming and all these crazy stuffs but when i see my friends i thinkg they know more artistic things, like they talk about art , poets , writers , musicians and i think i need to learn more about art and stuff...what are some good books to read like about psychology , philosophy or something interesting which gives me interesting topics when im on a date... does any girl would like to talk about engineering things when she is on a date ? lol, i hope so cuz i can amaze her with a little robot !

2007-12-17 20:47:06 · 13 answers · asked by Ali 4 in Singles & Dating

if the man is not able to secure athe first wife's consent.And the wife is a christian.Can a husband still marry after converting to islam?

2007-12-17 20:44:24 · 6 answers · asked by miggy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-BF with whom i had been with for nearly 2 years, and i have not spoken in a month, and today, i had to forward some mail to him, i texted him for the first time since it was over just to let him know, as it was an important mail. he IM'ed me and we chatted, it was a nice conversation, i wasn't expecting it at all. anyway, he decided to call me and we talked for about 30 minutes. it seems that he is having issues with the new guy he is with. Anyway, he suggested that we meet for coffee, any insight?

2007-12-17 20:43:59 · 3 answers · asked by Sisyphus 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend & I have issues about these cats & I am tired of "fighting" with him about this issue. First of all, these cats belong to his ex-wife. They have been officially divorced for the past 5 months & she keeps saying that she is going to come get her cats, but every month she has an excuse to put it off.
The problem I have isn't that I don't like the cats! My problem is...I am now pregnant, their hair is out of control all over the place, they are constantly on the counters, the litterbox idea makes me sick, the hacking up of hairballs on my bed... But most of all, one of the cats sneezes quite often and I usually seem to be the person he sneezes on! The first time, not to be gross, this cat sneezed on me while I was in bed & I had cat "BOOGERS" on my shirt, the spray from the sneeze even hit me in the face. Being pregnant, I almost threw up cleaning myself up. Today, the cat sneezed on me once again while I was in bed taking a nap. This time it was in my hair! HELP ME!

2007-12-17 20:41:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i dated a girl for four months. we were together every day. the first two weeks were amazing for both of us. but i got scared after two weeks when i found out her ex (one month away from divorce being official) was bad mouthing her infront of the kids. i completely did a 180 and ran away emotionally. we still hung out, but she was on an emotional island and ended up sleeping with another guy and me for two months. i found out when i called the guy. the moment i found out, i freaked out on her and started threatening her custody - that i would go to her ex and that she would lose all her custody. i never meant any of it. she told me she never wants to speak to me ever again. it's been 3 months. the other guy she ran to, they didn't work out. i'm sure b/c he was just using her for sex from what i've been told. i know she has feelings for me. but her ex found out about my threatening her custody, and is now involded. they're in the middle of a custody battle. how do i win her trust back?

2007-12-17 20:41:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend bought a strap on and wanted to try it out on me. I love her very much so I agreed. Well its been 2 weeks and it still hurts to sit down. Is this normal? If so how do homosexual men get through life? It hurts alot.

2007-12-17 20:40:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

not to look for someone else,,

2007-12-17 20:36:01 · 18 answers · asked by windy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-17 20:30:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating