My boyfriends ex girlfriend broke up with him broke in May, and we all worked at the same job. As soon as they broke up she went to rehab for 4 months for pills and a few months later me and tom started going out. She never contacted him after they broke up. As soon as she got out in October, she returned to work and completely ignored him, she looked right passed him, but he was trying 2 give her trouble at work, and was so angry that she was back! He even got in trouble with the managers at work. She wasn't doing anything to him when she came back and lately i've been noticing him staring at her. Every time she passes he looks at her. I am not bugging, other people notice it too! She is very pretty, every1 thinks she is beautiful, and very nice & funny. Apparently she told a coworker they broke up bc he called her friend that was a sl*t when he was wasted to "hang out 4 60 seconds" and didnt remember it, and she cursed him out. He thinks she is a B*tch
2007-12-17 21:29:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I asked him about this and he thinks im crazy and he hetaes her n wishes she never came back 2 work n cant stand seeing her. But why is he still so angry? it's been 6 months with them..we hang out all the time, says he cares 4 me but at work he sees her and stares..
2007-12-17 21:29:49 · update #1
your bf is sprung, he loves, this girl lives in his head
no matter what you do, say, have the best sex he has ever had it will not matter to him
he is totally into her not you the signs are all around you are not reading them
he looks at her
he is mad and angry when she is around anger is a form of passion open your eyes
calling her names is elementary , it only means that he cant call her what he wants to.. babe, honey, baby girl thats what he is wanting to say
2007-12-17 21:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by babybalu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal for guys to stare at pretty girls. thats their nature. however, if your boyfriend is showing different moves and actions like being sweet and caring to her exgf then thats a turning point of the story.
our feelings are sometimes not right. and it might be wrong feelings at this time. so i suggest you must ask your boyfriend what does he feels toward her exgf. thats the best way to confirm any doubts you have. and besides he is your bf so you should be open with one another. its also the best times to confirm the love you have with one another in times like this
if you are jealous then say so ..
if he still feels something with exgf then slap him right away. ahahaha
2007-12-18 05:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by ginger spice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, do I know that feeling!! I am beginning to feel like the rebound girl right now. It has been 6 months we are together, and he is still fighting with her. I am about ready to tell him to hit the road.
2007-12-18 05:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow...weird well he migh still like her but chances are is that he doesnt...i know i hated a girl she used to be a friend and backstabbed me after that i hated her so much i became obsessed that i would stare at her and even think of ways of how i wanted to beat the living crap out of her and i think thats what your bfs doing...he has feelings alrite but i think its hatred feelings...bad thing was that hatred is very powerfull it clouds your mind i realized that and tried my best to move on(still hate her but dont think bout to much like i used to) you have to talk to you bf how its making you feel to have to watch the person you love or like always staring at another girl and its not making you feel secure...tell him if you really hate her that much then dont waste your time your thoughts on her cuase shes not worth it...and your worth it if he doesnt like her and care about you then he would put the time and energy into staring at you and only worrying and thinking about you...he really needs to refocus and move on its not worth to hate over someone just so you could lose someone special..so just talk to your bf and see whats up..good luck!
2007-12-18 05:44:29 · answer #4 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is evidence that he hates her...then it should be fine...listening to ur point of view..i dont think he has feeling for her...when both of you are in a good mood ask him calmly if he does...hope it works out for you!!
2007-12-18 05:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by $J =) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're too paranoid regarding this one. you've posted this same story a lot of times already.
confront your bf and tell him what you've been feeling.
i also think you're too insecure.
tsk tsk. if you continue being that way, your boyfriend might leave you.
2007-12-18 05:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give each other space and see where it leads it.
2007-12-18 05:32:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋