I'll tell you all what my brothers girlfriend is like & you tell me what you think of her?

Question

My brother is 25 & shes 20 they only been together for about 2years now & she absolutly pisses me off shes one of them girls that wants to be ''PERFECT'' she wont eat NO food thats got fat in it she wont eat a touch of suger all because she doesnt want to put on weight & shes already a size 10? she reckons she wants to be a size 8? I think she thinks shes ''all that'' she acts like she knows EVERYTHING i meen she is nice i guess but she can have her moments i HATE girl that want to be soo skinny & i hate girls that are skinny but say their fat they just say it to hear us say ''no your not fat your have a nice slim body'' GRRRR also she is REALLY nosey like for an example iff i go out & then come back she will come up to me & asked where i went & then i would tell her & then she will ask did i go anywhere else or did i do anything else like WTF? Seriously shes just one of them girls she kind of sends it off to us that HER family is better than ours what do you think of her guys & girls?

Answer 1

isnt there a bit of jealousy going on here? all us girls have these problems with other girls about something to do with their appearance. but we tend to save it only for are close friends. like if i see a girl in a pub who's gorgeous in every way, with a skirt up her ***, i'm like "just look at that over there, wearing short skirts, who does she think she is" especially if im with my fella heehee, but secretly im saying " god i want to be her" haha, but it does grate me when my mate says shes fat and clearly she knows she isnt.... and all she eats is lettuce :( im a size 12, and happy with it, just i'd kill to have a waist like my mate, who is a size 8, the one who says shes fat? oh well

Answer 2

There are people like that and there is nothing you can do about it, or you will spend the rest of your life expecting something to be on a certain way and it wont ever be. Get used to that, or find a new place to live.

My suggestion is find a new place to live where things work on your terms and you choose the ones who can come to your place. Become independent and you wont ever have this problem again, unless you want that, since there is no need to have to talk with that person ever again unless you tell them is none of their bussines and they respect what you said, problem solved.

Answer 3

I'm naturally thin, eat whatever I want, had 3 kids, way past my 20's. I've NEVER searched for complinents re: my figure. I have 4 other sisters, beautiful women, all of whom are succesfull and there's not a snobby bone to be found. We weren't raised to be pompous or conceited.

Someone that has to fish for compliments isn't really confident in her own natural beauty. For her to feel so superior to your family suggests that she's overly concerned with status. The demands, financial & emotional, may become quite stressful for your brother to keep up with. When or if grandkids become involved expect a divisionary rift. Is your brother prepared for, or aware of, the long term results if he chooses to continue his relationship with her?

Love him, hug him and let him know of your concerns. But you can't choose his girlfriends. If you protest too loudly he may defy you for general principle. If SHE get's wind that you would prefer her to be eliminated, DUCK. Good Luck

Answer 4

Don't be such a hater. You call her nosey - yet I bet she is not asking questions on Yahoo answers about you. I HATE it when people tell me to eat when I am at the weight that I want to be - maybe she likes being skinny? Why do you care about it? she is not writing about fat girls that need to quit eating and hating on people. Or justifying their fat butts by saying that they are "average" or whatever. My advice is to get your own life and quit hating on other people.

Answer 5

everybody's different bro..if we all the same...we could be like her..then you'd have no choice. It's your brothers girl, let him deal with it...if she gets in your bizz again...tell her it's not her place to ask your personal bizz, but in a kind way...we are taught a certian way that carries through life...maybe she just stuck in that way she was taught...maybe now she has learned her size 10 isn't good for her self image...she wants to put out there. Let her be...she may never change...and you'll always have a head-ache

Answer 6

i in my opinion experience sorry for u that u are in this place its the style of complicated concern to might desire to handle. yet you will possibly be able to desire to do the main marvelous concern and wake him up and tell him right now its important adequate that he desires to appreciate as quickly as achievable. he would be very disenchanted yet thats comprehensible as he would be grieving it is in basic terms organic. If u dont wake him as much as tell him then while he does locate out he will desire to appreciate why he wasnt advised staraight away and that could make him mad at u for no longer telling him as quickly as u found out. it fairly is going to likely be complicated yet its the main marvelous concern to do. he will admire u extra for being right now with him. good good fortune with this and be stable on your brother he will want your love and help extra advantageous than ever now

Answer 7

It is your brother's choice. Just be supportive of him.

If she asks you where you are going again, ask her if she is writing a book.

Answer 8

She sound really superficial but if she makes your brother really happy you need to accept her for his sake and learn to like her

Answer 9

I really think its up to your brother who he chooses. You have your opinions and you are entitled to them for sure......tell her quietly without your brother knowing to keep the hell away from you if you dont llike her........dont wanna upset your brother hey

Answer 10

I think she's doin' her best for her to get a 'two thumbs up' from your family...