okay well ive had a extremely year in 2007..and me and my mom have been through hell and back...had a rough childhood ect ect...and now that im going to turn 18 soon next month..i want to talk to my brother and mom over x-mas break and tell them that i want to repent and change my ways and change many things about myself and fix my relationship and a bunch of issues that i have..and i want my mom to do the same because she had/has an acohol problem and i find myself going down that road( im already depending omn alcohol to fix my issues and make them go away even though i know they wont)...i just think we need to fix ourselves up...but see my mom is hard headed she thinks everything is fine and dandy and than she like blames everything on me of course like she goes bipolar on me...but i just want to find myself and my mom and fix our relationship and be with God. I want to invovled..and i want my mom to do the same i know my bro will be okay but my mom im scared to talk to...so?
2007-12-17 06:28:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
and i want to be here in the long run for my neices and nephews i always get on them and have talks to them about right from wrong ect ect...i just dont them to be like me my mom or ne other person in our family...depression and alcoholism runs in my family..soo yeah..i just want to better myself and help my mom and help her live a better life as well as me
2007-12-17 06:30:45 · update #1
What you are planning is excellent.Implement them with full confidence and honesty and there is no reason why you cannot reform your whole family.I firmly believe that today's youngsters have great talents to reform the entire society as well.
2007-12-17 17:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's great you want to get help for yourself. I would, tell them about what you are going to do but don't thing your mom will be wanting to jump aboard. She has to want to get help for her self! I hope, you still get help even if she doesn't at this time. You need to focus on you, first! Before you can help some one esle! Maybe in time she will come around. Don't push her or it might back fire. maybe if she see you getting better then she will want too. Good luck and God bless you!
2007-12-17 14:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋