i'm 23 and my mum still gives me a curfue at night.i have a bf who is not the same religion as me and when i want to see him it can only be during the day. my mum doesnt like him coz of the religion thing. its been 1yr & 5months and i cant enjoy my night life. if i go out at night my curfue is 7pm!people tell her if she meets him then she will loosen up and give me my freedom but she doesnt want to!someone please help!i cant live like this.i cant even move out coz she will die...literally!
2007-12-17 18:28:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
get your own place or learn to respect the homeowners rules
2007-12-17 18:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by wanttolpve 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jay j has the answer. You are 23 - move out. While you are under your Mother's roof, you should respect her wishes. Bring your boyfriend home, or conveniently arrange to be at the same place at the same time as your Mum with him. That way, want to or not, she will meet him. Tell her you need your own life and you and your boyfriend need to go & find your own place to live. 7.pm curfew for someone your age is just beyond a joke. Good luck.
2007-12-18 02:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by musicdancerecords 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 23 and an adult... so if you want to stay out later than 7 p.m. and want to get away from your mother's controlling ways, consider moving out.
You might also let her know you're going out and you will "see her later"... i don't understand why you can't come and go as you please, unless you live in afghanistan or a country which hides and controls their female population?
take care.
2007-12-18 03:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job, move out, get married, have kids, read books and newspapers, attend church of your choosing, get involved in community, exercise, develop interests and hobbies, plan for retirement, pay taxes. That's the usual recipe for growing up.
2007-12-18 02:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by Wilma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move out. Girl, you are an adult and should not have a curfew. 7:00? Are you serious? Tell her that you are an adult and that you are going out. She will not die if you move out. She will straighten up if you do.
2007-12-18 03:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out on your own and pay your own bills with your own money. The best way to be treated like an adult is to conduct yourself as one.
2007-12-18 02:32:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are an adult. You have to take control of your own life. Your mother will not die, she'll just have to accept it.
2007-12-18 02:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by munkees81 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move out! You are an adult, live your own life. She won't die, come on.
2007-12-18 02:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by Morley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer your question without knowing what the religions are.
2007-12-18 02:34:27 · answer #9 · answered by thesongfairy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋