drunk, so how do i know if we had sex??

Question

this happened a couple of months ago and its been bothering me quite a bit. i am no longer a virgin but in august(i was a virgin) i was very drunk with this guy and we started kissing and made our way into the bedroom. the kissing led to touching and fingering and then he gave me oral. the next thing i remember was him on top of me...and well its kind of a blur. i think we had sex but not sure because i was quite sore the next day but didnt bleed or anything. how do i know if we had sex, i didnt ask or cant ask because i was leaving the next morning and left him asleep :s

i know/knew the guy so plz dont think it was some random. i cant ask because this was overseas :(

tamra w isnt it obvious that im a girl??? wtf?

if i did remember i wouldnt be asking a question like this on the internet! its not like im proud of something like this and everyone MAKES MISTAKES!!

obviously i have had my period since then but it did come a month late. anyway i have had sex since then but i just want to know if you can tell if sex happened that night

im not that young, im now 19 and i have had sex with my bf since so yes i know im not a virgin

Answer 1

??? You're not making any sense. How was it "kind of a blur." You know if you had sex or not. Unless he was so small that you didn't feel him... which is another problem altogether.

I don't buy the "I was too drunk to remember" bit. That's horse****. You remember. You just choose not to. Rack your brain, quit lying to yourself and remember if you got racked that night or not.

Answer 2

Well, my question to you is, you say you are not a virgin anymore? Is this based on the facts that you THINK you had sex that night? And people are right you dont always bleed, and if he fingered you, you could be hurting from that, but more then likely you did have sex. The only way you can tell if you had intercourse is to have a GYN check ya, they can tell you if you are a virgin anymore. Now, if you lost your virginity afterwards, then you will never know if you had sex that night or not. But I take it you are young and I hope you learned to NEVER drink around guys. Your lucky you didnt end up pregnant.

Answer 3

Since this happened a couple of months ago, have you had a period since then. If not you better go and have a pregnancy test done.

Answer 4

Not all women bleed when they lose their virginity. And you being sore the next day means that you probably did have sex.

Answer 5

Well, you don't know. If you were that sore, you probably did. ANd since this obviously wasn't a relationship, go get tested since it was probably unprotected.

Hopefully you learned a lesson from this though.

Answer 6

i can understand simple either ask him straight or just go to doc for a check up he ll be able to tell if u r a virgin or not

Answer 7

if you said no and he is a true man then you didnt, but there are only 1 good man in 100 so odds are that the have a 99% chance that you did have sex and a 1% chance that you still untouched.

Answer 8

you should cut down on your drinking, and raise your standards. It's sad that you have to ask this question dont you think

Answer 9

You and he are wearng anyting on body when you wake up??
You feel pain your there ......I heard from my friend that will feel pain if you are the first time do that.....

Answer 10

ask the spectators... or pregnancy test.