My boyfriend is always depressed when i leave his house or when i can't call or when i'm talking to someone other than him. it's like i can't really live my life without him getting depressed.
what do i do?
2007-12-17 22:18:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i forgot to mention that he has anxiety.. he didn't finish school so whenever it's brought up he gets depressed.. i'm running out of things to say to make him feel better. and we argue because of it but i love him.. he's also a best friend
2007-12-17 22:25:07 · update #1
tell him that its ok to feel sad
2007-12-17 22:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Capricorn lady, with 5 planets in Capricorn. I have struggled between superb highs and ideal lows about my appearance. It used to be worse when I was once younger (round your age) -- I had the identical insecurities - besides it was once too skinny/weird nose/small boobs/no determine. I have normal Capricorn in physical traits -- tall, thin, long face, lengthy nose, sharp features, small boobs, small waist, large hips, skinny legs -- I felt so out-of-percentage for this kind of long time, however many individuals tell me i'm stunning. I have some insecurity about my appearance -- sometimes fearing that i do not appear "feminine" adequate -- but then I realise plenty of that's simply hogwash. With so much media blitz telling how "what's beautiful", it can be rough not to get caught up often. A part of it is that you're 19 and you are still figuring yourself out -- it'll get higher, when you recognize extra of who you're, and who you don't seem to be. You're nonetheless a young person. If you are unhappy with your self, change it -- however make sure you change the correct materials, considering that without difficulty placing band-aids over the difficulty is not going to aid you.
2016-08-06 12:07:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know why he is depressed.... he probably does have a number of reasons to be that way. BUT, he can snap out of it. Start by naming all the things you have to be thankful for. Read the Holy Bible and see what all you have to be grateful for. Do you have five fingers on each hand? then be grateful for it. Are you physically connected to a Simese twin? No? Then thank God for that. Your attitude has to change. Don't let him pull you down too. Lighten up and when he complains..... come back with a "So what?!! And then point out to him the bright side of the situation. But be sweet about it; other times try to reason with him.
2007-12-17 22:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said he's always depressed whenever you leave his house, the problem is that he might have a heartbreak that he couldn't get over wit, so what you should do is to talk to you about his past relationship. or better still ask him what is wrong wit him or what is he afraid of
2007-12-17 23:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by MARY J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a Capricorn woman, with 5 planets in Capricorn. I even have struggled between superb highs and superb lows approximately my visual allure. It grew to become into worse whilst i grew to become into youthful (around your age) -- I had the comparable insecurities - different than it grew to become into too skinny/extraordinary nostril/small boobs/no parent. I even have popular Capricorn in actual characteristics -- tall, skinny, long face, long nostril, sharp good factors, small boobs, small waist, super hips, skinny legs -- I felt so out-of-share for this style of long term, yet many human beings tell me i'm eye-catching. I even have some lack of self assurance approximately my visual allure -- each in specific situations fearing that i don't seem "female" sufficient -- yet then I comprehend various this is in simple terms hogwash. With lots media blitz telling how "what's distinctly", it is troublesome to not get caught up each in specific situations. element of it extremely is which you're 19 and you're nevertheless figuring your self out -- it gets extra desirable, once you already know extra of who you're, and who you're actually not. you're nevertheless a teenager. in case you're unhappy with your self, replace it -- yet confirm you alter the superb areas, because of the fact in simple terms putting band-aids over the concern will not assist you.
2016-10-02 01:14:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes just one of those depressed people, as him if at all hes going to become emo(tional) because this looks like a sign
2007-12-17 22:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by pussicus911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds immature and insecure. Tell him that you can not deal with him being so clingy. Tell him that you care for him, but the depression thing is turning you off.
2007-12-17 22:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boyfriend. It sounds as though he is immature and is living his life through you not with you.
2007-12-17 22:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by Helena 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to get sympathy from you. Perhaps some attention. Pay more attention to him. Make him feel more self-assured.
2007-12-17 22:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by sunsetparade 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is obsessed with you. Dump him. You would never be happy married to him. He would want to control you.
2007-12-17 22:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋