Is this normal? I feel really sick & jealous and that I am not good enough for him! Do all men watch porn while in a relationship??
2007-12-11 14:29:40 · 19 answers · asked by *dream weaver* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes alot of men do watch porn even in relationships.
as normal you feel like you are not good enough or not as attractive but,most woman would feel like that so thats kind of normal.
you just have to know this is some stupid thing that some guys enjoy as woman enjoy romance movies same kind of concept.
2007-12-11 14:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by kingml213 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen I've been with my fiancé for 5 years since I was 17, only once has he ever put that fifth on Infront of me and I went ballistic he has never ever done it since because he respects me loves and cares for me and knows that it is highly inappropriate to do that whilst in my company all guys look at it its just in their genes I suppose u could say my point is if he does it in his own company and I'm not there then I don't really care if it was Infront of me that's awhole different thing. It used to really bother me that he watched it when he wasn't with me but after being with some one for so long other things become more important and ur faced with real and bigger problems, but since u are pregnant as a woman and the person who is carrying his child he should have more respect for u, specially since u are highly emotional at the moment and very sensetive he should make u feel like ur the most desirable woman to face this earth u should be put up on a pedestal! and what ever u want he should get it for u how ever ur feeling he needs to address it. Just tell him straight out I feel uncomfortable with u watching porn and I want u to try stop, because as ur baby grows up u can't have that filth on or any where near him/her. If he doesn't know then he can't change can he? this is ur time hun! ur pregnancy should be full of happiness and joy not worrying about him and his unhealthy habit. Good luck sweetie :)
2016-05-23 03:58:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's an idea if you are jealous. Get a camera, shoot a short porn flick yourself and post it on his favourite porn site!! Short answer: any man with testosterone running wild in their veins has a peek at porn from time to time. The ones that say they don't are either gay or liars.
2007-12-11 14:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't speak for all men but I did. I was married at the time and hope that was not a contributing factor in our divorce. I did love her but she did not seem to want it as much as I did. Instead of divorcing or cheating on her with someone else - I went online. Ironically she ended up cheating and leaving me. My only suggestion would be to ask him the same question you are asking us. In other words, communicate even though it can be embarrassing and painful.
2007-12-11 15:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by B_B_Bishop 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Porn is a fact of life...
You should encourage it and feel safe that he is not out on the town looking for another woman. Maybe join him in his search for porn for arousal. My wife and I do it. Go to some strip clubs with him. Totally trendy!
Open up to your sexual side! Sex is not as bad as your mother taught you. It's healthy! After our first 3-some my wife and I became closer.
Hope this helps.
2007-12-11 14:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by craig d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Right on Richard J.
Make sure that porn isn't a substitute for lack of satisfaction. I'm not saying it is, but it happens.
Which would you prefer, he sought variety from other real women, or women on video?
Just talk to him about it.
2007-12-11 14:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by E. F. Hutton 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are into porn. Those who are, are completely normal. What is strange is that you feel sick and jealous, when maybe you should try to understand him. Maybe hang around when he's watching porn and see what happens. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised!
2007-12-11 14:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Most men do, if they say otherwise then they're lying. Just make sure it's an occasional thing and not some crazy addiction. Oh and for the love of god stop saying " whilst"
2007-12-11 14:35:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
A lot of men do unfortunately. I would feel the same way you do. But it's completely normal.
2007-12-11 14:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
haha yes its normal...guys are perves lol..theresnot much you can do. but i will tell you i bet he would love it if you watched it with him. i know you prob think it gross....but i dont think he will. i am not a big fan of porn either, i find it pointless lol. but my boyfriends favorite thing is for me to watch it with him lol
2007-12-11 14:36:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋