I'm 16 and my 15 year old girlfriend is pregnant i found out she's a slut and i want to leave her but she's pregnant and doesn't want to get rid of it what should i do
2007-12-17 23:00:34 · 26 answers · asked by The man 335 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't mean i want to get rid of it I think that's wrong i mean that she is pregnant and there's no way she wont have the baby
----i found out she's had sex with about 12 guys at the age of 15 and still talks to half of them and people keep telling me shes a slut and reminding me of her past is that wrong of me will i ever get over it ----
2007-12-17 23:18:28 · update #1
to the people that are calling me "jerk" ect perhaps if you reads what i wrote more carefully you can see I'm not asking her to get rid of it and I'm asking advice on what to do so please use your brains
2007-12-18 02:23:06 · update #2
is your reason for not wanting to be with her because she has slept with so many people at a young age? if so. once that baby is born you need to get a DNA test done to see if the baby is yours, if so you need to make sure he/she has what it needs. but you don't need to be with the person to be a good dad. all i can say is wait for the test to see what it said, but you don't have to stay together till then.
2007-12-17 23:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by hartigan18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should absolutely not get RID of it. Why should she kill a child just because the 2 of you made a mistake. If you think that way of her than you should leave her. There is no sense staying because she's having a baby. Honestly it will be the best thing for her, for goodness sake you want her to kill the baby. Personally I don't know what your doing anyways. 16 year olds can barely hold a conversation with someone, and your having sex??????? Enough with my venting - you won't pay attention to a thing I've said so - GOOD LUCK
2007-12-18 07:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by Heather M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sex would be all fun and games if bad things couldn't come from it. But bad things can come from it, and you've learned this the hard way. So sex is a responsibility, which is something that comes with age. This is why kids can't buy alcohol or cigarettes. Kids know nothing of responsibility. So.....yes.......irresponsible kids doing irresponsible things leads to something bad happening.
All I can say is, enjoy delivering pizzas for the next 18 years, because she's got you by the scrotum and the paycheck till then.
Good luck.
2007-12-18 07:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by Rock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought of this before you had unprotected sex! Now I think the best thing is to try & see if a family member would adopt the baby. It's not the baby's fault afterall. You need to stick by her till she has the baby. A pregnancy can be very frightening to an ault, much less a child. You don't have to remain her boyfriend, you must however, remain her friend.
2007-12-18 07:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by trippinstarr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really dont want to be with her and shes keeping it you have to talk to her and tell her that you no longer want to date anymore but you will still remain in her life and help her with the baby...i hope you do do that it isnt this babys fault that you two young kids had sex and might not be able to finacially support the baby it would be even worse if the father just left...you guys can break up but you will forever be the parents of that baby...i just pray you will be good supporting parents...your gonna have to tell your parents eventually they will find out hopefully they can lend a helping hand...mayb get dna testing if you truly believe she is a sl ut but if she is telling truth stop calling her names because she will be the mother of your child
2007-12-18 07:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow some bulls, If your old enough to have sex with her your old enough to look after the child you helped create. And what do you mean she is a **** Is that just due to her being pregnant now and If so Grow up. Besides you should be happy she is not pressing RAPE charges as she is underage.
2007-12-18 07:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by simon k 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's a ***** because she's 15 & pregnant ? not easy on the body or mind. Stand by her, even if you do break up. You are responsible for that child as much as she is. Breaking up doesn't mean you walk away.
2007-12-18 07:10:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a ****, then leave her sorry ***! When the kid comes, deny everything (cuz it's probably not yours), and demand a DNA test to prove paternity. But if she isn't the **** that you claim her to be, then you are just a little 16yo pussy that needs to be accountable for his own actions. For your sake, I hope you're telling the truth about her being a ****.
2007-12-18 07:07:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your child...whatever she is like do not abandon her and your child. You both are very young so you need to talk to both sets of parents and a family planning expert. You made a mistake here and you should step up and make the right choice
2007-12-18 07:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude "omg" man u shouldnt of ever of had a child at such a young age. And second why would u even consider getting rid of a child.
2007-12-18 07:09:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋