not to look for someone else,,
2007-12-17 20:36:01 · 18 answers · asked by windy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st of all, what do you mean by satisfy? satisfy him in which part of life?
try to talk to him, understand what he wanted... let him know what you think too... discuss your future with him and come out with a solution...
you both will live happily by then... :)
p/s word is always easier than action.. don't give up! :)
2007-12-17 20:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by bear l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It basically depends what he wants in partner and from the partner. If you can read his mind or get clues then you have to see that you look as per his liking and act / behave naturally as per his mind set. Satisfaction / happiness comes by that only. Remember, no one would be perfectly matching as per his dream girl. Yes! who matches most would be his liking. Suppose he likes jeans and you feel you are prettier in skirts, then you start wearing jeans. If he likes yellow T- shirts and your choice is Pink, then better change to yellow to make him satisfied and happier. Once he finds you most matching to his likes and dislikes, he will not look for some one else. Above all, boys like his girl friend to be devoted and honest to him and not a free bird. Third suggestion, charming nature is liked by all and complaining one is never. Even if he is looking here and there, let him do, do not complain. He is trying to find a better one, stopping him will annoy him rather proving that you are better than others by intelligently understanding what he is looking for in his partner and moulding yourself to that format will make him finally decide that you are the right choice and he will be satisfied.
But be sure he is not demanding something which you should not do before marriage just to make him happy and satisfied. This gives a wrong signal to the boy that you are not the person of character to be the life partner, although he will take all the advantages of the situation. Better change your choice if he is not having strong moral character.
2007-12-17 21:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by Md. R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish with all my heart that there was a solid, for real answer for your question. There isn't. You can stay beautiful, be a great lover, fantastic mom, keep a beautiful home, be athletic, study his interests, etc., etc, etc. If he has the propensity to cheat;... background, previous relations, whatever, there's nothing you can do. Some people just can't be faithful. What I HAVE learned, is that if you've done everything that you know to do right, then you've done the best you could do. Unfortunately, life doesn't come with ANY guarantees.
2007-12-17 20:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by Horserider75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone satisfied, unless you turn yourself into a doormat, hon! You can do your best, but ....
And if he's the one looking for someone else, then you just forget about him and go out there and make YOURSELF happy and satisfied.
2007-12-17 20:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know your husband/BF well, you should know what would make him happy...
Make him feel like he is the middlepoint or the centre of your entire world! Make him feel like you would be lost without him, make him feel special.... You can do this all be saying small things, like wispering in his ear that you love him (even when you're out with friends or so), make him dinner, surprise him with something that he really likes ( tickets for football?!).
Make a list of everything that he likes, and do something with it... This will also make your relationship better, much better. There will be some romance, affection, ... and ofcourse love! With a lot of relationships those important things are just gone and thats sad. Because its the fundations for a lifetime relationship!
2007-12-17 20:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give your all too soon keep that air of mystery about yourself - guys love that but at the same time always be honest and never change who you are for someone, thats why they are with you in the first place because you are you not a copy of them.
2007-12-17 20:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by Ayrshiregal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're meant to be he will be happy & satisfied without you trying. Don't put unnecessary pressure on yourself and just enjoy.
2007-12-17 20:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by will.handley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is looking for someone else then he is probably not the one for you pet. You deserve somone who wants you and just you, and loves everything about you. You may have to accept it might not be him. Sorry
2007-12-17 20:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by bauraducks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust him, but most importantly BE UNIQUE. If he feels like he can never replace you, he won't try. For example, my now ex GF would always do little things for me, and let me know that she looooves being with me, but give him his space too. Other things too... she would say she would never cheat on me, like... all the time. That made me feel good and like I could trust her more than anyone. Also I felt I could never cheat on her either, how could I with a promise like that? And now we are apart, by her choice, not mine, and I feel like I can never replace her... =/
2007-12-17 20:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by brodis36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is plenty of men. Just pick up one who is already happy when he see you.
2007-12-17 20:47:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋