My boyfriend of six years has a best friend that is ALWAYS around. He even thinks it is funny when people call him my second boyfriend. It's gotten a little better since he recently got a new job and is working out of state, but he still comes in every saturday night. Therefore instead of an evening out with my boyfriend we have to have his friend tag-along every sat. night. And the worse part is that my boyfriend doesn't see any wrong in his annoying friend. I've tried to find him a girlfriend to get him off our backs but no one can tolerate him! Any suggestions?!
2007-12-17 06:13:45 · 10 answers · asked by Spa Consultant PB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If its only saturdays you and your bf has to spend together then there is a big problem. If not you need to remember that your bf can have friends apart from you and should be able to spend time with them. Since this friend lives out of state then its only fair that your bf get to spend time with his buddy too. Its just that your bf loves you and wants to spend time with the two people he loves the most. I dont think its that he chooses him over you thing...just that your bf should be allowed to have a life outside of you...that is what will balance the relationship. Dont ask him to choose ..it might casue problems for a good thing. Compromise...let him have his night out with his pal...you have all the other nights with him...dont be so selfish. I am sure he will love you even more for this.
2007-12-17 06:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's a nasty b*tch but if your boyfriend is not caring about how you feel, he may not be worth it. I don't want to sound mean but if he is fighting with you about her and doesn't take your feelings into consideration, she may be successful at breaking the two of you up. You took the time to write a long message to her which I find really surprising since I would personally never do that, but all you got in return was her b*tchy response. Does your boyfriend know about the message you sent her and the one you received? If he does, he should be able to think logically and see that you were trying to be the nice one here and put up with her crap. If he's pissed off and still sides with her, then honestly he is a true a$$hole.
2016-05-24 09:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is your boyfriend's tolerance *even though* he knows you don't like it. Can you tell your bf that you are getting extremely upset with the situation and don't want this guy tagging along? See what he says. If he doesn't care, then there is a big problem in the relationship because he picked this jerk over you.
2007-12-17 06:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should put your relationship with your boyfriend in stake because of some other guy who is annoying. I think that you should make it clear to your boyfriend that a date is for two love birds and that there mustn't be any third part interruption. If he still consist that it's not a problem to have his friends along then why don't you bring some friend of yours with you! Maybe he'll understand.
2007-12-17 06:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your boyfriend how you feel. tell him you understand that his friend is really important to him but you want your own time with him too and maybe he can spend an hour or two on sat. with his friend and then spend the rest of the night with you...alone.
good luck
2007-12-17 06:17:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The obvious answer is to find a new boyfriend who values time with you more than time with his "best friend".
2007-12-17 06:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by Wiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't like the baggage your boyfriend brings with him to your relationship. Then find another boyfriend.
2007-12-17 06:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him firmly-but mention that you will still be friends, he hasn't proberly hasn't even reallised that he is annoying.
but remember him and your boyfriend are really good friends and imagine if it was you and one of your friends.
just tell him firmly.
hoped it helpes
p.s -if your friend dosen't take any of i wouldn't see the point in that realation ship.
2007-12-17 06:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PUTYOURFOOTDOWN! That Jerk has got to go, post haste, if your bf wants to be friends withhim, then he should schedule things with him around his relationship with you and it shouldn't interfer too much with your relationship..
2007-12-17 06:18:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had one of those, his name was bill.....lol
can't tell you how to get rid of them, they never go away!
2007-12-17 06:17:51 · answer #10 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋