Family & Relationships - 11 December 2007

Is this normal? I feel really sick & jealous and that I am not good enough for him! Do all men watch porn while in a relationship??

2007-12-11 14:29:40 · 19 answers · asked by *dream weaver* 3 in Singles & Dating

my daughter is in kindergarten this year and is having trouble. she is having trouble with speech (in speech therapy) , recognizing letters and numbers. she only counts to 11 and they say she should be counting to 20. she can only recognize a few letters from the alphabet. every single day i read to her, i point to the words while we read. i go over her speech papers that are sent to me (try to get her to pronounce the words the way they should be), we do the alphabet with and without looking at the letters, we do the same with numbers. i have bought flash cards and we work with those. i made her a childrens cd with the alphabet songs and all sorts of kids songs for her. i dont know how else to help her. she does not require a special education class, i just dont know what else to do to help her so please dont be disrespectful when answering. this is an innocent child we are talking about. if anyone has any creative teaching ideas for me please do tell! i just want to help her learn

2007-12-11 14:26:31 · 7 answers · asked by myourchisin 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-11 14:26:17 · 1 answers · asked by gbwoman79 1 in Singles & Dating

So when I was a little kid my family was really poor and couldn't afford any toys, nothing but a small toy that was a chick (baby chicken that would peep) I had him for many years since I was a baby well I recently replaced the batteries and it started peeping again which I was quite happy but when I came home today i found the chick destroyed not sure how it was but i know my wife destroyed it. its irreplaceable cause it was from eastern europe (born there) and it was very old what am i to do now?

2007-12-11 14:22:51 · 16 answers · asked by Hi T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-11 14:21:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if yea then how did u meet them?

2007-12-11 14:20:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This is a work situation and she has been disiplined more than once.

2007-12-11 14:20:44 · 5 answers · asked by just me 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

i consider myself a good kid.good grades,good plans, no drugs/alchol,ppl have told me that im mature for my age and that i have a good head on my shoulders.i dont wanna be around my mom AT ALL anymore,where as before i always wanted to be near her.but shes ditched me so many times to go party that i think it is a defense mechanism to protect my broken heart, by putting up a wall between us. the other day she told me i had to grow up, that hurt, b/c if she was paying attention shed surely see that im trying and tell me to slow down. she told me that i need to walk the straight line shes put out for me...???...im my own person and i have my own plans, doesnt that mean something??she said when i move out then i can have a say, but until then i just have to deal .,and i think "well im graduating early, that soon enough for you". instead of being sad to leave im gonna be happy to get away. the main reason to why im graduating early b/c is of her. im i wrong?do i just have to deal with it?

2007-12-11 14:19:59 · 6 answers · asked by Sabrina 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if a guy 2yrs older than me whos been ion trouble b4 asks me 2 hang out, should i trust him?

2007-12-11 14:19:50 · 9 answers · asked by amber rae 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't have a car, and I live in a dorm with a roommate. Most girls look for guys that have fancy cars and big houses. I have been that guy before and I have ended up getting used every time. How do I convince a girl that I am a good catch without having those material things. I could buy a car anytime I want but i don't because I want a girl to want me for me not for my car or money. Why are girls so materialistic?

2007-12-11 14:19:50 · 9 answers · asked by snrugglebau1 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 15, and my boyfriend is 17, he is a laborour, so is verry strong. i was sitting in the kitchen at his mothers house (where he lives.) and me and his mother was saying how pretty i was, and that i must get hit on alot by older boys, because i look about 20 years old. then Jonah (my boyfriend) walked over to me and slaped me across the face with the back of his hand. His mother gasped then walked out of the room. she didnt even say anything! This is the first time that he has ever hit me, but i dont even no what it was about. can you please help me, how do i deal with this, and is it normal?

i have a huge welt on my cheek bone, and a horrible purple bruise.

2007-12-11 14:18:54 · 126 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-11 14:17:59 · 5 answers · asked by Cam1051Sec 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Its weird, he sits some seats behind me diagonally, and however the way I sit, like with my legs out, he copies? and like with my ankles crossed, he copies that too. I don't think its a coincidence, because its happened a few times. He always talks to me and talks with my name when he's talking to me, and he also sits across from me in biology and asks to me to exchange papers with me to compare notes.

2007-12-11 14:17:33 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

not a good marriage...kids are the best...i feel so lonly so sad.. feels like happiness has nothing to do with me..my husband never counts me in his life .i am here just to serve him when he feels like coming home..kids are getting bigger.they are going to go soon .do i have to die lonly and sad. what can i do. i wish i had a family.i don't want to be just a mom and that's what i have become. if i did not have my kids there is nothing for me to live.how can i change things around me with no family noone to love..no job ..no life..

2007-12-11 14:16:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

says they dont want to be married..and maybe never will because those papers are ownership papers.. and they have never seen a couple last other than his or her parents

2007-12-11 14:16:22 · 38 answers · asked by vis 7 in Singles & Dating

i am 15, and my boyfriend is 17, he is a laborour, so is verry strong. i was sitting in the kitchen at his mothers house (where he lives.) and me and his mother was saying how pretty i was, and that i must get hit on alot by older boys, because i look about 20 years old. then Jonah (my boyfriend) walked over to me and slaped me across the face with the back of his hand. His mother gasped then walked out of the room. she didnt even say anything! This is the first time that he has ever hit me, but i dont even no what it was about. can you please help me, how do i deal with this, and is it normal?

i have a huge welt on my cheek bone, and a horrible purple bruise.

2007-12-11 14:15:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

settlement, but still be in "love" with her. I feel this guy is he says they only got divorced because of his mother in law?

2007-12-11 14:13:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do u deal with someone that u can not stand. ok I got preg with my son under (bad terms!!!).My son dad did not want nothing to do with my son at first.I'm married and my hubby is the one that help me thru everything and been there from day 1. Ok now my son dad is tryin to get back in his life- I'm trying so hard to work with him but he makes me sick.His mom thinks im being unfair cause of the pass and what he put me thru.I think she is not seeing it thru me eyes and she did the same when it happen to her.Ok my Q is how do I handle this with out going crazy.I have ended up in the ER twice dealing with them.My family want me to do whats best for the baby but cant handle this.I really feel sick when see him.When my son is at his house and it only 2 times a month right now I go crazy.I dont truth him at all and I mean at all. what do I do??

2007-12-11 14:13:50 · 6 answers · asked by apple m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-11 14:11:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My BF is too tired to want to save our r/s again hence he ended it yesterday. We were both sad & hurt but he felt that was the best way since I've not been fully commited to him the past 9 mths and he's been giving out his love to me and I've only been receiving. I showed him love by buying him things sometimes but that's not what he wants. Anyway he's not replying to my text msgs anymore but I still msg him now & then like informing him im at work alrdy, ive reached home etc, do you think this is still necessary if I want to prove my love & commitment to him ? He told me time will heal wounds and over time, I will forget who he is. I told him I will never coz I know I wont. Can anyone give me advices what can I do to make him feel my LOVE, and im not talking about buying presents. Currently he's also very stressed at work as he's far from mthly target (hes in copier sales), what can I do to encourage & comfort him ? Advices please, thanks v much !!

2007-12-11 14:10:40 · 7 answers · asked by Arpengenie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay-so I know that my husband still watches porn and stuff. But when I looked at his computer today I found pictures with the keywords young teen and even preteen nude in them. I've caught him searching for that kind of porn before but he just got angry and avoided all of my questions about it. He says that he does not have a "thing" for teenagers but I really don't believe him-I guess I just want to know what I should do and whether I should be mad and confront him or just act like I don't know about it......sound advice would be helpful from both genders.

2007-12-11 14:07:49 · 16 answers · asked by clark_jax 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How long should you wait before you introduce your kids to your friend?

2007-12-11 14:07:07 · 21 answers · asked by AdamMs 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What's some good memories?

2007-12-11 14:07:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

you might think im crazy but i really want my mom to kick me out so i can be free and do whatever i want but she won't do it. she says she wants me to stay and its against the law to jus put me out. is it also illegal if i run away and my mom doesnt look for me?

2007-12-11 14:05:57 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I haven't seen this women since I graduated from college, 7 years ago. She was pregnant when we graduated but she told me that the baby wasnt mine and that she and the father were getting married, which they did. Last week she contacted my ex-fiance, my daughter's mother, to get my contact information because her husband was not her son's father and she think's that I might be. I just finished talking to her and now she wants me to take a paternity test. I offered to get a paternity test when I found out she was pregnant. And tonight she had the nerve to get angry with me because I told her I am not paying for it. I dont think I should have to pay for the damn thing. I was going to pay for it when I offered to take it 7 years ago but I am not now. Is that wrong?

2007-12-11 14:05:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 23 and have 2years left of my degree training as a Primary teacher which i could travel with, but my bf of 2years has put it to me (we have been having issues -both stubborn) that he thinks I want to travel more than anything and doesnt wnat me to have regrets on my deathbed and says he loves me enough to let me go pursue my hearts desire of travel, altho my other hearts desire is to start a family. He wants to settle. This is my first real relationship - what choice should I make?? Have you had to make this choice before??

2007-12-11 14:01:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a few fights with my wife that have lead to her either attacking me or destroying something of mine and i have had to stop her by force. I have thrown her down and pushed her back or away but she continually comes back at me with anger and kicks and punches. My intent is never to hurt her even when shes beating on me or destroying something of ours...but none the less due to my anger issues I have still laid my hands on her in these instances. She views the fights in a total different manner of me beating her up or abusing her or hitting her when i have never hit her. How do i stop this pattern and make her see what she is doing and why i have done this to her in defense.

2007-12-11 14:00:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I lost my brother 1 month ago today. My mom is adamant that she does not want a "mother's ring" right now - that she can't bear to see his stone there. He was her only son & the light of our lives who left too soon @ 39.

What is a good Christmias idea for my mom without being too emotional, but yet stil remembering bub.....

2007-12-11 13:59:59 · 5 answers · asked by sandypaws 6 in Family

I'm searching for quality and best price for my daughter's wedding.

2007-12-11 13:59:50 · 2 answers · asked by zienna 1 in Weddings

2007-12-11 13:59:40 · 10 answers · asked by nomorecapri 5 in Friends