If i like a guy I can't look him in the eye or look at him at all. If you've seen my other questions I've seen this guy stealing glances at me but I'm way too shy to look back.
What can I do to help this, what would guys think if they knew I was this shy?? Any advice thats HELPFUL and please be nice. I'm trying to improve myself for the better.
2007-12-17 07:03:22 · 8 answers · asked by yeahrightlove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its okay to be shy, i used to be like that too....i still kinda am, the guys don't know its because your shy, they think its because you don't like them...lol...sometimes it actually works to your advantage...........
2007-12-17 07:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, since I am shy, I would be even more scared to talk to you. It's difficult to tell how you are feeling or what you are thinking if you are shy. So I assume that you either have a boyfriend or you don't really want to talk to me.
That is until I see you hang out with your other friends and find out you are very nice. Then that helps.
As for looking back, just remember that if he's on the other side of the room and it is during class, that you have nothing to worry about. He's not gonna shout at you during lecture (unless he's that kinda person =O)
2007-12-17 15:07:48 · answer #2 · answered by niiro13 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to be shy, too, and I know how hard it is. But look at your situation this way - what is the WORST thing that could happen if you looked at him? He could smile back? He could look away? He could stick his tongue out at you? Any number of scenarios could happen. But my point is this: none of those things are going to hurt you or cause long term embarrassment or damage. Just look at him and give him a little smile - you may be surprised at how he reacts and it could give you some insight and confidence to deal with similar situations later. Good luck!
2007-12-17 15:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by naf23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold your head up if he's looking at you then he's thinks your cute let him see what he's interested in...When you look at him just smile not to hard just a little smile just to let him know your interested since your shy.. eventually your going to have to speak to him but until then try to make a little eye contact it won't hurt
2007-12-17 15:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by Toogood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to face it. Just walk by him and say hi. That wont hurt. thats really all i can say since you are so shy
2007-12-17 15:07:15 · answer #5 · answered by Tay Tay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously if u ask me i hv also been thru dis phase of my life bt now i m more relaxed nd confident dan b4......u need to get exposure to outside world....u got to interact wid more people of ur age nd above to develop dat confidence in urself to b able to push urself up nd face d heat straight.....this might help u as i hv improved a lot.....
2007-12-17 15:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by dnt mess yur life... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only live once babe. If you miss chances now, you will regret it in the future believe me you will. Just look at him and see what happends.
2007-12-17 15:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to get more confidence in your self it sounds like. try doing things in groups... friends always add confidence to a situation
2007-12-17 15:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by sgreene1130 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋