They start making "plans"...don't they know it's just a bit of fun?
2007-12-17 21:44:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You make the term "Gentleman" sound rubbish, seriously dude tell her where she stands and stop playing her. Find yourself somone who isn't ready for a relationship. there are plenty out there.
2007-12-17 22:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by Smudge 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with one another needs a bit of thought and committment to that person, not marriage or 24/7, but respect. If you can't give that then perhaps you should pay someone for sex, then there is no come back on your emotions or lack of them.
Women NEED love to have sex and men think having sex is love, or in your case just a bit of fun. Just pray that you don't become a bit of fun to someone else.
2007-12-17 21:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is an intimate thing therefore women think that the person is special and therefore might be around for a while unless this is made very clear from the start.
2007-12-17 22:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anthony R 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because going out and having sex are what boyfriends and girlfriends do. Next time you try this with a friend, explain to her up front that you are not looking for a relationship.
2007-12-17 21:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by krystal b 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
What you should do in future is make it crystal clear to the woman that your not looking for a relationship and not bull crap her with what u think she wants to hear in order for u to get yr end away!! Be straight and honest then yl have no come backs will you?
2007-12-18 06:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jackie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm lets see maybe because thats what girl and boyfriends do?!! If your only looking for a bit of fun then i suggest you tell them this at the begining or you go and find yourself and nice pay by the hour girl!!!
2007-12-17 22:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by Ayrshiregal 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
actually i was wondering the same thing,
but with guys.
you sleep with a guy,
& all of a sudden, he's calling you every day to do stuff,
as if me having drunken sex with him was like me saying
"i love you, lets be together forever."
now, the last time i had a one night stand with a girl,
she never called me,
& didnt say hi when i saw her in a night club.
it was refreshing.
i think it's just something players have to deal with,
& just shrug it off.
try being less charming or something, hah.
2007-12-21 09:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by sophia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that is what girlfriends and boyfriends do. If you are not serious about her then you have to let her know. It sounds like she has got her hopes up. Don't lead her on any more, it isn't fair.
2007-12-18 06:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by Aries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you nip down to your local bar or street corner and find yourself a whore, there's quite a few about, and they will be more than willing to oblige in your fun for one night! In the mean time, until you grow up, you should stay away from real women, they're out of your league mate, too good for you!
2007-12-17 22:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by Nina 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
geee, i don't think about it. what do girlfriends and boyfriends do? they hang out and are intamite with each other maybe that's why. If I were you I would probably confess to her that you don't want anything and that you are using her for sex, then see if she still goes around making plans with you.
2007-12-17 21:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋