There's this girl that was initially my friend, which evolved into a very good friend for me, as i was for her. We went out together alot(i mean just me and her), and always shared problems with each other. Gradually i fell for her, and I sent her flowers one day. She told me not to chase her, and that's the only sentence that ended any discussion about our relationship. Somehow she became further and further out of my reach, and i can't stop thinking about her. What should i do? Working class answers only please.. thanks!
2007-12-17 21:31:35 · 10 answers · asked by RuBbish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
File, and forget.
2007-12-17 21:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by Crusty P. Flaps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she's also fell for you, but doesn't really know how to tell you. She prefer's to take her distance in a way to decide on whether she really has that inner feeling for you. So you should not loose hope as you should also give her time to think it over, cause if you push her too hard she might even get further out of your rich, so the best solution is to wait a little and see. If she doesn't respond after a while you should therefore tell her how you feel for she might have misunderstood your intentions!
2007-12-17 21:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by saintly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds tough. To be honest, I have a lot of guy friends that I love spending time with one on one but I would not see them as BF material. It's no offense to the guys it's just there either is or isn't the chemistry. Sometimes we rather separate ourselves from the situation (you) in order to avoid hurting you in the long run. (ie. leading you on)
There's no easy way to say this but if she was interested in you as in something more, she would have hinted it to you or came on you you by now.
Your choice now is to try to save the friendship or break it off with her completely so move on.
2007-12-17 21:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she seems to be that she don't want to have a relationship with you
i am so sorry to say that.
but i think you deserve some one who want you.
so forget about her.
go out and look for anther girl
there is true love looking for you.
i know what she doing coz I've been there when my friend talk to me about starting a relationship with him and when i fell that i don't want to do this with him i act like this girl that you talking about.
so sorry.
you have to know the truth.
go out meet some girls.
be happy.
have fun.
yours,
Hiti
2007-12-17 21:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by Hiti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wasting your time--she's far from ready for you--why?? No one knows--so get moving--stop the hurt boy routine--find another and another and keep trying--have fun and forget all this crap for a while,----wasn't that simple from a working class man?? Merry Christmas
2007-12-17 21:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She evidently does not want a relationship with you. Just give her some space. She may realize later what she had.
2007-12-17 21:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Working class answers?!? What the heck??
She's made her feelings clear on the matter - let it rest, move on and find someone else.
2007-12-17 21:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you should find a new girl and make her happy
2007-12-17 21:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by x_Three Days Grace_x 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WAIT
2007-12-17 21:38:46 · answer #9 · answered by PREM 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
FORGET
2007-12-17 21:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by Kabir 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋