settlement, but still be in "love" with her. I feel this guy is he says they only got divorced because of his mother in law?
2007-12-11 14:13:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of course!
People get divorced for MANY reasons - not JUST for "not loving each other" anymore ;);););)
2007-12-11 14:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Canuck 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im not very sure what you are trying to ask but I think I can read between the lines to what you are asking, I think you are trying ask why a man can be so bitter & angry after the financial settlement? If this is the question then my answer is sure men can get very bitter & nasty after a divorce especially when money is a key factor, but it takes a real man to move on & get over it.
2007-12-11 15:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by penelope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could still be in love with his first wife and married you because you were there, convenient and still love you but not like he did his first wife.
Family interference plays a major roll in many divorces. I have that but, I also have a husband who listens, can get upset with me or without yet, we still understand where one or the other is coming from.
2007-12-11 14:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mignon F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a valid concern. Each relationship is built over time with many experiences and growth together. It will take time and energy to undo all the memories and effort of the old relationship. On some it is hard and take longer to get over.
If you care about the person, appreciate the quality, acknowledge his pain and comfort him through this journey. If he is a quality person, he will for sure appreciate your help.
2007-12-11 14:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is still in love with her,you say in your question that they only got divorced because of the mother in law.
why do you write "love" like its a joke or foreign to you? because he isnt giving love to you. youre the booty call or the person who "will do" til he finds something better. its really disrespectful of him to be having you round when youre getting feelings for him and they arent going to get returned to you. (unless she doesnt take him back)
it would be better for you to stay away from him. obviously he likes her and you dont want to be the consolation prize.
2007-12-11 14:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Yes
2. Can still be in love with her
3. the MIW? stay out of it. iTs between them.
4. you want her then you decide how much you want to put up
with and ...
5. Kids? her with ex-hubby -> between them.
6. you marry her, you inherit all of that with her.
7. respect her privacy when she is mad about something. Leave it be.
8. iF you can't hack it...end the relationship now.
2007-12-11 14:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by Special_K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was that much in love with her, no interference from mother or mother-in-law would have made the divorce possible.
2007-12-11 14:17:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you think he's still in love with his ex, ask him. Tell him what you see and discuss it.
2007-12-11 14:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sure, stranger things have happened.
2007-12-11 14:17:48 · answer #9 · answered by Jen70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He married her for love. It will take time for that to go away
2007-12-11 14:16:57 · answer #10 · answered by docC 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋