I'm a teen(female),and i recently found out that masturbating is normal for us because it helps to calm our sexual urges.Right now i just need help,can anyone tell me how to do it and i mean so that i can calm my really bad urges.I mean like expert advice!!!!!!!!(I am still a virgin and i don't intend to have sex for a LONG while)
2007-12-17 06:59:57 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all...You are awesome!
2nd, just relax and explore yourself. You'll figure it out! It's different for everyone!
2007-12-17 07:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by Rock Candy 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Firstly, I would say don't pressure yourself to do it just because you think it's "normal" and that you "should" be doing it! I was 29 before I really felt comfortable doing it and therefore actually started to enjoy it! (Now I'm playing catch up!!!)
Like all the other guys say, it really is a personal thing and so different things work for different people.
Take your time, relax, don't expect too much at first, just explore and get to know yourself! I guess when you're feeling some of those "really bad urges" , take yourself away to a warm, comfortable, private room. Touch yourself with your hand/2 fingers and just do what feels "nice"...and keep doing it!
I do want to say I think you are right not to be in any rush to lose your virginity. You have the rest of your life infront of you, plenty of time for all that!!!! Be brave and strong and true to yourself...give yourself when YOU are ready, not when someone tells you you are. If he/she is trying to pressure you then they don't deserve you. Go Girl!!!! :-)
2007-12-17 07:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by deepblue 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The extend of the advice you get should be based on the definition of you being a teen. As in are you 13 or 19. Big difference.
2007-12-17 07:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anthonylikes2...☺ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is a lot of things out there. You just have to fine what make you feel good. Sometime thinking, picturing of who you like, love,( Not a family) movie star.... or watch Roman movies The main point is to love your self and your body. You will fine what you looking for.
2007-12-17 07:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by Not ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest looking it up on Google... how old are you?
It's much too graphic to just tell on here.
There are many different ways of doing it; the possibilities are endless... just look it up. Though you might not want to if you're only, like, 14 or something.
2007-12-17 07:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by tofutaxi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do you have a bath tub? they say that most young females discover masturbation by hiking themselves close to the bath faucet, and having the water flow over their happy parts.. beyond this, you should just experiment.. there is much fun to be had... enjoy it because so many people villainize masturbation, and those are the ones who will always be frustrated....
2007-12-17 07:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's different for everyone. Just explore down there, some find rubbing is stimulating, but others don't. It's completely normal!
2007-12-17 07:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by Kill The Man Jarro. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
invest in Bob. Batterey Operated Boyfriend. Bob is the best, he only worries about pleasing you and can go for as long as you need.
2007-12-17 07:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by momof3boys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of sexual preditors out there and this is not helping?? You should have GOOGLED this question! Or talk to your Mommy.
2007-12-17 07:31:10 · answer #9 · answered by bikerman0966 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have sex with my girlfriend, that help my sexual urges, plus my father will never allow me to date any guy, only girls only.
2007-12-17 07:23:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just touch yourself and see what feels good.
Experiment - its different for every person so im not going to go into details here !
2007-12-17 07:03:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋