I'm 20 years old, I met a girl a looooooong time ago, probably about 5 years ago. We've had an off and on friend relationship.. In highschool we kissed (drunk) and then the next day she told me she wanted nothing to do with me. Then the same thing happened again a year later while I was in a relationship and we talked about getting together - the next day she sobered up and didn't respond to me for about 3 months. Then she contacted me and we acted like the situation never happened and went back to being friends, about a year ago we (drunk again) kissed and well you get the picture rinse and repeat. We didn't stop being friends this time we just never talked about this situation. I asked her out sometime after that and she said she just got out of a relationship... So I got pissed, stopped talking to her, and she somehow got back into my life again.. So were friends again I just feel like I'm addicted to this girl.. What should I do?
2007-12-17 07:06:23 · 10 answers · asked by Jetboy77 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you need to keep her liquored up for a few weeks bra. Humans are creatures of habit. You drink with her and things get all romantic over a few week span........why would things change after that?
2007-12-17 07:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man up.
She's using you as an emotional crutch and you're getting nothing in return. She's using you so she knows that at least she has SOMEONE that will run to her beck and call if she needs a guy. Are you a slave? Are you a beaten dog that comes to his master's call? I didn't think so. Stop acting like it. She's just a girl, there are at least 3 billion more in this world with new ones being born every day. That one is inconsequential in the broad scheme of things.
2007-12-17 07:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's got a drinking problem and is only interested in you when she's drunk.
it sounds more like you're addicted to the drama of wanting what you can't have.
Are you trying to prove to yourself that you are loveable by getting somone who isn't interested in you to love you? or is it more macho than that? You must be the man if drunk chick decides you're the guy for her?
If that's what floats your boat, then have at it. But it isn't going to bring joy or peace into your life.
Good Luck.
2007-12-17 07:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her drunk and knock it out with her. Then, tell her you want nothing to do with her.
She is the type that wants what she cannot have.
Then, only go see her late at night... for the booty. Then give her the bit she has been giving you! This way you are getting something out of it.
Good luck.
2007-12-17 07:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by Wrong Answer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on she is obviously not interested in you. If you leave her alone and she is interested make her make the first move SOBER. Good Luck.
2007-12-17 07:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by Chrystal D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not 2 get attached to her and realize that u 2 r only "playmates" nuthn more so enjoy it cuz there r no attachments or relationship rules
2007-12-17 07:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow some balls and take advantage her like she has been doint ot you. Why are you just kissing drunk?
2007-12-17 07:10:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jagurati 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit drinking so much.
2007-12-17 07:13:22 · answer #8 · answered by jamzm2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like you cant resist her hahaha! but you know what..why not try to confront her..asked her why....
2007-12-17 07:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by girl ur looking for! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with her and move on. Screw her (litterally)
2007-12-17 07:10:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋