Me and my boyfriend live together and he is always eating up my snacks after I specifically tell him not to; He has his own snacks, but after he eats all of his, he eats mine! I am so fed up! Is it wrong to kick him out?
2007-12-17 06:27:06 · 22 answers · asked by shalwalk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats a lil drastic....just hide your snacks or something...lol this sounds like a commercial or suttin
2007-12-17 06:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by Stan Gemini 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
If that is the only reason, then yes. But my guess is if you are asking this question it is really the tip of the iceberg, so the only thing I would suggest is to give yourself a chance to cool down and if you still feel that way when you are level headed then it sounds like you are ready to end this.
My guess is when you calm down you will be less upset about it. Is the issue that these are snacks you are buying? Is the issue that they are not there when you want them? If it is the first one, then maybe ask him to chip in on the snacks so this is less of an issue. If it is the second one then maybe you should be buying a few more so that you don't run out so easily :)
2007-12-17 14:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by JA in SC 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A little drastic maybe...but if your boyfriend can't respect a simple request to not eat your snacks, what does that say about him in the long run? The real issue here is that it seems your opinion (no matter how trivial such as snacks) is not being taken serious enough. Little things sometimes build up to big things.
2007-12-17 14:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by S B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, basically your talking about something more than just snacks, and that's respect. If he has no respect for you and your wishes...such as eating all your snacks after you have asked him not to, then he's not that great a boyfriend, he sounds like he doesn't care about your opinion or what you want.
2007-12-17 14:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by jimstock60 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It would be very wise to ask him to leave and to end the relationship. If this snack issue is bothersome now, in the future the bigger issues will only be worse. He needs to learn to respect the property and the wishes of others. You need to find someone you love more than you love your snacks. This guy is not the one.
2007-12-17 14:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by valyncollin 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well, he's helping himself to things that belong to you, even after you've asked him not to. that's a pretty selfish boyfriend. breaking up with him might be extreme, but it sounds like he's not mature enough to live with you. if you're really pissed enough to kick him out because of this, maybe you two have deeper problems than snack food (like respecting each other's space, needs, and belongings).
2007-12-17 14:33:59 · answer #6 · answered by G 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
lol.. People have broken up for less than that, so I'd say no.
Eat his too and see how he likes that. Otherwise, hide your snacks. My hubby and I play this game too sometimes. He eats his stuff and then when he doesn't have anything for a snack he eats mine!! I think all men are kind of like that. lol
2007-12-17 14:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by nite_angelica 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
LOL ..hahahahahahahahahahahahah hey hey now thats funny cuz if mine did that especially now in this life time i would kill him.. when i get into my pregnant hormone rage and i dont have my freaking juice or what ever the hell im craving for the day .. i kinda freak out.. ok i freak out alot but ya know we cant really help it .. but seriously dont kick him out just eat his let him know how it is.
2007-12-17 14:38:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not stupid, it is an indication that he doesn't care about your feelings or desires. Obviously what is most important in his life is his immediate wants regardless of anyone else. Sounds like an indicator of more serious problems in your "relationship".
2007-12-17 14:31:35 · answer #9 · answered by Wiz 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
LOL LOL this is funny.... yes it is wrong... hide your snacks or ask him to leave you some. He may just be messing with you to test the waters on where you stand with your snacks.... In a new relationship we do that just like we did when we were kids and messed with our parents.
2007-12-17 14:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by Jagurati 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
nope kick him to the curb... dont mess with snacks
2007-12-17 14:33:23 · answer #11 · answered by blase' blahhh 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋